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發表於 13-11-22 02:40 |只看該作者

(知bk啲jm唔中意國內人,但係我係香港都已經生活咗十幾年家都係哩渡啦,只係傾訴 或者有人出主意,我已經好累啦會好長好長)我同老公結婚14年 ,有1女2仔,老公大我7歲,我哋係廣州展銷會認識,果陣時老公係一名打工仔,佢同佢老細過來參展認識 ,之後同佢拍拖2年結婚,結婚時無車無樓.係深圳租樓住,我係深圳返工,老公原本人工得7000幾,我有3000幾,十幾年前萬幾蚊都算好夠用,之後老公辭咗份工打算自己創業,我都好支持佢辭咗自己份工來香港同佢一起,創業邊有咁易呀!失敗一次我哋用嗮全部積蓄,果陣時同99 ,62同住,好細單位6個人住,我要料理全家哋餸,佢屋企人對我好好,之後有試過要用佢細個儲既碎銀,無嗮錢,要同娘家借,之後老公出去做嘢幾年又自己開公司,哩次非常成功,岩岩開始公司得我兩個,我負責大陸開會傾工程,老公主要負責香港同外國,之後工程越來越多,生意越來越好,跟住公司請人,開始2個之後5個7個10個到依傢20幾人的中小企業,我在公司請人之後就懷孕了,所以安安心心係屋企做全職太太,果時我哋已經買咗層700幾尺既單位,老公寫我名,第二年我哋既寶貝女出世,老公非常愛佢,跟住第四年我哋既孖仔出世,老公又買咗層千幾尺既大單位同車,依然寫我名,這時我是所有人羨慕的對象,用(苦盡甘來)來形容我一啲錯都無 在懷孕時老公怕我辛苦就已經請工人照顧 生女時請陪月調養 話我以前陪佢挨苦 現在要我好好享福 之後生孖仔又請多個工人,老公對我真係好好 我唔開心老公幾忙都要停下來哄我開心 出國一定會買好多禮物俾我哋四個 會陪我行街 陪我返老家 對我屋企超好,如果我話唔中意佢做咩 佢就唔會做,有時佢需要去廣州應酬 幾夜都要返來,有試過早上機去北京 晚上無機返來 我叫佢第二日返來佢都唔肯話掛住我哋 非要夜晚飛深圳半夜回家 佢真係個好老公,我以爲我既人生就會咁幸福美滿,點知今年卻是噩夢的開始,這個女人幾乎燬咗我幸福的家。


去年尾 佢全公司吃飯我年年都有去,我同老公到咗酒店 佢公司同事大部分都來咗 我一入去就發覺有一個女仔睇我既眼光好唔同,女人既感覺話我知 好唔尋常,到吃飯時都發覺佢不停望過來,我就轉頭睇住老公講哩個女仔幾時請架?老公就問我咩事,我話無事 就係覺得奇怪 ,老公就笑笑話有咩好奇怪呀?我都對自己講可能多心 其實唔係多心 就係太信任我老公 佢辜負咗我既信任 我睇老公個樣又無咩唔妥,對我又係同以前一樣關懷備至,所以無多想 直到今年5月老公要去外國出差話去3日返來,老公出差第二晚我收到哩個女人既whatsapp 照片 我一打開睇到就差點暈咗。 明天再寫 好纍


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pomanlife    發表於 13-12-6 17:55
Yang81  你一定要堅持冇離婚,睇只雞一定唔夠你長命  發表於 13-11-27 14:19
brainmum  樓主:小心, 香港小三都係bkmember, 改下個主題, 另外唔好太白比你仇家知晒  發表於 13-11-26 21:33
rosemimi22  要振作,加油,唔好放棄。  發表於 13-11-24 18:51
BBJOJO    發表於 13-11-23 13:51
lina9316  等妳  發表於 13-11-23 09:52
bettylam  我未追,係咪SEND情慾照比你  發表於 13-11-22 20:29


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發表於 14-1-19 01:13 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

meimei. 你ok 嗎?


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發表於 14-1-19 00:40 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

終於都一口氣睇哂樓主個post.真係好感激樓主最終都忍住道氣.吾俾小三坐正.我係香港人.但我都睇吾起1d為左錢去搶人老公嘅人.希望樓主同老公可以開開心心行埋以後嘅路
給樓主老公:並吾係每個女人都肯同你捱窮.又肯幫你生3個小朋友.每個女人都想永遠好似18.22歲咁嘅樣.既然樓主吾介意為左你.為左小朋友而捱到殘哂.請你好好珍惜樓主.因為茫茫人海入面好難搵到一個真正愛你嘅人...


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1606#
發表於 14-1-18 15:38 |只看該作者
我希望係樓主係因為公事而忙著 先唔得閒覆!!
佢老公都已經知小三係咩人, 講到咁樣, 都仍然中個頭埋去
我諗唔似佢老公 ! 可能已經用錢解決了!


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發表於 14-1-18 15:00 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

咁耐都無樓主消息,睇怕C6又與小三糾纏不清。




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發表於 14-1-18 14:24 |只看該作者

引用:一次過睇晒,好戥樓主心痛好彩你先生回頭是

原帖由 coffeejoeybb 於 14-01-17 發表
一次過睇晒,好戥樓主心痛
好彩你先生回頭是岸!希望你們一路相依相愛到白頭



...
依家都唔知係唔係回頭


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發表於 14-1-18 12:44 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

我好同情你


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發表於 14-1-17 23:44 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

一次過睇晒,好戥樓主心痛
好彩你先生回頭是岸!希望你們一路相依相愛到白頭




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發表於 14-1-17 17:03 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

樓主耐無消息,唔知搞成點?



박하 : 300년이 지나도 당신을 기억한다. ; 저하 : 300년이 지나도 당신을 사랑합니다.


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發表於 13-12-9 16:52 |只看該作者
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發表於 13-12-9 16:33 |只看該作者

回覆:meimei: 的帖子

恭喜呀!好開心睇到happy ending!




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發表於 13-12-8 13:29 |只看該作者
睇到我喊!樓主,你好有智慧!解決得好好!祝你同先生白頭到老!


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發表於 13-12-8 12:14 |只看該作者

回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

Support u


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發表於 13-12-3 10:31 |只看該作者
回覆 meimei: 的帖子

恭喜你呀,即是一封信和紅酒餐和當面對質,你老公就醒來?


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發表於 13-12-2 22:07 |只看該作者
加油!姐妹我佩服你!希望你以後幸福生活下去喊了!


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發表於 13-12-2 21:49 |只看該作者

引用:回覆+tc001039+的帖子離婚但感恩+[複製鏈接

原帖由 caca11 於 13-12-02 發表
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離婚但感恩 [複製鏈接] http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid ...
我沒有,我都係單親家庭成長!
你會唔會敏感左??我只係從你的回復比我的感覺啫,唔使咁大反應嘅。。。感覺only




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回覆 tc001039 的帖子

離婚但感恩 [複製鏈接] http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=7070549

may be u can see my previous 帖子. I m not trying to prove anything.

But i do not agree people stereotyping single parent family or woman who get divorce.


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發表於 13-12-2 21:20 |只看該作者
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difference case... when we divorce, all his money in my account, we even make investment together during our first year after divorce, all in my name and at his own will. Later on, i get him back his portion as i don't need his money, but at my own will; for earning money ability, we have similar level of salary. his initial request is to take my older daughter, but i refuse. but even if he insist and need to take this to court, i am sure i can win, because at that time, my 1st daughter is only 6. Her primary caretaker is my mother, i have a very stable job in HK. He works in mainland. My mother was a retired primary school teacher, my father was a retired secondary school teacher. we have a very big apartment in HK Lsland, and my 1st daughter go to a school near where my mother live ... see, difference case with 樓主 la. My daughters are better off with me. he has no chance.

I did not emphasis i m happy or not, i just try to live a life than is "自在". and in fact, after i refuse him to get in my apartment, everything becomes easier, smoother ... so to me, less hard work, more energy and feel more relax (and to me, i think this is happy) My daughters less sickness (as my ex always 感冒 D囡被 infect) after his departure, my daughters become healthier ... and the benefit just goes on and on and on and on ...

it is really hard to explain if once is happy or not, it is a matter of perception, if you know what i mean.

Now, i can only say that if it was't him who did all the "harmful or hurtful" act years ago, i will not be as strong and as wise as i m now. I m thankful, not to him, but to "God" or "anyone from above" that give me that experience. and i also see this as my karma, and it is got now, after divorce, my karma with him is like debt pay off. even if before this life, i owe him anything, it is now settled and i do not have any relationship to him now. to me, i won't feel glad if bad things happened to him nor sad or jealous if any good things happened to him. to me, he is like a human being like you or anyone i may meet on the street.

I see things so clear now. To me, getting divorce is a better decision, but may not be the case for 樓主, as she said she still have feeling for her husband. But to me, i don't. So, i really support 樓主's decision. Being with her loved once is the most blessed things on earth.

one year after i divorce my ex-husband, i met another guy, who is both good to me and my daughters, who is still single without kid, and to my surprise, i get alone well with his family. This really to my surprise.

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Betsy_Lam  我真係好彩的一個, 帶住2個小朋友, 邊有咁易呀! 恭喜妳!  發表於 13-12-3 11:41
tc001039  恭喜你搵到個愛屋及烏的男人!  發表於 13-12-2 21:37


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回覆:caca11 的帖子

其實你話你現在活得開心,但我從你回覆感覺到你唔係真正的開心!也許你話開心是要鼓勵自己要活得開心!希望你可放低過去,就可以同囡囡過得開心!
你個應該係special case ,你老公accept 晒你所有的條件,但想問如果佢唔接受,上到庭,係咪都有把握可以要晒佢成副身家?



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caca11  多數人總以為離婚或單親就唔開心.may be becos u r not happy, so u can feel sadness only  發表於 13-12-2 21:24


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回覆:俾香港小三逼到無路可行(國內人唔喜勿入)

恭喜晒


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