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發表於 06-1-27 11:30

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

我絕對唔係認同你個做法，你誤會啦，可能你又係度自我安慰，自欺欺人，自我催眠，總之咩都"自"啦

!　去看看你個經歷和思想．領悟您所講的？真係唔會啦，唸起都打冷震

我又唔係好似係咁有"吉士"去"adultery"

，唔須要改進咩

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syhyt 寫道:
好明顯大家都看到你已經有思考和領悟到我所講的一番話, 有改進, 實在太安慰了. 其實在這個空間, 就係想各人可以分享自已的想法, 你覺得唔對就當睇小說看完吧了. 好傾嘅可以傾多兩嘴, 其實大家可以試下走出自已的框框, 去看看人地的經歷和思想.

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發表於 06-1-27 11:36

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發表於 06-1-27 11:48

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

Ching,

Sorry I missing to answer your question. because many question in short time. no problem 我係一個敢愛, 敢言嘅人.

我同我老公已經相識左18年. 結左婚已經10年. 關係非常好, 沒有問題. family d 時間都很開心. 他亦都係一個真真的住家男人. 沒有其他愛好, 放工就回家, 亦很愛細路.

chingbb 寫道:
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chingbb 寫道:
syhy,
其實你介唔介意講下你同你老公的關係?eg. 結了婚幾多年?當初點解會結婚?你地關係好唔好?
因為我覺得你老公無可能唔會懷疑?除非你老公對你都是可有可無請原諒我的直言

你是否唔想答or miss左我的問題呢?
如果真係唔想答, 我會理解的

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發表於 06-1-27 11:56

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syhyt,
o甘即是你老公沒有什麼問題啦!你會唔會覺得虧對你的老公(當然仲有小朋友)?你雖然口口聲聲話同佢地一齊你都會做到最好, 但都係在"傷"緊佢地

Don't worry!Be happy!

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發表於 06-1-27 14:40

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

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發表於 06-1-27 15:29

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

Joey,

其實當我生完個仔之後, 因為先生對我無微不至. 亦因為有罪咎感. 我同他說過只係可以保恃好朋友關係. 他亦都只好接受我的決定. 這一段時間係維持左一年多, 他從來無放棄過我, 無論大小事情, 都行為我安排, 關心和愛護係呢一年多都從未改變過. 直至有一日.......他每次出trip都會每天打一次電話給我, 當時我仲覺得他有點煩. 但有一次... 我收唔倒他的電話, 我竟然係極度擔心, 個心係振曬, 我驚他出左意外, 千方百計去找他的消息. 後來才知原來有打過比我, 只是我行開左個坐位, 亦因時差和晚上他不可以打比我, 所以再無call我. 此時這刻, 我才知這個一直係我身邊的人對我來說係何等重要. 後來我就開始繼續這段真正的愛惰關係, 其實前後我和他已經相處左好一段日子. 大約有七年了.

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joey1201 寫道:
syhyt：

換句話說，偷情給你帶來的快感一定大過罪咎感。我當初都是這樣。有朝一日，當罪咎感大過快感的時候，我想應該是你回轉之日吧！到時假如你好似CeciLeung一樣放不低，post 上 BK，我一定支持你！

新年將至，在此為你和你的家人送上祝福！

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發表於 06-1-27 15:38

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

Joey, Ceci, 各位兄弟姊妹和呢個topic的長期讀者,

祝身體健康, 萬事如意, 心想事成, 永遠開心快樂.

明日開始放假, 係屋企我唔會睇BK, 因為怕老公知道, 如有什麼回應我可能要初四開工先可以回覆嗱. 哈哈.

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發表於 06-1-27 15:43

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syhyt 寫道:
Alan,

你無需worry你太太, 傻瓜. 你都係一個好男人. 如果你滿意現在的生活, 無須去大家推測雙方是否有外遇. 莫非真係要自找煩惱嗎?

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Being a 'good man' doesn't mean that his wife can be satisfied.

Being a 'good man' is easy. Being a 'good father' is difficult. Being a 'good husband' is even more difficult.

To maintain a family is easy. To maintain a 'healthy family' is difficult. To maintain a 'healthy marriage' is even more difficult.

My wife is always complaining that I cannot pacifie her. Though I don't believe she will betray me, being her husband, I have to find ways to make her happy.

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發表於 06-1-27 15:47

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發表於 06-1-27 15:48

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

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syhyt 寫道:
他亦都係一個真真的住家男人. 沒有其他愛好, 放工就回家, 亦很愛細路.

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C la. C la. I am same as your husband!!!
My wife always complains that I cannot make her happy. She misses the 'feeling of in love'.
It seems my situation is as worse as your husband though my wife is loyal to me/family.
rgds

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發表於 06-1-27 15:51

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

BubeBee & Alan,

我剛才已經講左小小係回應Joey的對話. I don't want create other topic, because this topic has many fans to see.

BuBuBee*MaMa 寫道:
syhyt,

i want to listen, too. i'd like to know more..
But pls make a new topic.
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Alanhoky 寫道:
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syhyt 寫道:

我和他的關係係好微妙, 唔可以長話短說. 你地都可能唔想聽, 但如果你地想知可以話我知, 等我得閒慢慢講.

Let's talk.
I want to listen.
Being a careless husband, I have to learn more to take care of my wife. [/quote][/quote]

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發表於 06-1-27 15:56

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

Alan,

I think I am not your wife surely. ha ha ha ha

Don't be worry. I think your wife will not same as me. 我可能係一個不平煩的一個女子, don't worry.

不過愛真係好講feeling. 無左feeling 就只係得感情了.

Alanhoky 寫道:

syhyt 寫道:
他亦都係一個真真的住家男人. 沒有其他愛好, 放工就回家, 亦很愛細路.

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C la. C la. I am same as your husband!!!
My wife always complains that I cannot make her happy. She misses the 'feeling of in love'.
It seems my situation is as worse as your husband though my wife is loyal to me/family.
rgds

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發表於 06-1-27 15:56

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PINKAVA 寫道:
每個人都有每個人既生活態度, 大家唔使咁肉緊既, 說話亦都唔使拙拙迫人, 又唔係黎鬧交。

To be frank, I'm not 肉緊 & I also accept the behaviour of Miss S.

Nevertheless, I love children. I'm afraid that their children are too young to accept that her mother is not loyal to the family/father. That's why I want to change her mind.

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發表於 06-1-27 16:01

Re: 你地有冇"情夫"？

你認為你得咩

Alanhoky 寫道:
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That's why I want to change her mind.

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發表於 06-1-27 16:03

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BuBuBee*MaMa 寫道:
我老公有你咁細心就好啦!!!!

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Alanhoky 寫道:
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You're wrong. My wife complains that I'm not 細心 enough.

I have the intention/thinking to improve but still cannot make it at the moment. However, I believe 'tomorrow will be better than today'. This is a common believe between me/my wife. Without this expectation, I believe we have broken up.

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發表於 06-1-27 16:04

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發表於 06-1-27 16:06

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ringoivy 寫道:

你認為你得咩

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The same case as teaching our kids.
If they don't listen to me this time, I'll still continue to teach them. I won't abandon them.

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發表於 06-1-27 16:19

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好好好, 難得你是有心人

努力吧! 我精神上無限量支持你吓

我唔怕話你聽, 到佢開曉個日並非你說服到佢, 而係佢被人拋棄, 不過到時唔知佢會唔會有吉士咁坦白承認啫, 話唔定到時佢又作故仔話係自己開曉都未定

Alanhoky 寫道:
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The same case as teaching our kids.
If they don't listen to me this time, I'll still continue to teach them. I won't abandon them.

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