Hi, SY_Mom,
All your message, I had a same feeling. I am a full-time mom, but I never to think I can hire a nanny in here. I think the insurance is high and my living area has no Chinese nanny. ( I guess ) My bb is almost 20 month-old, so I think your bb age almost mine, but my bb is a girl. Normally, she is ok. Of course, sometimes bb made me mad. I watched Super Nanny too, I just think if my bb will change to ... How can I do? Anyway, be a full -time mom is a rough work, without private time ( so I sleep late ) , sometimes, I will stay home a few days and don't want go out.
I also think I will take bb by myself for a trip to HK, however; when I think I need take bb without stroller and walk in the busy street and carry my big diapar bag, etc,... ( I dare not to think la...) later la...