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發表於 07-7-18 10:34 |只看該作者

Muimui,
你既然選擇咗同小黑一齊,過咗去嘅嘢就算.你咁样記住,自己就心up,對事情又冇幫助.我同老公結婚前想清楚,同佢一齊係有個partner,一齊去行將來ge路.但係唔好有太多額外要求.免得失望.我好多事都係自己学,自己解決.唔靠佢.但要respect佢.唔係自己会生活得full of pain.唔為佢,都要為自己.只要佢錫自己,其他事就唔好太上心law.

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socloudy

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醒目開學勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章

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發表於 07-7-18 10:58 |只看該作者

Babyrnc,
做LASIK好快,3個鐘喥就得.e生有幫我麻醉,但响手術室入面我係有知覺,睇到佢做每一步.俾laser射住自己時嗰陣味我都仲記得.做完就自己落床.做lasik最主要睇夠唔夠胆.同埋有冇必要.你餵人奶係唔可以做住ga.

Carrie,
6年前,Dr. Kong收$3,300.佢reputation都好好.我朋友個弟婦以前响果喥做,佢都recommend d 人去.我另一個朋友做咗d research,都話依個e生唔錯.不過你要記住, e個operation係唔適合pregnant or plan to pregnant (in several months)嘅婦女ga.
我以前個health plan真係唔錯,不過每况越下呢.依家睇個specialist都收$30.肉都赤嘛.

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socloudy

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醒目開學勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章

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發表於 07-7-18 11:12 |只看該作者

Muimui,
我覺得你唔應該俾朋友悟解你為人(以為你崇洋/貪錢先嫁小黑).For what?朋友係互相扶持.你亦應俾佢哋understand你份人,唔係由佢哋估估下.咁樣大家心都有條刺.

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 07-7-18 12:08 |只看該作者

nillie
係架..呢d咪係家家有本難念的經咯. 所以有咩事係度申下都係好架..哈哈..唔洗成日屈住麻

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 07-7-18 12:10 |只看該作者

socloudy
咁我要make apt先,唔知佢有冇seminar既呢..如果而家平d就好啦..
咁做完個operation, 要幾耐先出得街呢..咁我係唔係要叫老公請假陪我呢..驚湊唔到女.
如果要做..咪要而家做咯..我想出年生bb啵..
係呢..你有冇msn呀?

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 07-7-18 12:15 |只看該作者

muimui/socloudy
我會咁諗..如果係你既朋友..佢地係唔會介意你老公係咩人, 好似我老公係shorter than me, 但冇一個朋友會話點解我會嫁比佢..你知啦..有時有人會好睇外表既..但我既朋友冇一個講過呢個問題. 我覺得我都好好彩. 朋友對我都好好.

原文章由 socloudy 於 07-7-18 11:12 發表
Muimui,
我覺得你唔應該俾朋友悟解你為人(以為你崇洋/貪錢先嫁小黑).For what?朋友係互相扶持.你亦應俾佢哋understand你份人,唔係由佢哋估估下.咁樣大家心都有條刺.

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muimui313

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發表於 07-7-18 13:35 |只看該作者

Babyrnc, socloudy, carrie210 & nillie, 多謝你地既說話, 開解左我好多. 我個人好忍得, 但小氣, 可能以前俾屋企縱壞. Hehe. 對其他人, 我可以放得低, 可能因為佢係我老公, 所以仲好谷氣.

Sy_mom, 就係因為自己以前係social worker, counsel得人多, 所以更加唔想去搵counselor, 我其實一直用緊以前學返黎既therapy 黎輔導緊自己, 效果係會慢啲,
不過真係唔想人地幫我開個file.

朋友方面, 其實都係得一個係咁諗, 我真係無得罪過佢架, 小黑去iowa探我時, 見個朋友屋企無窗口扇, 重送左把俾佢添, 我估係因為我朋友既成長背景,佢妒忌心好重, 無論我做啲咩, 佢都可以講到好衰,佢極品到可以同啲唔識我既人面前講我. 係我離開左iowa之後, 我先至知佢不斷咁講我, 連我老公都講埋, 因為朋友圈子細, 我地共同識得iowa 同香港既朋友, 有事就好快傳開去, 既然呢個朋友咁鍾意針對我, 所以我都唔想同人傾, 費事等佢又有話題. 俾人講, 好難話唔會介意, 所以而家都無聯絡lu.

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發表於 07-7-18 13:44 |只看該作者

muimui313,

i understand what u meant ....

i met an LMFT who's the speaker at the women's retreat last year. she had postpartum depression (but i'm not saying that u also have postpartum depression) at an extent that she couldn't help herself. so eventually her coworkers had to do the counseling therapy for her and now she's completely healed.

if u're interesting in reading or listening to audio book, i can introduce u a very good book and hope that u'll be happier after u've read it.
just let me know.

原文章由 muimui313 於 07-7-18 13:35 發表
Babyrnc, socloudy, carrie210 & nillie, 多謝你地既說話, 開解左我好多. 我個人好忍得, 但小氣, 可能以前俾屋企縱壞. Hehe. 對其他人, 我可以放得低, 可能因為佢係我老公, 所以仲好谷氣.

Sy_mom, 就係因為 ...

[ 本文章最後由 SY_Mom 於 07-7-18 13:50 編輯 ]

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Nillie_Mami

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發表於 07-7-18 22:13 |只看該作者

8月gathering
上午時間為產前/產後講座時間
題目: change diaper, 沖涼, 餵人奶, 掃風, 生仔仔嘅*extra-- 包皮傷口護理, 如何知道BB食得飽唔飽.. intake & output
我會provide 紙同筆.. or 你哋自己帶camcorder 啊!

muimui, sy-mom, carrie, babyrnc, so cloudy,
真架! 為家, 為生活.. 要學識前事不計..
我只會每當肥bear 埋怨呢樣個樣, 同數人做錯乜/冇做好乜嘅時侯, 會好憎恨自己, 點解要咁賤..
學歴, 家勢, 生活背景, 個人修養, 外觀... 我都未至於差到要咁受人氣.. 有時.. 雙方嘅愛... 單靠愛..係咪真係可以令家庭和諧...

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發表於 07-7-18 22:33 |只看該作者

Johnson & Johnson coupon.

http://www.johnsonsbaby.com/specialOffers.do

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rose-mag

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發表於 07-7-19 00:34 |只看該作者

Babyrnc, socloudy, carrie210 & nillie,
I'm still learning to be a good wife and a good mother. I accepted my husband's propose after I knew him for 11 months (we actually dated for 3 months and communicated with email and phone calls at the beginning). But, most of my friends supported my decision, maybe because I was so old that they did not want me to be an old single woman

. My parents had once dislike my husband because he speaks very little Chinese. Well, after 2 years of marriage, I discovered more about my hubby and he has some secrets about his past that he does not want me to know. He said that he's so wicked before and he thought that I won't accept him if I knew it before we get married. Woman is bornt to be curious and I always want to know more about him and I want him to know me too. However, you know, it is more important that what kind of person he is right now. If he does not have a past, he may not know how to take care of me now. We argue, we disagree on some of the topics but we choose to sit down and talk to find a solution now. Honestly speaking, sometimes it is so tired to explain everything to him and make him understand because I bornt in HK and he bornt in SF. We grew up in different cultures but it is the fun to explore our common interests and share the same values. Instead of trying to know his past, I tease him and make jokes on him now when he cannot tell me a consistent story about his past. You know, woman is good at remembering all the details but man is not.

I also querry if love, only love can make a harmonious family. I doubt it but I want to believe in it. Otherwise, it would be too tired and too painful to live. We already have so much to worry and to do everyday. I do get mad on my hubby when he does not listen to me but on the other hand, I don't listen to him too. I think that all of us and our husbands are both lucky to meet each other and we made our own choices to marry them. Instead of always remembering the past and getting hurt, I think that the better way is to develop a better future together. So far, I feel that all our husbands seem to be responsible and caring. We should feel graceful and need to treasure it.

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Carrie210 & Nillie_Mami,

軒軒就係足咗8個月, 所以冇bassinet 瞓! 原來最好帶揹帶

好彩你哋提我咋!! thanks!!:loveliness:

rose-mag,

我哋係Asiamiles member, 多謝你提醒呀

!! 依家個位唔係咁靚, 靚位俾人hold住晒!! 所以諗住最後confirm 48hr 睇吓可唔可以online改到好位.

原文章由 Carrie210 於 07-7-18 00:51 發表
PATVICBB
我咪係叻叻8個月時一個人帶佢番hk咯..冇咩野架佢..只係唔想訓咋, 因個bassinet真係唔夠佢訓呀..我好多時要揹住佢架..所以你一定要帶揹帶上機呀..我係揹前果隻呀,唔係成日抱住唔得架..手都soft..你有兩 ...

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 07-7-19 03:33 |只看該作者

PATVICBB
唔係啵..訓唔到都可以坐架..如你bb未識企起身, 個bassinet都可當個坐併咁比佢坐架, 咁你兩公婆唔洗成日抱住佢麻.
係呢..咁你地book左住邊度呀? 你地帶得兩年luggages each person, 個bb帶多一件, 真係要帶d一定要用既野,唔用唔好帶啦.

原文章由 patvicbb 於 07-7-19 01:00 發表
Carrie210 & Nillie_Mami,

軒軒就係足咗8個月, 所以冇bassinet 瞓! 原來最好帶揹帶好彩你哋提我咋!! thanks!!:loveliness:

rose-mag,

我哋係Asiamiles member ...

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醒目開學勳章

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發表於 07-7-19 03:36 |只看該作者

nillie
8月gaterhing時..我地去邊你會比較方便pick up我地呢?因我地去8ave都好方便架..仲可能會快d既..但pier都得架..就耐少少先到,因要等ferry同轉車..不過一定要就你地方便呀..thx

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nillie

8月gaterhing......都係去你果度嗎?? 係唔係都係星期6同星期日架??

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:tongue: 我宜家個肚~~16 weeks+4 days 第一胎~~~應該幾時先可以 feel 到 bb 郁架@@~ 到底係咩feeling呢?? 7月25號去照超音波囉~~希望到時可以知道係仔定女啦~~哈哈~好緊張

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Usually, you can feel the baby moving in the 5th or the 6th month if it's your first baby. For 2nd pregnancy, it'd be a bit more earlier. It's a very interesting experience and sometimes you can see the movement! Good luck.

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八月 gathering 係 8/12 Sunday 喺 Nillie 屋企呀 ... Nillie 朝早會搞產前/後講座, 嚟聽呀, 包你獲益良多

我都係第一胎, 20-week 時 feel 到胎動, 第一胎大概18 至 22-week feel 到 ... 好得意架, 好似有個 bubble 喺裡面咁

你想生仔定女??

原文章由 hiuyeeyee 於 07-7-19 04:53 發表
:tongue: 我宜家個肚~~16 weeks+4 days 第一胎~~~應該幾時先可以 feel 到 bb 郁架@@~ 到底係咩feeling呢?? 7月25號去照超音波囉~~希望到時可以知道係仔定女啦~~哈哈~好緊張

[ 本文章最後由 jstn 於 07-7-19 05:29 編輯 ]

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MuiMui313,
看過你的分享真係覺得家家有本難念的經。既然不可以返轉頭，就唔好去諗過去唔開心的事而focus 前面的路。特別係我哋唔單至係人家的老婆，而係我地宝貝的媽媽。我地要好好take care 自己，讓我地的孩子可以係一個開心安全的環境下成長。我有幾年都生活得好唔開心，常常埋怨老公過來美国的決定，既然不可以返轉頭,只好努力去適應。依家有咗仔仔，識咗你地，感覺巳经温暖好多了。MuiMui 妳記得要錫自己呀，我地会支持你架!

Nillie, 好多謝你將過去唔開心的经曆咁open分享比我地知，你的分享比吃咗我好多的提醒同鼓勵!

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