Welcome to bk home!!
I also is a new mom + full time working too.
Night time take care my BB 女!
Regarding feeding late at night, you should try adjust the timetable and see if you can avoid the 4 am one.
Did you start feeding your son solid food? May be he's hungry and not enough so that he wake up at 4 am for milk milk. As baby grow bigger they need more nutrition (milk + solid food).
Regarding hire a maid, no comments. But since you hired her then you should put faith in her la... if possible any elder one at home watch your maid take care your son ar??
BTW, If time permit, pls come BK often and we can help out each other by sharing our own experiences!
Thanks Onying. All the mums here look friendly and willing to help each other. We tried to feed my son witgh solid food. But he can't really eat much at a time. Actually, now he can only take 6 oz of milk at a time and needs to feed him every 4 hours. Maybe he is a pre-mature baby (I deliver him a month earlier than the expected date) that's why he is always far behind the normal age-group baby.
That's okay! As long as your baby is health is fine la...
Feed him with solid food little by little at a time, every baby is different & unique mah... so take it easy!
if you have any question, pls feel free to drop us a note wor!