Never Show up. I prefer they don't come.
My father-in-law was always in bad temper, got drunk, crazy style. A very much trouble maker I have to said. Just don't want my family to meet with him at all. I don't want my mom to worry of !!!
All my family including brothers, sisters, mom comes to see to my baby & me in the hospital. My sisters-in-law come as well, but none of the men from my husband's family show up.