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別墅

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發表於 09-2-18 20:19 |只看該作者
我坐月時99好無文化,隨時用鎖匙直出直入探bb,我叫c6同佢講可唔可以按鐘先/打電話俾我先,佢同62叫c6覆我話"唔鍾意就入房迴避下,我無權阻佢探bb"!

c6仲要好冷淡咁俾order咁講,一句安慰說話都無!

諗起都仲好嬲............

成家封建到暈,間屋佢個仔供既,個老婆無say既!

我生完10日都無呀!


大宅

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2#
發表於 09-2-18 20:33 |只看該作者
我會加防盜鎖,可以係屋內面上鎖.
重要大大聲話-d賊太可怕,bb需要多d安全感:;pppp:


大宅

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3#
發表於 09-2-18 20:43 |只看該作者

如無按鐘/打電話,你可以選擇唔開門


理由係睡左/係浴室/換尿布/喂緊bb

總之係聽唔到/無手開門



侯爵府

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4#
發表於 09-2-18 20:46 |只看該作者
原帖由 sbandliz 於 18/2/2009 20:33 發表
我會加防盜鎖,可以係屋內面上鎖.
重要大大聲話-d賊太可怕,bb需要多d安全感:;pppp:


我都係咁,但嗰個係我媽
我生完佢成日自出自入
試過好幾次我瞓醒佢坐左係廳
嚇得我
之後我反鎖
呀媽問我咩事
我話我怕唔安全呀,你都見好多陌生人行黎行去(哈哈咁啱鄰居裝修)
呀99佢就無la,因我成日係到,未有b前佢地好鐘意自出自入ka
之後我成日係到佢地至唔敢ja.


別墅

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5#
發表於 09-2-18 21:19 |只看該作者
原帖由 sbandliz 於 09-2-18 20:43 發表
如無按鐘/打電話,你可以選擇唔開門
理由係睡左/係浴室/換尿布/喂緊bb總之係聽唔到/無手開門


佢有鎖匙呀。


大宅

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6#
發表於 09-2-18 21:32 |只看該作者
原帖由 Saaa0112 於 09-2-18 21:19 發表


佢有鎖匙呀。


選d鎖要係-如果係屋內面上鎖,係屋外面有鎖匙都開唔到!


珍珠宮

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7#
發表於 09-2-18 21:56 |只看該作者
我生完之後佢地都好似冇咩特別點對我,冇好左亦冇差左!
佢地有我屋企key,好彩都唔會自出自入上黎睇bb


複式洋房

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8#
發表於 09-2-19 00:05 |只看該作者
我有左個時,99 知係女,仲話生女好吖...點知我係政府開刀生完個女,院都未出就問c6 幾時生第二個...
好彩我c6 都係答佢過幾年等我身體好返d先...


大宅

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9#
發表於 09-2-19 00:19 |只看該作者
生完之後,99扮曬佢係bb媽咪,大姑9又以為我b係佢個仔,我俾保嬰xbb食,都俾人審問俾左d咩阿b食,自己兩公婆買左牙骹俾bb,99又扮q曬野,大大聲命令我唔準俾阿bb咬,即場同我丟左牙骹 自己整水俾bb沖涼,99次次幫我+一桶唔同水溫的水入阿b個盆度,又熱又凍,真係為我個仔可憐....:-( :-( ..好多好多


大宅

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10#
發表於 09-2-19 10:02 |只看該作者
原帖由 Cat1218 於 09-2-19 00:19 發表
生完之後,99扮曬佢係bb媽咪,大姑9又以為我b係佢個仔,我俾保嬰xbb食,都俾人審問俾左d咩阿b食,自己兩公婆買左牙骹俾bb,99又扮q曬野,大大聲命令我唔準俾阿bb咬,即場同我丟左牙骹 自己整水俾bb沖涼,99次次幫我+一 ...


你都幾忍得喎


大宅

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11#
發表於 09-2-19 10:08 |只看該作者
我隻99又攪埋d小動作,真係好銀憎佢,如果我唔係因為c6 ga話,我一定插爆佢,仲要插足9世都插唔完個隻


大宅

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12#
發表於 09-2-19 10:16 |只看該作者
原帖由 hinhofion 於 09-2-19 10:08 發表
我隻99又攪埋d小動作,真係好銀憎佢,如果我唔係因為c6 ga話,我一定插爆佢,仲要插足9世都插唔完個隻


搞咩小動作呀, 講來聽聽,
我99如果搞乜小動作, 我唔會因為c6而唔插佢, 因為比佢蝦開一次, 一定會有第二次, 如果明知插完佢, 會同c6嘈, 當然唔會明插啦, 會同佢一齊鬥假, 鬥玩野, 由於我c6唔理我地, 所以99 62玩野時, 我通常都會明插


大宅

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13#
發表於 09-2-19 10:31 |只看該作者
原帖由 十一月 於 09-2-19 10:16 發表


搞咩小動作呀, 講來聽聽,
我99如果搞乜小動作, 我唔會因為c6而唔插佢, 因為比佢蝦開一次, 一定會有第二次, 如果明知插完佢, 會同c6嘈, 當然唔會明插啦, 會同佢一齊鬥假, 鬥玩野, 由於我c6唔理我地, 所以99 62玩野 ...


佢成日候住我b女,成日想湊去玩,我當然唔比la,咪成日打比c6呻,又話我唔比bb佢湊,又話掛住,又話我唔順佢意等等等等....仲有好多野,次次都要係我坐月時先至黎玩野,仲要次次好陰濕唔當住我面玩野,係要係我背後放毒針,點解我會知?就係因為次次打完比c6,c6必定有面色比我睇,以前成日因為咁而嘈,第一胎產後抑鬱都係咁而黎,好彩c6 e+都明白我,亦唔想我再抑鬱,今次c6自己去對付隻99,總之隻99一打黎,一話想上黎,我就好自然咁,自動波係咁喊,我真係好q憎佢,如果唔係因為c6難做,又唔想因為隻臭99而嘈交ga話,我一定插爆佢,佢對我做ga一切,我e世女都記住


侯爵府

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14#
發表於 09-2-19 10:44 |只看該作者
我隻99=> the same, 攪埋d小動作,
However 我真係插爆佢.........

Similar like Saaa's 99,
我坐月時99好無文化,She wanted to have our key so that she can 隨時用鎖匙直出直入,我 say no (directly in front of my c6).
Then, she visit us 5 mins before we went out (to health center, to hospital ....) frequently.
Everytime, she requests to have our key again and again..........
Once, I went to the health center with my helper+baby, I meet her down stair in the garden.
She ask for key again and want to wait in my flat.
I did not give her, and just let her wait in the garden (for about 2 hours).
Then, she complain me in front of his sons and daughters, and cry.........
Then, her other son and daughter foce me to give her my key.
I told all of them that: It is my flat, I pay the mortgage before. If you want to have the key, then pay me back those $ (say 100k).........
I have the right to give the key to anyone or not!

Until now, my 99 should 打電話俾我先 1 day before if she want to visit us!

It is the reality, who pay for/buy the flat, who can speek loudly!

P.S. My husband pay all the other living expenses, and partly of the mortgage of my 99's flat. Therefore, I should share our expenses with my husband and pay mortgate for our flat.


原帖由 Saaa0112 於 09-2-18 20:19 發表
我坐月時99好無文化,隨時用鎖匙直出直入探bb,我叫c6同佢講可唔可以按鐘先/打電話俾我先,佢同62叫c6覆我話"唔鍾意就入房迴避下,我無權阻佢探bb"!

c6仲要好冷淡咁俾order咁講,一句安慰說話都無!

諗起都仲好嬲............

...

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 09-2-19 10:47 編輯 ]


大宅

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發表於 09-2-19 10:44 |只看該作者
原帖由 hinhofion 於 09-2-19 10:31 發表


佢成日候住我b女,成日想湊去玩,我當然唔比la,咪成日打比c6呻,又話我唔比bb佢湊,又話掛住,又話我唔順佢意等等等等....仲有好多野,次次都要係我坐月時先至黎玩野,仲要次次好陰濕唔當住我面玩野,係要係我背後放毒針, ...


佢對我做ga一切,我e世女都記住
大家咁話啦, 都唔明d 99 62咁鍾意上人屋企搞搞震, 有時仲要帶d親戚上來, 我通常都會當佢地透明, 我要上去佢屋企我都會嗌聲佢地, 因為要入屋叫人, 但佢地上我屋企我唔會叫佢地, 因為我根本唔歡迎佢, 唔鍾意佢地上來, 所以我係唔會叫佢地, 即使有甚麼親戚, 我都只會坐係廳中間望住部電視黑面, 連杯水都唔拎出來, 佢地要面, 久而久之佢地就唔再帶人上我屋坐,


侯爵府

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16#
發表於 09-2-19 10:49 |只看該作者
If your husband support your, then you can do what you want.......


原帖由 十一月 於 09-2-19 10:44 發表


佢對我做ga一切,我e世女都記住
大家咁話啦, 都唔明d 99 62咁鍾意上人屋企搞搞震, 有時仲要帶d親戚上來, 我通常都會當佢地透明, 我要上去佢屋企我都會嗌聲佢地, 因為要入屋叫人, 但佢地上我屋企我唔會叫佢地, 因為 ...


大宅

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17#
發表於 09-2-19 11:00 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-19 10:49 發表
If your husband support your, then you can do what you want.......


都唔係, 咁事實係佢阿媽對我唔好在先, 我有對佢好過, 有嘗試同佢地相處, 係佢地好過份, 我容忍唔到, 未有b時我可以忍呢樣忍嗰樣, 阿b出左世, 比佢湊時, 你總是不是, 我地兩公婆梗係有嘈過啦, 我c6話點解唔一齊住都會變到咁, 我就答佢, 好彩無一齊住, 如果一齊住, 我諗日日都有倫理血案發生。c6反應
其實佢偏幫邊一方, 佢都會比人鬧, 所以佢兩邊都唔理


侯爵府

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18#
發表於 09-2-19 11:13 |只看該作者
I want to share my story.
In the pass chinese new year, it happened again!

I got a call at about 9:00 pm. It is my 99.

99: What will you do tomorrow?
I: I have some friends they will visit me in the afternoom. We will have lunch together.
99: That's good. i.e. you will be at home. I will visit you in the afternoon, with 62, my younger son, his wife, his kids. My daughter + her husband may also join us, depends on the time.
I: Sorry, I have schedule in the afternoon.
99: I know. I am your 99, they are your families. You should introduce us to your friends. All your freinds should know who is your 99.
I: However, it is very impolite for me to do that (to my friends). You will disturb our meeting. May be you can come before 11:30 am or after 4:00 pm. It is because our meeting will start at 12:00 - 4:00pm.
99: I must visit you during that time. I should sleep in the morning. As you know, I won't wake up until 11 p.m. Do you think you are so important so that I should use my sleeping time in the morning and visit you? After 4:00pm, I should prepear my dinner. I will be busy for dinner then.
I: Then, find another day.
99: I tell you now, listen carefully. You are 'very very very very' impolite if you refuse us to visit you tomorrow in the afternoon. I am your 99, your husband's mother, your mother in-law. I can do what I want in your flat xxxxxxxxxxx
I: OK, you have the right to do what you want. However, I won't open my door for you.

Then, my 99 is very angry, and cut the call.

The next day, I told what happened to my husband. And my husband shout at me:

husband: You are too stupid! You should not answer like that. If my mother call you again next time, never tell her your schedule. You should ask her what do she want before give any responds to her. And you should only answer : yes, she can or no, she can't. And never explain your reason.


侯爵府

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19#
發表於 09-2-19 12:07 |只看該作者
It is a good begining......其實佢偏幫邊一方, 佢都會比人鬧, 所以佢兩邊都唔理

I remember that ........
in the first few years, when I 嘈 with 99, I always remind him (my husband) 兩邊都唔理, go to toilet or down on the street or back home.
It is because the argue is between 2 women. Men are better not involved in. One is your wife, one is your mother..... what can you do?
However, my 99 force him (my husband) stand on her side........ she always cry in front of him, as well as his brother/sister, request others (62, other brother/sisters) to give presure to him......
Some years later, my husband stand on my side. However, I always remind him don't involve in our argue.

And now, he support me (for everything I do for 99). He believe that all those argue are started by my 99...... she is a problem marker!

My experience is: Don't force your husband. Don't give any presure to your husband. Then, your husband will stand on your side.


男爵府

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20#
發表於 09-2-19 12:07 |只看該作者
我6299都有我地屋企key & 試過唔出就自己走上黎
我就同我老公講, 叫佢同返佢父母講: "下次上黎前電個電話通知聲, 可能我地會出左架"
咁佢地之後就無試過自出自入喇

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