there nothing between me and my hubby la..
I always mad with him on some small issue..
I though he understand why I am angry but most of the time he said sorry without understand it..
even worse is that he will say sth like.. don;t know why u will be unhappy on such a small issue..
he is not good at romantic thing..
I thinks its difference between HK and Sg in term of culture lor..
his parent is boring too and his dad seldom say anything and don;t know hot to express his feeling..
he is slowly getting there..
when we have argument, it usually settle before we go to bed..
I just need some private time and space to claim down..
so hide myself in the guest bedroom is the best option.
pigpig,
I think you will find this is a comon problem with all guys they don't see things we see them, and sometimes they just don't know what they have don't but will says sorry for the sake of getting it over, my husband is the same but he has started to learn to see things my way but it will have to take a while..... the silent treatment is a women's best weapon! hehehe....
Kitchu,
Most of the time i will be at my parents in Manchester, and will visit my husbands families in Scotland, then maybe venture down south to visit my friends if they can't make it to Manchester.
I think most of the men are like this.
they always don;t see thing like a woman do.
he always think its a minor issue..
I wish I can have a romantic and funny hubby,
he is not :-( :-( :-(
and even worse is that my hubby always try to talk very logically when u are upset.. which make u more unhappy.. I teach him when I am upset try not to think it in a logically way, sometime we can upset out of nothing esp during period.
I told him when I am upset just give me kiss and hug and make me feel love and safe..
but he doesn;t always do that and usually make it worse by trying to talk too much
Kitchu
I don;t know how to lie too..
my hubby said I am the worse person to lie (esp in front of him)
:-( :-(
althought I don;t usually lie in front of him just as we don;t have secret
Pigpig,
it takes time gah lah! My husband was the same when we were dating i had to put alot of time and effort into the relationship and even now i sometimes have to tell him to stoping being logical and come and give me a hug! hehehe... I sat him down and told him that guys think with brain but when a women is upset she just want a hug! I can think logical too! i just drumed it into his head so he understands now!
Yeah ah! i am coming back to UK for visiting family and friends, esp my parents haven't seen my baby yet
yes ar, some roundabout are very confusing. sometimes, i even go to the wrong direction. :-( i had a mock exam last week, although i didn't make any serious fault, but i made lots of minor faults. such as did not see the mirror enough.and wrong gear i am taking the real one on 2nd march.(first test) very 緊張!!!!!
i am fine, but Trevor was ill since last saturday. he had high temp and vomit and cough.
his temp is normal today, but still cough a lot. he is very "good boy" when he was ill, peace and quiet. but today, as soon as he gets better, he is naughty again
Pigpig,
My husband will be joining me towards the end of my trip, cause he can't take that much time off work.
There are no prefect guy and if there were they would want the prefect gal right??
at the end of the day as long as he is a good husband to you and good daddy to your kids and the little disagreements don't matter as you mention that it will be resolved before bed time then that is fine, as someone i know says when you love someone you not only love their good point you have to learn to deal with their bad points mah!
Kitchu
Yeah ah! i grew up in UK mah so i have lot's of friends there loh.... I am bringing them the best 手信..... my baby! hehehe..... i have already sending back a few cans of my baby's formula so i don't have to carry them, and my parents told me not to buy anything cause i always send them stuff anyway so i should be ok!
I agree with you, we sometimes feel stress then we just need to get it off our chest, as long as you know that it's not going to effect the relationship then a little fight will do you both good!
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