Hehe, c6 talked to me first, he came and asked me on Sat "How about I bath the son", heheheheheheh! But I didn't ask him about the gathering yet, I will ask him tonight when I get home :)
Jayne,
KTV is same as Eddy, doesn't like my c6 do anything, wants me to bath her and wants me to do anything, even something simple like bring her a drink. c6 always say that "oh, she doesn't want me to do it, she wants you to do it wo! it's not I am not helping" He thinks then he can get away with the work. But then I told him it's not because she doesn't want him to do it, it is because he doesn't do it and she's used to me doing it so she feels more comfortable that I do it instead of her. It's a circle. Now I would tell KTV that mami has to do something else and if she wants anything, she has to ask Babi (that's how she call her dad), and sometimes she would want me to do it but sometimes she's ok with her dad doing it. So now when I am tired, I can tell c6 to bath both kids, and then I can rest a little bit. It's really hard to be a working mom and I hate it as much as you hate it when the husband just take the stuffs for granted. But instead of "hard fight hard" with him, I do it the soft way, I make him feel bad for not doing the stuffs and I also tell him that he needs the bonding with the kids too. Now he can't play video games when the kids are around (cause I taught the kid to bother him and take away his controller when he play, so he can't play.)
Socloudy,
Can you give me some of the scrapbooking magazine? I only made like 2 pages so far...... ai.... no time to do it and KTV will always want to help.....
Babygigi,
Glad that Ian is ok, KTV is very tough to KEV too, a lot of time I see her push KEV very hard on his head..... and she won't know that would hurt him. I just have to keep an good eyes on both of them. Try to tell Ryan not to do that, they will understand. KTV is getting better, but then again when KEV takes her toy, she would go crazy too.
Hehe, c6 talked to me first, he came and asked me on Sat "How about I bath the son", heheheheheheh! But I didn't ask him about the gathering yet, I will ...
Hello vivi_ma:
Welcome! Are you from NY, too?
I am also having my first baby and now in 34-week ... getting excited and nervous
Feel free to leave messages and all the moms here are very experienced and helpful
原文章由 vivi_ma 於 07-7-31 06:20 發表
Hi all, I am a new member, and mom to be as well. My due date is Jan 14, 08. Since this is my first baby, I don't know anything :-( :-(, so worry ar
Hi socloudy,
Nice to meet you, I am living in South New Jersey, which is around 2 1/2 hours drive away from NY, sometime I do drive to NY and Flushing for shopping. I am sure I will have a lot of questions to ask about, just so worry about the baby's health and labor...... :cry:
Nice to meet you as well, glad to know that your baby is almost born, do you know is boy or girl yet?? My hubby doesn't want to know, he keeps telling the nurse and doctor don't telling him, he wants a surprise wor, :lol
I do want to find out coz' I would like to get prepare in advance.
原文章由 jstn 於 07-7-31 07:11 發表
Hello vivi_ma:
Welcome! Are you from NY, too?
I am also having my first baby and now in 34-week ... getting excited and nervous
Feel free to leave messages and all the moms here are very expe ...
Nice to meet you as well, glad to know that your baby is almost born, do you know is boy or girl yet?? My hubby doesn't want to know, he keeps telling the nurse and doctor don't tel ...
Nice to meet you too, I am living in south NJ, I wish to go if my hubby can drive me over, coz' I want to learn all the stuff from you guys mar. I am working a full time job, dealing with all the computers, since it is a small company, I can always "take it easy".
jstn,
Congrat ar, some of my gil friend said I am having a boy as well, they all have the gil already and they said coz' I didn't have any nausea and morning sickness at all wor......
Vivi ma,
我parents住Flushing.所以我都成日响果边ga.
我初期懷孕時都係咩都唔識,跟住就成日問有經驗嘅朋友&同事.然後買咗本”What do you expect when you are expecting”嘅書睇.我覺得依本書唔錯ga,你可以睇下.你只要小心身體,注意飲食,定期去check up就得架喇.如果你驚Labor問題嘅就7,8個月肚時上Lamase堂.Instructor会教你點呼吸&push.