I thought here is a place for ppl to share their feelings and ask for advices~ I jus asked 2 questions that doesn't mean I don't care about the one in my tummy right now! U don't know me, u don't know what I did everyday to make sure my baby is okay ~ please don't judge me by what i wrote in here. I do appreciate ur advices tho, thank you very much!
I'm just the kind of person who worry million stuff everyday,always over thinking ~and I do feel more secure to have some back up plan or planning for the future! I know it's not easy to rise a child, Im not a young dump lady who just want to hv a kid for fun or becuz they r cute! Say whatever u wanna say but I know what I am doing and I will try my best to be a good mum~
原帖由 Renault 於 12-05-13 發表
I thought here is a place for ppl to share their feelings and ask for advices~ I jus asked 2 questio ...
I am sorry and I think I and LittleMss means nothing on blame u or hurt you.
What I really want to say is concentrate on things that happening but not future things.
All of us went thru IVF, this is really a stressful treatment that cannot share outside.
But all we know, the miscarriage rate of IVF is somehow higher, lots of JMs loss their little angels before they can come to world.
I personally hope time flies faster and faster. Pregnant thinking of any ectopic chances, see fetus heartbeats hoping it grows well, 11-12 weeks hopes the OSCAR test pass, and now 15 weeks hope to see it grows well on next gynae appointment, and hoping 20 weeks quickly come and make sure baby are well in development... And seeing this page for too long, even after structure ultrasound, some babies didn't survive...
And the effort to get a successful pregnant is so much.
I just think, after the baby born and then can think on or plan forwards. How much time need to rest after give birth ? Baby in good health condition to get another ?
I also plan to have two babies. But somehow need step by step. Need a v good body before get another FET right ?
I see this thread for IVF since it was here.
LittleMss is a v straight forward person, but she never mean to hurt anyone. If you see her thread again, u should felt her urge to your goodness, she is that kind of people that 恨鐵不成鋼。No one is going to be royal of this thread, but somehow, she is really always with good advice, with lots of patience answering repeated question, though at times you can feel her stress, unhappy and heart broken times if you added her as friends.
I know I speak too much, but the warmth of here is what that support many JMs success and pass the failure sad times.
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