唉.....結婚頭幾年我有買過禮物比佢,但佢好似完似唔記得咁,自己離埋喊,暗示過又有,佢就好似無感覺咁囉,之後我嬲到連買比佢既禮物都掉埋,所以佢真係唔知我買過禮物比佢囉,之後我都睇化左啦,因為都係哂氣Doublefishes 發表於 11-7-20 10:26
I don't expect any special occasions that my husband would give me anything. No expectation then no ...
同埋當時佢係錢銀方面係較緊, 佢都話浪漫要錢買. 不過我個人當時, 都會向佢製造驚喜, 我買返花俾佢, 又買左一大堆糖裝落個BOX 俾佢...... 就算後期, 佢買野俾我, 都成日話買手提

Doublefishes 發表於 11-7-20 10:26
I don't expect any special occasions that my husband would give me anything. No expectation then no ...
呢20+年...我由唔習慣 -> 慢慢適應 -> 看淡了由流淚 -> 嬲 -> 不笑置之既然知道呢果男人永遠都唔會改變..唯有自己變..所以妳果句 : no expectation then no despair 好岩用..之前我就係試得多, 仲會替佢找藉口, 仲充滿幻想..但最後只會更加傷感現在我改變了, 愛自己多些..(我以前200% 都凡事想佢先, 買衫都只買比佢, 自己睇衫都廢事, 佢有病更加好像amysnlee 柑, 做足晒)...連老爺都照顧埋但原來掉轉過來係唔得既....我父親入左半年醫院, 佢只探過3次...算啦..實在太多太多...想通左了...真係要好像果首歌柑: 活得比佢好