Natalie,
my ex-亞姐 too. She got a master degree. Give you a hope. I know my ex-亞姐 will get marry soon and her husband is a University Lecturer, but outlook .
When you talk to your 亞姐, tell her the truth, either $$ or outlook, not too many people like 任財爺.
One more thing to ask , your亞姐 beautiful or not, my ex-亞姐 is quite OK, you can call her "Lan lui"