Still remember I told you that my left hand is very painful? Dr said it is quite serious and he suggested me to ask someone to take care bb for me in the meantime... so I asked if my PIL can take care Chester for me for a week and we sent Chester to their home on Monday night. However, they call my honey last night and asked us to bring BB back home as BB cried whole night on Mon night and they were very tired ?-( ?-(
I was so mad ... do you think they are rediculos??? They never care about my feeling... If I can take care BB by myself, of course I won't send him to them.. BB is a human, not a doll... how come thet just treat him a toy??? My honey scorded at me and said I am not understanding. He even black face to me... I was so sad and that was why I went back to my own home.
So sorry everyone... I always have so many unhappy experience :cry:
Little Chester born on "Boxing Day"Chester's Home Updated on March 1
If they are not able to take care BB, please don't pretend OK law... they really made me loss my way. I original planned to have a maid to help me but they insist to take care for me after I go back to work. That was why I changed my plan but now I think I need to hire a maid because they only want to play with babe, not take care babe!
I spent so much money to buy 2 sets of babe stuff... waste all my money :evil:
Little Chester born on "Boxing Day"Chester's Home Updated on March 1
Miffy,
Sorry to hear that, but what's the excuse from your PIL? what your hubby told u?
I think u need to talk to your hubby seriously about this issue, maybe your hubby also has his reason, he is difficult to acts in between. I am not try to stand on his side. But again what I concern is, don't let PIL to affect u & your hubby. Try to talk nicely, maybe your hubby also don't trust his parents to takecare Chester.
But it's good to discover earlier what they likely......than late, right?! Can your mummy side give u a hand by the mean time? as your hand still pain & need time to recover?
Be strong, we all support u here!!!!
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
I'm not sure if not eating eggs, milk & peanuts will completely earse all the "lup lup". I think these 3 items are the most common and easiest for Asian babies to have allegeries that's why the doctor will recommend not eating them law.
Mori,
Don't blame yourself so seriously. The baby could be allegery to a lot of different things and even babies who are not breastfeed can have "lup lup" so don't blame in on yourself saying you cause all these law.
Don't be so upset, yes like MM said, can your mom or your own parents' side help you with taking care of the baby.
Also like they suggest, talk to your honey saying you are not trying to pick a fight with his parents. But if they really don't want to take care of the baby at night (you know it's very sun foo, blah blah blah...), then you need to hire a maid immediately to take care of the baby at YOUR home law.
Take good care of yourself and take the time now that BB is not home to rest more. When the baby is home, you will be very busy and cannot rest.
Also if there is anything you haven't bought yet (since your baby arrived early just as mine), go buy them now (ask your honey to go do it), if not when bb is home, really have no time.
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