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原帖由 gemiling 於 11-3-21 13:03 發表
I only have 1 account.

I am not saying you 勾人地個老公. I am just saying 正當人家 can also take naked pictures for their OWN husband, maybe that is quite stupid but there is nothing wrong with that ...

You are using your own thinking, I'm using my own thinking. That's it.

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If she is wearing your shirt, then you should warn her or fire her. Cos that is quite different, that is really crossing the line.

原帖由 gril914 於 11-3-20 14:19 發表
I got this promble also. But she was wear my shirt and taken the sexy photo !! Oh What can I do.

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I only have 1 account.

I am not saying you 勾人地個老公. I am just saying 正當人家 can also take naked pictures for their OWN husband, maybe that is quite stupid but there is nothing wrong with that. Of cos if she is using that to 勾人地個老公 then that is wrong.. and we cannot say that she is 100% using that to 勾人地個老公, unless 樓主 has checked that she sent the photo to someone who is not her husband.
Why is it that if someone take nake picture = 100% for 勾老??

原帖由 lily-of-valley 於 11-3-19 14:00 發表

But the matter was you simply mixed up your situation and your maid's situation.

Do you take these photo to please your husband?

If your boss wife fired you the reason was you take these photo, jus ...

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I got this promble also. But she was wear my shirt and taken the sexy photo !! Oh

What can I do.

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Is your maid married?Maybe she only take these photos and send back to her husband by SMS?

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原帖由 gemiling 於 11-3-19 12:31 發表
Sorry I can't type chinese with this computer. but I really like to reply to your message.

我地而家係請工人, 唔係一個"性工作者"網, 如佢需要影呢Ｄ私人相? 點解要做工人. ...

But the matter was you simply mixed up your situation and your maid's situation.

Do you take these photo to please your husband?

If your boss wife fired you the reason was you take these photo, just simply hire a maid to do your post was OK. But if such boss, I won't work, such 事頭婆hard to deal with.

But this is a home, not office.

You insist the maid long way from home, I already answered, no need to talk again.

Oh, 有樣野唔記得話你知, 本小姐對结咗婚嘅男人無興趣, 識我嘅人都知, date我嘅男人一定未註過册. 呢方面, 無一個男人敢呃我, 因會比我斬死. 我情願唔嫁, 都唔揾註過册嘅佬, 包括離婚同死老婆.

一定唔會有去婆懷疑我勾人老公. 我行得正企得正, 你嘅比喻, 好唔實際. 我講野一句就一句.

Just a coinsidence, this same question recent someone talking for the maid said before. Are you the same person use different name?

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Sorry I can't type chinese with this computer. but I really like to reply to your message.

我地而家係請工人, 唔係一個"性工作者"網, 如佢需要影呢Ｄ私人相? 點解要做工人. <-- yes I know this is not "性工作者"網 of cos! You don't have to be so sarcastic. Why do you assume she is definitely a hooker? she being a maid has nothing to do with why 需要影呢Ｄ私人相, assuming that she is sending that to her husband.
OF COS like i have said before, if she is doing something else apart from that with those photo. SHE SHOULD BE FIRED.

Personal Business我解作私人事, 而私人事, 而正當人家影呢Ｄ相來做乜? 取悅自己個老公? 定去勾人地個老公?
<-- why 正當人家 can't take this photo? like it said if it was for her own husband, then that is her own business rite?

山長水遠來做野? 食得咸魚低得喝. 唔使迫佢地來嘅, 公平D好. <-- yes 公平D好, she is here to work in the house as maid, but doesn't mean she
賣身 to you, like i said again, if she is doing that for her own then that is her own business. 食得咸魚低得喝, she has to 低得 the long hours, away from home and all that, but doesn't mean she can't do something personal at her own time. 唔使迫佢地來嘅, yes we didn't force them to come, but it is the situation back at their homeland that force them to come, if you can support your family with a job right next door, will you want to leave your home and travel all the way to another country to work for another family?

調返轉頭, 如老公在大陸或外地, 會唔會包二奶? 女人又會唔會紅杏出牆? 係一個無得討論嘅問題. <-- yes, i agree, we won't know.

唔查又點知佢有無做hooker? 唔通等嫖客拍門當自己屋企係一樓一? <-- Now that 樓主 has found the picture, she should check this, of cos, I am jst saying again, she should be fired if she is found doing that, but if she is not, then she has done nothing wrong to deserve to be fired.

使唔使咁幫佢講野呀? <-- You don't have to be so angry at what I said, I am jst 就事論事.

Please think about this. If you are working in a company and if your bosses are a couple.. and one day in the office when you left your phone on the table and go for a meeting, the lady boss checked your phone and found some pictures of yours. then she said she wants to fire you cos she thinks you are going to seduce her husband... what will you think? I don't think you will think she is right to check your phone to start with.

I am not saying that the maid is definitely right, cos I won't know if she is really using the photo to send to her husband or for some other use.

I am just saying, if she is using the photo for the right way, then as an employer, there is nothing you can do. Cos that is her private matter.

原帖由 lily-of-valley 於 11-3-18 19:31 發表

My meaning Personal business just 解釋為"私人事"
not as your meaning 私人生意.

I write in 中文:

我地而家係請工人, 唔係一個"性工作者"網, 如佢需要影呢Ｄ私人相? 點解要做工人.

Personal Business我解作私 ...

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原帖由 gemiling 於 11-3-18 10:55 發表
But honestly, if the photo is for her to send to her husband back at home.. Then it is her own personal business rite?

If she is taking good care of your baby and has not done anything wrong to your ...

Agree. Nothing to do with the suitation right now. Dunno what she's going to do with 'her' pictures. But if I am her maam I will start keeping an eye on her. Actions must be taken immediately if something turns weird suddenly.

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原帖由 gemiling 於 11-3-18 16:02 發表
I think you got me wrong ... Personal business doesn't mean 私人生意... it means 私事. Please understand that first.

Of cos if she is a hooker as in doing BUSINESS.. then, she should be fired. But i ...

My meaning Personal business just 解釋為"私人事"
not as your meaning 私人生意.

I write in 中文:

我地而家係請工人, 唔係一個"性工作者"網, 如佢需要影呢Ｄ私人相? 點解要做工人.

Personal Business我解作私人事, 而私人事, 而正當人家影呢Ｄ相來做乜? 取悅自己個老公? 定去勾人地個老公?

山長水遠來做野? 食得咸魚低得喝. 唔使迫佢地來嘅, 公平D好.

調返轉頭, 如老公在大陸或外地, 會唔會包二奶? 女人又會唔會紅杏出牆? 係一個無得討論嘅問題.

唔查又點知佢有無做hooker? 唔通等嫖客拍門當自己屋企係一樓一?

使唔使咁幫佢講野呀?

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I think you got me wrong ... Personal business doesn't mean 私人生意... it means 私事. Please understand that first.

Of cos if she is a hooker as in doing BUSINESS.. then, she should be fired. But if she is actually taking those pictures to send to her husband back at home, then that is her private matter (私事). These helpers come all the way to HK to work, maybe they also need to somehow maintain the relationship with their own husbands.

I am not siding the maid, but I must say, something they are very poor cases as in having to leave their kids and families behind to work all the way here, of cos you can say that they are well paid and can later go back home with lots of money, but think about it, if you are give a job to leave your baby and husband home, no matter how much you are paid, it is still hard to take rite?

And to start with, the act of checking her phone is illegal, she can actually sue you for it.

I want to stress again, I SUPPORT she should be FIRED if she is found doing hooker stuff or anything indecent. But if it was just for her husband, then I don't see that she has done anything wrong as that is her personal business - 私事

and if she is good to your baby and your husband is trustable and you know she did not do anything to seduce him, then I think you should think twice before saying you want to fire her.

原帖由 lily-of-valley 於 11-3-18 11:02 發表

We are hiring maid, this was not a hooker web. If she need these personal pictures, why she worked as a maid?

Personal business seems not explain as this.

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原帖由 gemiling 於 11-3-18 10:55 發表
But honestly, if the photo is for her to send to her husband back at home.. Then it is her own personal business rite?

If she is taking good care of your baby and has not done anything wrong to your ...

We are hiring maid, this was not a hooker web. If she need these personal pictures, why she worked as a maid?

Personal business seems not explain as this.

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