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the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do? [複製鏈接]

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發表於 07-8-19 19:58 |只看該作者

aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried to threw it away but failed, 一連串的動作和大話令我覺得佢鬼祟，加埋佢之前暗地裡對我個女說了些恐嚇的話，故令我份外不滿。:-|

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發表於 07-8-19 22:33 |只看該作者

我都覺得"食"唔係一個問題,問心嗰句,如果個MAID係幫到你手,咁佢食多小小,但係大家唔駛換來換去個工人,AGENCY FEE都慳唔小啦,有時我都會特登買一D我唔食既嘢比個MAID,例如:榴連....佢見到都好開心,咁我希望佢會對我個仔好D啦.....

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發表於 07-8-20 13:50 |只看該作者

yi, I tolerate my maid and haven't scolded her since she is the one taking care of my baby (although I hate her behavior). I still took her out every holiday if she chooses to work and buy her things she needs with a hope of changing her from time to time. However, I strongly encourage you to talk to your maid if she has done something harming your daughter. You need to protect your daughter and warn your maid on this. Your daughter is helpless if she is alone with the maid.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-19 19:58 發表
aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried ...

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aung0528

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發表於 07-8-21 13:30 |只看該作者

yi, it is really a matter of honesty. I packed my lunch box last nite which I have just found that she has taken from my lunch box last nite while I went out with baby. She pissed me off when I have just found this out now. I dare not to eat the lunch box and I need to line up long for my lunch then.
I really hate her and cannot understand why she behaves like this. Of course, she will deny when I ask her. My ex-maid is very honest who had a very good relationship and communication with us. We do treat her and miss her.
I treat this new maid even better alhtough she has just fired by someone recently. I care about her feeling and try not to hurt her. But why does she like to tell lies so much???? I don't care how much food she eat but I need her to be honest. She get used to tell lies even an unimportant thing I ask her.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-19 19:58 發表
aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried ...

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發表於 07-8-21 13:38 |只看該作者

aunt0528, I deeply understand yr feeling, esp "I don't care how much food she eat but I need her to be honest. ":-|

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發表於 07-8-21 15:34 |只看該作者

其實生果零食食得幾多,我由頭到尾都唔介意請工人食.不過有時啲工人會食到無譜,令你覺得收唔番.

我對上兩個工人來到,我老公都當佢哋家人咁,除燕窩外樣樣都預佢一份,連大閘蟹都預佢兩隻,第一個工人好有分數,大家食得好開心!

第二個初頭都無問題,但佢見我哋咁大方,佢就唔理咁多,樣樣都食到夠為止,唔理你食咗未:

- 連續兩年,我買冰皮月餅返去,同佢講"You may try some snowy mooncake."結果未到中秋一件不留,我真金白銀買返來,竟然一件都無得食!

- 喺屋企食火煱,當然任佢食啦,但佢可以坐喺度食到我食完佢都未食完,期間完全唔會理阿仔,總之好似喺自己屋企食緊大餐咁!我請客佢都係咁, 死未!

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原文章由 radish 於 07-8-19 22:33 發表
我都覺得"食"唔係一個問題,問心嗰句,如果個MAID係幫到你手,咁佢食多小小,但係大家唔駛換來換去個工人,AGENCY FEE都慳唔小啦,有時我都會特登買一D我唔食既嘢比個MAID,例如:榴連....佢見到都好開心,咁 ...

如果佢做得好, 我都唔mind 比佢食, o甘更係dcheap o野
啦, 我之前o個個好 smart, 我就成日買好大多o野(零食+
biscuit+coffee+bread) 任佢食

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等待BB的小貓

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發表於 07-8-21 22:05 |只看該作者

YI,

你地平時係冇全完冇溝通架, 我諗個工人一定好驚你, 一係怕話你食左你屋企D野, 另一方面怕你以為佢偷賴.

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發表於 07-8-22 22:36 |只看該作者

This might be the case but does not apply to my maid who dares sleeping in front of the webcam. Also, I found her "searching" my mom's handbag while she went out with bb. So she is just a thief but not a timid poor rabbit!