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有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

hello ,

各位"老板级"媽媽 , 有時間可以大家傾下做老板及做媽媽的苦 and 樂. 我有一女差不多三歲, 現大肚, 6月初生.
要做一個好媽媽 and 做一個好老板, 真的不易.

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haileymama

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發表於 05-1-14 00:58 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

我都係岩岩開始做咋！
不過我個女15個月大，我老公自己有份工，所以無人可以係屋企湊女，唯有山長水遠咁，每日帶佢由西灣河去黃大仙俾我99湊，再返西環開鋪。夜晚又去接番佢番屋企，同佢沖涼，

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發表於 05-1-14 01:30 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

haileymama

原來你係'自業人仕'黎架

你做邊行架 ???

大少, 二小姐, 請問有乜FUN庫呀.

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發表於 05-1-14 09:37 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

I want to open a small shop to sell some healthy products. 做老板真係辛苦過打工 ?-(

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發表於 05-1-14 12:58 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

I need to go to work at day time, then after work need to go to my husband's learning centre, until 8 or 9 something pm, Week-end just can be really off at sunday afternoon.

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發表於 05-1-14 14:31 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

haileymama,

你每天都是 hk & kowloon 兩邊走, 好辛苦呀.好浪費時間.
點解不請工人 ? 如不放心工人自己在家, 可以叫99白天留你家. 我有請工人, 白天叫mama留在家幫手.
做一個好媽媽 and 做一個好老板已好辛苦. 我不想還要做一個工人--同bb沖涼，同bb訓覺，執埋間屋.

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發表於 05-1-14 14:40 |只看該作者

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dorchiu,
be a boss, you need take care of all things --money & even toilet paper. you must be 24hours working, not really work because you need to think many things about the office/shop.

if be a worker, just need to care the work.
if a worker have a baby. they have holiday 2-4weeks before & 4-6weeks after born the baby.
the boss also have --but --2-4hours before & 4-6hours after born the baby.

if you just start to be a boss, you must 有心理準備.

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發表於 05-1-14 14:53 |只看該作者

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emily,

i think you will have your dinner very late , like me, i take my dinner about 10pm.
i no need back to office on sat & sunday. but i need take care my baby, may be go to the park or join any lesson with my baby. mon to fri, i have no so much time talk with my baby, i want talk to her must more on sat & sun.

私人時間 ??? 每晚12點後. 但已很tired.

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發表於 05-1-14 15:05 |只看該作者

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Ivy

Yes, dinner time about 9:30. luckly we got a halper to look after our son. every night after dinner just can spen 1or 2 hrs with him, then him will go to sleep la!!

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發表於 05-1-14 15:27 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

emily,
i also have a helper take care my baby (about 3years old, girl)

after dinner, me & my husband will play with baby about 1 hour & let her go to sleep.
she need go to school everyday afternoon, not K1, there is any class for small baby 2-3years old.
next year she will be K1.

how old of your baby ?

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發表於 05-1-14 16:53 |只看該作者

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Hi Ivy

My Son he's 33mth now. We try to ask the Kindergarden can he join in the middle of the year, but they said must wait until he is 3 yrs. So he just can go the paygroup 2 days per week, but my husband and the hapler both said now the class is no fun,(the other kit is too young) so we stop from this week, he is really go non-thing to do

just stay home or go drown to the shopping centre or park. :exclaim:

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發表於 05-1-14 20:05 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

Yes, be a good mum is not easy, and be a good boss even harder.
If you having a business with another partner, have much headache.
Sometime, you need more time for your family, especially for your child, you have to receive so many "long face". They never consider and always thinks it is 多餘, due to you have a helper at home. By the way, please kindly tell me, will you ask your maid go to see your child's teacher? Will you ask your maid go to the doctor with your child when he is very very sick? And will you ask your maid go to school interview with your child???
Anyway, take it easy.......

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發表於 05-1-14 21:12 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

hello lamlam-ma,

i understand helper not equal than a mother.
i never think my hepler can replace my position inside my family, inside my heart of my baby.
i will take my baby to see the doctor, go to school to see the teacher.......

i feel hard because i want to be a good mother,
not to find any excuse to resign be a mother.

i think you have a partner work with you together, yes or not ?! that why you feel headache.
i also have a partner, but not work in HK together,
he is a EUROPEAN & work in EUROPE.

Anyway, BOTH take it easy.......

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發表於 05-1-14 21:20 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

hi emily,

my baby now 34mths (she born 8/march/02)
i think your baby & my baby have similar age.

my baby start school for NURSERY aug of last year, for half day. i know there are many school accept the baby 2-3years old. the same school also have normal class of Kindergarden, for age over 2.8 years.
i think you find any Kindergarden for your baby, yes or not ?? he can start school this year AUG.

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發表於 05-1-15 00:11 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

蕭夫人：
我岩岩同老公開左間鋪賣衫咋，諗住試下囉！

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發表於 05-1-15 00:22 |只看該作者

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Ivy.CL 寫道:
haileymama,

你每天都是 hk & kowloon 兩邊走, 好辛苦呀.好浪費時間.
點解不請工人 ? 如不放心工人自己在家, 可以叫99白天留你家. 我有請工人, 白天叫mama留在家幫手.
做一個好媽媽 and 做一個好老板已好辛苦. 我不想還要做一個工人--同bb沖涼，同bb訓覺，執埋間屋.

我都係開左無耐，一切都未stable，而且我又無地方俾工人訓喎。所以請工人要遲一步先諗！
我99係一個好衰既人（所以我俾個女佢湊都係迫不得意！），試過叫佢去我屋企湊，又唔願日日過黎，叫佢係我屋企訓又話唔制，佢係我度，連飯都唔會幫我煮架！寧願我地做到死死下番黎買飯俾佢食！佢曾經好衰咁講過，話要俾8000蚊佢，佢先會幫我湊架，所以今次我無叫過佢架，係佢個仔求佢咋！
我諗我已經好耐無食過一餐屋企飯喇，但係根本無可能放工返去煮飯，不過日日食飯盒真係好厭！

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發表於 05-1-15 00:29 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

我都係呀，不過我好過好多人，因為我係home office，我老公都係。
不過有時我都好忙，忙到係人o地唔信，我可以同老公兩個埋頭苦干到深夜或通頂，所以都要請工人。
開始有BB時我話要請工人，我老公個妹就成日話：唔使請啦，你響屋企做o野再“體“埋個BB米得囉，但有苦自知，我o地雖然響屋企可以得閒時望下亞B，但做過媽咪都會知，無可能能兩頭兼顧。我地做設計，成日趕稿，有時飯都唔得閒食，根本無可能！不過其它人就會好唔理解到。
:cry: 記得我駝住肚臨生前半個月仲開緊通頂。坐緊月又成日要偷偷過工作房做野（因為亞媽唔比我做）。
不過我都好享受現在的生活，只是有時都幾尷尬，因為同個客講講下電話會聽到亞B喊聲 :lol:

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發表於 05-1-15 00:59 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽媽是自顧人士(自已是老板)

haileymama,

間鋪賣衫 ? bb衫 ?? 女人衫 ?? 男人 ?
可能有朹機會"幫親" ?!
你99好差, 好差呀 !!!!
我同99関係有D似外人, 一年食一兩次反.她很大年紀, 耳聽得不太好, 基本好少出街.
平時老公會帶baby返去同她玩.

啤心機做呀 !! 快D請個人幫下手.

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