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I'm not being mean. They deserve it.

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 14:52 發表
Now the doctor say their son (2 years old) may be 發展遲緩. The doctor suggest them to let his son play with my son. It can help his son to learn quickly.
Then, my 99 request us (my yan yan) to take ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 14:52 發表
Now the doctor say their son (2 years old) may be 發展遲緩. The doctor suggest them to let his son play with my son. It can help his son to learn quickly.
Then, my 99 request us (my yan yan) to take ...

叫你印印揍埋叔仔個仔,咁唔系犯法架咩?

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Agree!
In their eyes, their son is 好矜貴
=> they don't use any 2-hand things for his son.
=> they buy a combi 'baby car' in hk$3000.
=> they don't allow others to touch their son's face (they say our hand is dirty)........

And now, they want to save the $ for their son's treatment ($100 per hour) and just want to put their son together with my kids.

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 15:00 發表
咁冇知識架, 佢咁唔係protect個仔. 細路係要有stimulation, 至學到野, 佢乜stimulation都唔俾個仔, 個仔d腦神經細胞冇stimulation唔生, stimulation 係要多方面既, 有d係靠摸同接觸定來, 淨係睇電視就得咩, 第日個仔變白痴佢就點喊都喊唔番, 佢以為佢個仔好矜貴, 佢咁樣分分鐘第日要養個仔一世. 佢個仔識行都算係奇蹟啦

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發表於 08-4-17 15:32 |只看該作者

唔犯法架 if my 99 take 叔仔個仔 to my flat!!!

原文章由 JFL 於 08-4-17 15:17 發表

叫你印印揍埋叔仔個仔,咁唔系犯法架咩?

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you should get them to pay you 100/hour for letting their son to play with your son. that's way below the cost of a speech therapist. A private speech therapist treatment costs $1000/hour. And they should be very grateful to you that you allow such a low price. haha.

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 15:30 發表
Agree!
In their eyes, their son is 好矜貴
=> they don't use any 2-hand things for his son.
=> they buy a combi 'baby car' in hk$3000.
=> they don't allow others to touch their son's face (they say o ...

[ 本文章最後由 8C9 於 08-4-17 15:38 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-4-17 15:40 |只看該作者

That's what my husband say.............they deserve it!
And my husband also say : luckly we refuse to let our yan yan to take care of their son. If not, it will be our responsibility .................

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 15:00 發表
I'm not being mean. They deserve it.

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Hahahaaaaaa...........
My son is so great as he can earn $ at 3 years old!!!!
I am proud with my son!

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 15:36 發表
you should get them to pay you 100/hour for letting their son to play with your son. that's way below the cost of a speech therapist. A private speech therapist treatment costs $1000/hour. And they ...

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the treatment is given by the gov's. So it charge only 100/lesson.
Sometimes I feel sorry about their son. However, my husband remind me don't say any 'bad' words about their son in front of my 99 and them. Just say he is great, so clever so tall .......'good' words only! If not, my 99 will be angry with us.

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 15:36 發表
you should get them to pay you 100/hour for letting their son to play with your son. that's way below the cost of a speech therapist. A private speech therapist treatment costs $1000/hour. And they ...

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 14:40 發表
嗯...... 因為99對囡囡唔係咁鍚(雖然呢個係佢第一個孫)，又接近不聞不問。原本咁樣無所謂，我就俾我媽湊。咁囡囡就鍚婆婆多d, 佢就唔抵得，開始搞好多小動作，老公又信哂佢, 最後搞到好多事出來。
我剛開始係擔心，佢會鍚未出 ...

你99係唔係有問題呀？

叔仔要係大陸娶老婆，又要生仔，乜唔係預咗要洗呢筆錢既咩，點解要你哋俾一半呀？佢唔係以為個細新抱連你老都有一半份呀

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俾我..我會開心o架!
但係都會有少少唔抵得99 會偏心..

不過諗深一層, 我個仔有我自己啺, 嫲嫲唔啺未唔啺囉! 重好, 個仔痴我多d!

親戚朋友有bb 我會好開心, 無諗咁多o架...不過如果真係會將個責任落起我身上, 咁實唔得喇! no way!

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我冇叔or伯..不過有兩個姑9..如果姑9生,我都會好開心...因為有多個b同我個女玩嘛...
99好錫佢個女ga..但99話唔會幫姑9湊,因為姑9個老公係鬼佬,99驚湊得唔好,個鬼佬會告佢...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 14:14 發表
My 99 told my husband her (叔仔's wife) requirements.
1.) you can't put her son on the floor because it is dirty (I let my son play on the floor because I think it is more save)
2.) you can't put her ...

唔放得落地；
唔放得落梳化；
唔放得落床........................唔通要搵個籠放？

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 14:40 發表
嗯...... 因為99對囡囡唔係咁鍚(雖然呢個係佢第一個孫)，又接近不聞不問。原本咁樣無所謂，我就俾我媽湊。咁囡囡就鍚婆婆多d, 佢就唔抵得，開始搞好多小動作，老公又信哂佢, 最後搞到好多事出來。
我剛開始係擔心，佢會鍚未出 ...

同我奶奶一樣，依家佢仲未知我囡囡幾大(8個月).....

其實應該慶幸叔仔有小朋友，因為咁就可以等你奶奶唔再同婆婆搶孫湊。

錢個方面，要同老公先傾掂，你地可以幫幾多(例如俾一半)，雖然唔公平，但你預咗多數要俾D。

到時奶奶出聲問到，你老公就比較唔會亂咁應允太多。因為話就話$40000，但有時天有不測，萬一到時BB有事，醫藥費就未必只係$40000，所以最好有個底線。

[ 本文章最後由 A.C.C. 於 08-4-18 12:03 編輯 ]

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原文章由 A.C.C. 於 08-4-17 12:41 發表
我奶奶都係鍾意貼錢落大伯同叔仔，仲係用我地俾嘅家用。

之前都會唔開心，最嬲係當時自己都無乜錢唔敢生BB，但奶奶成日要我地俾錢支付大伯個仔嘅開支，好似幫人養細路一樣。

但係，再諗深一層，點解要嬲呢？大伯叔仔還大伯叔仔，我 ...

我都同意，
一向我呀媽都好鍾意用我比嘅貼晒全部人加我一個月番去食嗰兩三餐飯，我都唔鍾意架！但當時無咁窮，都算！

但而家又多個b，又要請工人，佢又唔會過吓嚟幫吓手，好多$$要用，所以我個計法就變咗喇！
我會計，四兄弟姐妹，我將我嘅家用x 4 ，如果條總數係足夠有餘我父母生活，(開心加多資多彩嗰隻，即兩個老人家有萬幾又住公屋，講真我都無咁多零用！)，咁我就問心無愧！

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 13:41 發表
I 覆99 : As you know, I am very lazy. I need a helper to take care of my son at night. I also need some one to take care my son on saturday and sunday. (She likes to travel to mainland china in weeken ...

咁都比佢諗到~~極品!!
要 take care 你 99 自己 take care~ 唔好攪人地o個家, 再唔係 bb 拎番大陸呀媽自己 take care 囉~ 佢又唔洗番工!!

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樓主, 自己靜靜地save d錢, 想生bb就生. 點解要為人地考慮自己的一生. 點講都唔通.
你一有錢save, 就save係阿媽到, 老公如果信佢阿媽都唔信你而搞出好多事, 你老公都無錯的, 咁佢阿媽叻呀嘛, 你就要更加叻!!! d錢要為人地, 大家有感情基礎, 會互相幫助就話啫, 掉返轉得唔得呀? 唔好同你老公一樣咁傻, 都唔洗鬧佢, 佢俾佢阿媽呃到好正常, 話晒阿媽會唔知仔心肝咩? 要呃佢錢都易d啦. 儲多d錢為自己個囡囡及第二個bb好過啦. 做基金又好, 總之唔好留咁多現金係身, 睇佢地點"鑿"你地d錢!!!! 計好自己cash flow, 夠就ok了. 個囡囡用左100, 就開數150. 為自己個囡留多d錢.

我爸爸好錫自己的家人, 但係都知道佢地唔成材, 佢地有難佢會出錢又出力. 我媽咪就同我爸爸講"你咁錫個女, 點解你從來唔幫個囡諗下, 你下下諗人地, 你個囡點?" 我爸爸覆"咁人地有難, 唔通唔幫, 唔通講大話咩, 講無錢咩"... 我好欣賞佢咁正直, 無諗過縮骨咩都話無錢. 到我爸爸退休有退休金, 佢中六合彩, 佢差不多一兩天就會分晒d錢給我地. 會做為將來planning的決定. 錢一定唔會多keep係身. 佢咁樣反而會令佢d家人strong及自立. 好過佢下下有困難就伸手而唔自己諗辦法.

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 11:57 發表
為他們高興嗎？老實話，小部份。心情好覆雜就真。因為99一向偏心細仔，細媳婦又係佢心目中既好媳婦。咁細媳婦係大陸人，一年上來2,3次探親，目前固然無返工。叔仔份工就約$7500。佢地就跟99一起住，有否俾家用等，我就唔知都唔想問 ...

樓主~ 佢係你99之嘛, 又唔係親生呀媽, 佢錫边個有乜所謂啫, 仲細咩! 爭寵呀~~ 人地想生幾多係人地既事, 你有能力既米請工人揍囉, 唔好下下諗著要人幫~~ 呢個世界靠自己最實際!!

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