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KitKitMom,
0103媽媽會歡迎你.....

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CCW 寫道:
如果包我生多個係仔,我諗我都會生o既, 呵呵﹗

你同我調轉喎!

其實你又唔駛太擔心ga,總之自己一有時間就揍返同陪返嘉意咪得囉，我夠識個女仔，佢由細到大都係電視精，咪又係可以考到Maryknoll，後尾又入到科大，都不知幾smart。我諗其中一點係父母剩係由得小朋友睇電視，而唔去理及唔同佢地傾偈都係其中一個影響小朋友發展的原因。

Kitkitmom~歡迎你

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佢喜歡週圍行無時停, 你知我住大屋架啦好大地方.. 呵.呵..呵..呵..呵...

joyjoy8333 寫道:

kian 唔睇電視，仲有咩好做呀？
玩玩具？睇書？

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CCW,
恭喜嘉意豬成為嘉寶"可愛BB冠軍",yeah!!

http://www.studio123.hk/onlinealbum/2008-02-03/preston.html

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兔兔,
臭b點呀?希望佢唔好再扭計啦!辛苦晒妳呀!加油呀!好快無事嫁啦!

Ming2,
唔好咁客氣啦!

Amy
Hehe, 因為我都係人地(臭b)個老媽子呀嘛!
係呀, 係用攪作呀!hehe
臭b呢排出牙出都鬼死咁炆. 佢而家除左出前排d牙, 重出緊轉角牙同大牙. 差唔多一次過出6隻牙. 攪到成日想咬人. 真係好煩呢!
而我就向上個星期成功同佢戒左食奶咀既習慣. 不過一返婆婆屋企, 公公又係咁比佢, 唉!!!希望佢唔好習慣番啦!
係呢, vienna呢排又點呢?戒片未呢?zac呢排有無趣事呢?

Ccw,
臭b都好鐘意睇電視, 佢都有成日睇嫁. 所以我諗妳都唔使太擔心既. 因為香港既小朋友好多都係咁呢!
恭喜嘉意成為 “可愛bb”呢!

Sywong,
希望果個醫生無 “老點”我啦!哈哈

44, pinky, joyjoy, 5354,
d相真係影得好靚呀!

2ling,
咁kian係咪行得好快呀?如果唔係, 我怕佢一日都行唔晒成間屋喎!hehe

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各位,
請問你地有無開始比飯仔bb食 ? 你地會煮咩"送" ?

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0112,
臭b1歲左右已經開始爛食飯仔嫁啦!至於餸方面, 多數係蕃茄, 豬肉, 魚, 蛋, 芝士同菜.

fung's wife,
我諗承縉真係出牙呀!妳睇下佢d牙肉有無腫呀!果陣有個媽咪教我比臭b飲蓮子芯茶, 話會無咁'閔掙', 但因為苦, 所以臭b唔係好鐘意食, 妳或者試試呀!如果計埋出緊(見到白點)果d, 臭b而家已經有12隻牙啦!

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0112MAMA,
Vienna 食左好耐架喇...因為佢由細個到現在都唔鐘意食粥 (唔知點解~~), 佢時時食通粉, 意粉的....

Lydia,
做咩Preston 後面有咁多靜電? (his hair is...hahaha..)
係呢, 你個maid 和你們的關係有好轉嗎?

其實我諗你可以assertive d 同佢好好的坐下傾下有誤會既地方..(personally I think 抄左佢都唔係解決的方法, 因為下一個也有可能會這樣), 大家睇下係咩因素令到對方不高興, 一定要坦誠地說出來, 咁樣兩方都會有幫助...

There are some thoughts I spoke to the university students last week at my "how to deal with conflicts" seminar : 以下是我講章的一部份...you might want to take a look at it to see if they can give you some clues..

What are the ways most people respond to conflict?
1)Some choose to avoid conflict and don’t want to disturb the peace. Hoping that the other person will come to them to resolve things or thinking that there is nothing can be done, they try to suck it up and forget about it. Often this results in pent up anger, avoidance or passive aggressive such as silent treatment, avoid contact with that person...

2) Or the other extreme is deal directly with the conflict but in a way that is offensive and overbearing, trying only to get their way and communicate how they have been mistreated. Both responses result in frustration, broken relationships, wasted energy and time … Have you experienced all these before? I am sure you have.

Can we avoid conflicts? The answer is No. So, is conflict necessary a bad thing? It depends. I think it actually can be a “tool” to mature our social skill if you handle conflicts well. So, how can we do about that?

The solution ~~ The most important principle is Seek to Understand the other person (for both parties). Proverbs 18:2 “A fool doesn’t delight in understanding, but only in revealing his own mind.” It is our tendency to want to be understood, or to win the argument. These selfish motives block the progress to find out the true resolution.

Suggested approach:
1)Approach the person and ask if s/he can help you to understand some things that have been on your mind by simply state the facts (e.g. the dishes haven’t been done), or what was said or done. And Speak for yourself (Use I FEEL that....) ie I feel angry when...., I feel that you are not responsible. Tell the person how you feel about what is going on.....The other party should use their listening skill at this point…listen…listen…listen…they should let you talk even they disagree what you are saying.

2) The next step is let the other party response, explain the fact and how he/she feels “ I didn’t do the dishes cos’ I rush to the movie “ Your turn to listen…listen…listen…

After both of you have communicated clearly, the misunderstanding is likely has been discovered. If not, communicate how you might desire things to be different in the future. This will insure some action points to begin respecting each other and putting each other person’s needs above your own. Of course, it is a good time for apologies and forgiveness. To remember one thing: It is always important to put people above issues.

I remember God teaches us how to handle people problems in Roman chapter 12
Be affectionate (Romans 12:10) i.e. show the person you care about them, don’t always be critical.
Be prayerfully patient (v.12) patiently listen to what the other person has to say and give them time to change or improve
Bless your persecutors (V14) pray for them and trust that God is in control
Be humble (v.16) e.g. don’t automatically think your way is the best…
Don’t take revenge (v.19) then, the issue never ends and will become worse, and remember God is the judge not you
Defeat evil with good (v 21) e.g. act like Jesus who wins a lot of people in this world cos’ His love

我時時都會同Zac 講 "Mami loves you but mami hates what you have done" to ensure that he feels / knows that I love him.

Jesus loves the sinners but hates the sins.

希望能比到d ideas 比你啦~~~~Cheers

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irenenghm 寫道:
.....比臭b飲蓮子芯茶

嘩~~~好殘忍呀...我都覺得苦呀...

(poor 臭b)
12 隻牙咁多喇...Vienna 仲係得5 隻咋...哈哈...
未同佢介片, 因為驚去街時唔記得同佢著番...加上天氣好凍喇....
近來Zac 都冇咩好好笑既事囉...有就post 上黎比你笑下啦...heehe....佢下星期要做"偏桃線" 手術呀...希望個手術做得好好啦...好彩做完有2 weeks Easter holiday 唔使返學...我地會帶佢去Easter Show 同去輕氣球節 (hot air balloons show) ..不過一定唔會比佢坐 (我怕唔夠安全呀!)

CCW,
等我分享下你既喜悅先....

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Hi Amy
睇完你篇講章，都覺得有point，但做起上來就都幾困難．

你地有無試過ｂｂ唔跟你，唔揍佢嗰個人，好傷心．

:-( :-( :-(

Kit B　係, 1月23日出世，

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kitkitmom,
倬嬅咪又係最唔痴我......因為麻麻揍, 爸爸又工傷係屋企, 我都好唔開心GA, 佢老豆行開左咋, 佢就大叫, 我行開呢, 無反應............不過佢地仲咁細個, 見得邊個多就跟邊個啦, 只要你係錫佢, 佢一定會跟你ga喎~

ccw,
嘩, 尋晚一開信箱, 一打開, 嘩.......嘉意係封面呀~好得意~~

各位,
我聽日去啦.........(台灣).......唔好掛住我啦~ :-P

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Lydia, 曲曲, Irene, 豐嫂, gobby :
哈哈~~多謝多謝﹗其實我自己都未收到本季刊ga, 但就上網睇左lor~~
豐嫂 : 本嘉寶季刊係非賣品黎, 佢地每季寄比d 會員ga, 所以如果你唔係會員就唔會收到, 但你有興趣o既話可以click 呢度睇 : http://www.simshk.com/ch/club/doc/baby_club/newsletter_4_2004.pdf

Lydia : Preston 簽名相個樣唔同曬呀~~大個仔左好多﹗
Amy : 錦zac驚唔驚做手術呀﹖會唔會有疤ga第時﹖

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2ling,

立智都 like 周圍行架, 雖則 .... 我度地方冇咁大, 不過都仲有少少位比佢行既!!

比,

一路順風喇）））））

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KitKitMom 寫道:
Hi Amy
睇完你篇講章，都覺得有point，但做起上來就都幾困難．

練習得多就會成為生活中的一部份.......互免之
係呢,你有幾多個小朋友呢? 幾歲? 叫什麼名字呢? 你住在HK嗎? Hope to know you more...

CCW,
我都話Kylie 笑容好甜架啦 (成日笑到見呀唔見眼)哈哈 ~~
About Zac's tonsils out: 唔知有冇scar, 但都係係口裏面...唔緊要的...希望唔好咁痛就得喇....After taking the tonsils out, 佢應該會好胃口, 希望佢食番多d野啦~~~

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KitKitMom 寫道:
Hi Amy
睇完你篇講章，都覺得有point，但做起上來就都幾困難．

你地有無試過ｂｂ唔跟你，唔揍佢嗰個人，好傷心．

:-( :-( :-(

Hi, KitKitMon, 其實我都係半個新丁, 因為我都係好後期先識得入黎呢個forum 度, 我個b 大你個3days, 佢20/1 出世, 你個係囝囝定係囡囡黎o架??

0112, 凝凝仲未食到飯呀? 唔使急, 你可以係你地食飯時餵小小比佢, 將d 份量慢慢咁加, 直到佢可以食到為止啦. 大頭仔而家每晚都食到細半碗飯o架.

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CCW~我開唔到呀, 你聽日帶比我睇得唔得

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Amy,
Thanks for your advice. She seems to act a little better these 2 days,but I (also my mom who comes to visit sometimes) found that she is not as caring to Preston as b4. I will definately fire her, probably end of this month( when new maid is ready). I understand your points and totally agree, but I think is her character that she likes to be in-charge and has a strong character, it's diffeicult to talk to her. Every time we want to talk to her, or tell her something (in a nice way), she is very defensive, she wants it in her own way. Everytime I tell her to do something, I haven't finished my words, she will say 'I know, I know' and would not let me finish my words. It's so hard to have any communication with her. I know it's risk taking to hire another one, but it's a chance for our family and better for Preston, since she is not caring enough. Wish me luck on my new maid.

http://www.studio123.hk/onlinealbum/2008-02-03/preston.html

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