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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Dear my forty+:

你真係細心甲體貼架者，但佢吾知潛左去邊樹呀！等我call佢番黎呵！

betty

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Goodies
我老公就係初戀，我就唔係-佢比我呃咗 :mrgreen: 。我唔知係咪缺乏家庭溫暖，好細個就學人拍拖。如果唔係嗰陣青春期啲暗瘡好似火山爆發咁，可能一早就做咗”非”女，被人呃咗去舞廳做小姐啦。我青春期嗰陣好自卑，唔敢抬頭望人，因為啲暗瘡真係好嚇人。係我老公將我係自卑嘅深淵拯救出來，所以我咪以身相許囉

。不過真係有朋友問我:”你咁多暗瘡，你男朋友點錫得你落呀?” :-( :-( :-( 可想而知，嗰陣我真係幾醜怪。我啲暗瘡好似寃鬼咁跟住我幾廿年，直到兩三年前先至稍為綬和咋。真係一?眼淚:-( 。所以雖然我老公冇乜本事又唔體貼，我對佢都不離不棄，實情因為我冇人吼，走唔甩呀! :tongue:

Rena
不如你又同我地分享吓你嘅家庭生活呀?你個女同我大女一樣22歲，同你闗係點呀? 我就慘啦，大女成個tomboy 咁，唔知嗰啲人就當佢係男人:evil: 。希望我小b唔好似佢啦，唔係我就暈得一陣陣啦!

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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forty+ & betty

我番來, 多謝關心, 電腦俾人"head" 左, 好煩未攪掂,一個鐘都睇唔到一板, 希望今次send 到啦 !

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Betty

我d朋友話我係個冇乜情趣o既人, 其實我兩公婆都係: 嗰d情人節係唔關我地事o既, 結婚週年呀, 生日呀都係食飯算數, 自從有咗bb到而家, 我地都未睇過一齣戲 :-( :-( :-( 邊似得你同老公咁恩愛, 真係"恨"死隔離呀 :mrgreen:

forty+

我同你唔好o既嘢都幾似喎: 我又係讀書時勁出暗瘡 (到而家都有出o架陰公 :-( :-(), 又唔識打理, 搞到好多lone lone, 真係自卑到死, 成日自怨自艾, 邊解人人可以滑滑, 我自己就唔得, 加上我唔係白o既人, 簡直係唔敢出街, 我老公算係我初戀啦, 因為我同佢之前係未正式拍過拖(雖然有人想追我, 但我唔敢, 所以冇開始過 :mrgreen: ), 但佢就唔係, 不過, 佢話佢係最愛我喎

(肉唔肉麻同骨痺呀

) 不過, 我就冇你咁好命, 有個22歲o既女, 我係仲有排捱嗰隻, bb片片都未戒

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dear forty+, 原來你的囡囡都是22歲啦, 我個囡同我的關係非常close,都算聴話, 最不好就是鍾意買衫, 自己間房太不整潔, 我真是非常佩服你, 相隔這麼多年, 你還敢生第二個 !!

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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Dear rcsi:

其實可能我地結婚約２後就分隔兩地，聚小離多，舊年先一齊生活，好多生活小習慣都要互相適應，好攪笑呵！有種感覺突然吾記得自己今old啦！仲以為新婚添呀！講出黎都笑死人呵！所以大家都好好珍惜羅！
?-(

betty

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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Dear my wing0503:

我睇到你係個邊吹，我地係呢邊吹，不過你吹我好掂喎！小妹，甘拜下風呵！

吾係中左病毒嘛，今早新聞話中病毒慢好多架．
可吾可以靜（豬豬）話我知阿faith因勿事吾見左呀！我好欣賞佢喎！

吾好今客氣啦！大家都搵緊工，順便嘛．

betty :tongue:

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Dear bettylam,

It took me almost half an hour to read all the messages after the weekend 'cos as I mentioned earlier I only come to BK when I'm in the office. I never have time to sit down properly at home !!

I also live in Kln East. Which tutor centre does your son attend? May be because mine is girl so I do not dare to let her travel by MTR on her own even she is P5. I'm a bit disappointed by her exam results. We paid double effort in Easter Holiday but what she got is only about 70 marks. She made careless mistakes which she won't make at home exercise so I'm worried about her chance in getting into her secondary school.

We eventually went to Sai Kung beach last Sunday. 元朗藍新圍 looks very attractive. Let us have more details on how to go if possible.

I hope I can start typing Chinese but just I want to send out my message in the quickest way 'cos I'm doing this during office hours ma!

Stmummy

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Dear stmummy:

我用打速成呀！以前打得好慢，而家成日同你地傾計，快左好多，一分鐘有時打３０個字，不過始終吾夠倉頡快呀！

但我個人懶，吾鐘意記今多英文字，所以學完倉頡都無用過呀！更加因為我先學速成，所以先為主呵！

我２個小朋友仲懶過我，手寫板喎，激死，吾洗記．

我１月遲左份工，岩先返左份新工覺得吾係幾適應無做呵！而家待（自）龜中，哈哈！吾好意思呀！我好鐘意玩，成日攪笑呀！

嘩！你好可愛呀！cycling，我聽我妹妹講大埔定沙田幾好喎！

嘩！佢最近成日去元朗藍新圍，影相返黎比我睇，正到暈呀！

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forty+:
你同你老公係你所講的情況下開始，先至係難得有情人，同埋佢的思想好成熟。
兩個人相處數十年，乜樣都會有變啦，有幾多人後生幾靚幾靚、老來咪又係阿婆一個，尤其是暗瘡的問題更是過度問題，大下大下便會消失，最重要係大家互相了解、有思想交流、有相近價值觀同目標、是可以相伴渡過一生的人。

你話你走唔甩，不如你話你地仲係咁恩愛！

forty+ 寫道:
Goodies
我老公就係初戀，我就唔係-佢比我呃? :mrgreen: 。我唔知係咪缺乏家庭溫暖，好細個就學人拍拖。如果唔係?陣青春期?暗瘡好似火山爆發咁，可能一早就做?”非”女，被人呃?去舞廳做小姐啦。我青春期?陣好自卑，唔敢抬頭望人，因為?暗瘡真係好嚇人。係我老公將我係自卑?深淵拯救出來，所以我咪以身相許囉。不過真係有朋友問我:”你咁多暗瘡，你男朋友點錫得你落呀?” :-( :-( :-( 可想而知，?陣我真係幾醜怪。我?暗瘡好似冤鬼咁跟住我幾廿年，直到兩三年前先至稍為綬和咋。真係一?眼淚:-( 。所以雖然我老公冇乜本事又唔體貼，我對佢都不離不棄，實情因為我冇人吼，走唔甩呀! :tongue:

Rena
不如你又同我地分享嚇你?家庭生活呀?你個女同我大女一樣22歲，同你關係點呀? 我就慘啦，大女成個tomboy 咁，唔知??人就當佢係男人:evil: 。希望我小b唔好似佢啦，唔係我就暈得一陣陣啦!

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Dear Forty+

真是非常佩服你, 相隔這麼多年, 你還生第二個 and even consider to have another one !!! You are so considerate in taking care of your elder daughter and no.2's burden when one day both of you are getting old.

For language problem, I don't think baby will only rely on their maid's speaking ability especially girl. Don't worry to much la.

I'm the same as you, I want to pay up the mortgage loan ASAP because secretary is always under the threat of redundant. Fortunately, you've changed your field. Since we will finish the mortgage by the end of the year, it will be more flexible if one day I'm laid off. Sometimes I feel my daughters need more of my attention in their study but I just don't want to be a full time housewife... very selfish, isn't it.

Stmummy

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forty+ 寫道:
stmummy.

She's a girl again. I am hiring an Indo maid who will work in HK for the first time. I think she will arrive HK around mid May, a little bit late as my edd is end May but you know, the baby may come earlier.

I saw betty says his son started to speak cantonese very late and once suspected that he was 自閉, 攪到我而家都有啲擔心。個印印都唔慌會點曉得幾多句廣東話, 我稔佢會同我小b一斉牙牙學語。慘!

係呀, 我都係打速成架。我都係開始階段, 打咗未夠兩個月,冇betty 打得咁快

。

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Dear Goodies,

Hope you're fully recovered now. I'm also 九龍人 and I studied in 何文田 when I was young. I'm now living in Kln East. It did flash to my mind once or twice to sell the flat and rent one near my daughters' school but just worry that the price will go up then I won't be able to own a flat again. We're just not the type - can't take any risk. You can tell by that I've been working in the same company for almost 18 years.

I envy you again. You don't have to worry about your son's study 'cos as I post in the last message, I'm a bit disappointed by my daughter's exam result. Not much reward after paying extra effort !!!

Stmummy

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goodies 寫道:
stmummy:
唉！想起就頭痛。
我仲病了，咳到死死下；日日好像平時咁夜夜放工，仲未開始執屋、轉地址.....
我是九龍人，由畢架山搬到何文田 :cry:

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stmummy:

I am feeling much better now, thanks.
賣屋都是我們思想掙扎了好一段時間的 decision.
好佩服你呀！一份工做了18年，我天生不安定的，之前一直都是每兩年轉一次工，總是樣樣都要試試，恐怖嗎?
當然果時的就業市場又容許啦，你唔搵工都有人搵你。
現在人大了，都安定了很多，加埋而家自已生命的重點也不只是事業；所以都打算現在份工做得OK的話，都唔會點轉。

至於仔女讀書的事，我認為最重要是已否盡全力；唔好讓自已同囡囡太大壓力。

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Dear Betty,

sorry ! 我有小小唔明白 ? "話我知阿faith因勿事吾見左呀" 唔明呀 !

不是中病毒慢, 我姪仔話ie 俾人入侵左,所以hange 機 + 慢, 今日9點到而家先上到一板喳 ,真係想死, 昨晚走去姐姐家用電腦先可以覆們. 真係唔好意思 ! very ｓｏｒｒｙ　 :-(

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Rena

你個囡鍾意買衫正常嘅,後生邊個唔鍾意打扮呀。我一把年紀都一樣, 成日係lunchtime行街都買埋唔少, 幾乎冇一日空手而回。你女女間房只係唔太整潔咪算好囉,我個女就真係不堪, 連我老公都頂佢唔順, 你話佢幾 “呢啡”。:evil:

唔好話佩服我啦, 相隔這麼多年生第二個非我所願。不過我信佛,信有因果, 怕唔要佢會有報應呀

。其實我都好煩架。已前我成日都擔心好多嘢, 真係先天下之憂而憂嗰隻。而家個人化咗, 都唔咁諗咁遠, 總之就見步行步啦。我之前睇個本書, 中文譯本係”活在當下”, 幾好架。佢捷醒我地好多人都不斷為將來或目標而努力, 往往就會忽略咗當下眼前擁有嘅嘢。我覺得好啱, 我們應該把握現在, 享受現在擁有嘅一切。將來雖然要計劃, 但始終唔係我地完全掌握得到 (就好似我從來冇諗過隔咗22年再生bb), 所以亦唔應該太過執著將來要點要點。就好似我地成日想bb快啲大, 可以甩身, 但bb時期係最可愛架喎, 我地唔應該錯失enjoy這段時間呵。

renachau 寫道:
dear forty+, 原來你的囡囡都是22歲啦, 我個囡同我的關係非常close,都算聴話, 最不好就是鍾意買衫, 自己間房太不整潔, 我真是非常佩服你, 相隔這麼多年, 你還敢生第二個 !!

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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Goodies

講老實我老公係冇咩目標架, 不過大家都幾了解對方(所以我都唔敢對佢有咩特別其望)

。可能我要求低, 我地嘅感情都唔错嘅。雖然唔似阿betty妹咁有新婚feel, 不過我地仲有好愛嘅感覺架 :mrgreen: 。哈哈, rsci, 我比你兩公婆仲骨庳呀!

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goodies 寫道:
forty+:
你同你老公係你所講的情況下開始，先至係難得有情人，同埋佢的思想好成熟。
兩個人相處數十年，乜樣都會有變啦，有幾多人後生幾靚幾靚、老來咪又係阿婆一個，尤其是暗瘡的問題更是過度問題，大下大下便會消失，最重要係大家互相了解、有思想交流、有相近價值觀同目標、是可以相伴渡過一生的人。

你話你走唔甩，不如你話你地仲係咁恩愛！

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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stmummy

你就好啦, 年尾就供完層樓, 唉, 我最快都仲有四年呀! :-(

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

hi, dear forty+, 我話個囡唔太整潔, 是抬舉她, 她盖的被從來不叠, 她現在住在宿舍, 平日佢間房我不入去, 費時睇到眼冤, 我先生有時睇唔過去, 幫佢清潔吓

預祝你個baby健康聰明, It is fantastic to have another baby after 22 years. Enjoy the new life with your lovely baby.

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Dear renachau:

吾好嘆氣,我阿女由細到大有人服侍週到,鼻敏感的鼻涕紙成間房都係,書枱無人敢用,褲袋全部廁紙,成間房仲晒利過垃圾房呀!有時對住佢,真係叫救命叫到死o左呵！

betty
:-(

NNN

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hi, betty, that's what my daughter did in middle school. 現在我囡的鼻敏感痊癒了, 可能長大以後, 自動好返了

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