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Friday

子爵府

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牛年勳章好媽媽勳章睛靈勳章

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發表於 04-5-7 10:14 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

講起搭lift,有時真係好激氣, 好多時見企喺lift門隔離既人,"Q"住雙手唔會幫吓手按住open掣,等其他人入哂為止。但佢又好自然咁,你未出哂lift,佢已經按定close掣, 好難理解點解啲人會自私到咁既地步.

心肝寶貝寫道:
唉 ! 香港真係有D咁嘅人, 真係一樣米養百樣人, 難得佢哋D人做得出呀嘛 ..........

有時, 搭 LIFT 都係啦 ! 幫佢哋"禁"住 LIFT 門, 俾佢哋入啦 ! 點知入到嚟, 唔該都冇一聲, 呢 D 係基本禮貌"姐", 咁都唔識, 您估我真係"渣LIFT 人"咩 !

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justjust

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發表於 04-5-7 12:26 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

My husband is the type who holds lift doors, gives seats to pregnant woman. Once he even physically removed a middle-aged man from the MTR seat because he stole the seat that my husband gave up for a pregnant woman.

But 2 months ago my husband had a fierce argument with a woman about using the lift. He was coming back from Park'n Shop with lots of shopping bags and waiting for the lift.

When the lift door opened, a woman with 3 children came out. The woman stood right in front of my husband and used her hand to keep the lift door open for that her 3 children and their bicycles. When the children and the bikes exited the lift, she was still blocking my husband and he could not enter the lift. So my husband just saw the lift doors closing, not able to hold it because his arms were loaded with shopping bags and the woman simply blocked his way all the time and didn't help him to hold the door. At least she could have moved a little to give way.

My husband uttered a few words (in a language that the woman couldn't understand) that he had to wait for another lift. Then the woman turned back. (The following conversation was conducted in English.)

W: You want a lift for yourself or what?
H: No. I think it is you who want a lift for yourself.
W: If you are so rich, you can buy a lift for yourself.
H: I am not rich. But at least I have manners.
W: You look at yourself. A man fighting a lift with a woman and children. I thought you were a gentleman.
H: I am a gentleman. But that doesn't mean that you can be selfish.
W: I think you are the one with no manners.
H: Sure, and I think you are a pig.

Probably my husband was a bit out of the line for his last comments. But I think the woman deserved it.

Simply don't understand how she teaches her own children.

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vlbcjl

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發表於 04-5-7 15:46 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

好有同感啊, 究竟有禮貌

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小琪

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發表於 04-5-8 08:24 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

有次同呀囝搭火車，呀囝果陣時好細個，甘剛剛有架火車到站，企係我地後面個男人，見到我拖住個細路入得慢，驚死搭唔到車甘，用粗口鬧我地﹕ " 阻x住曬"，跟著我好嬲甘問佢﹕" 你講物野？"佢顯得好唔好意思就走左。 :-x

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smallmonkey

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發表於 04-5-10 15:07 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

Hi everybody,

俾我講下我的case,呢件事激得我死, e加都記得, 大家評下理.....
one day I shopping in the supermarket and waiting in the cashier, 當下一個就到我突然有個 30 - 40 歲的男人走過來話 : 「小姐, 可不可以讓我先呀? 我頭先買完, 買漏左...我老婆係出面等緊我....」我望下佢老婆, 又唔係大肚又唔似有病, 再望下我後面的人龍.....於是我同佢講「對後面的人唔公平喎, 人人都想快架啦,個個都排隊,你都係排隊啦」個男人見打尖不成功就用D不友善眼神啤我, 然後走去再問第二個。
好戲在後頭, 當我俾完錢時, 個男人重特登走近我大大聲話「唉! 我地買完野,咪同人地講聲拜拜羅!!!」原來佢成功打尖特登走過來耀舞揚威一番......激死我。
其實當日我都想快D俾錢, 因為我老公抱住個5歲又訓左的女, 企係到等緊我, 我咪又係好守跌序咁排隊.....點解呢個世界會有D咁架人???

:-(

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issac

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發表於 04-5-10 18:00 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

我覺得你講得好好~~
睇哂咁多人講野..
我覺得教仔真的不容易...
一起努力吧.!!
(p.s. 我有時見到d咁自私既人,我會諗..唔該你唔好生bb啦..
害左佢!!willing to give the birth, but not willing to guide him or her is not a good mother~~
共勉之~~~~~~

My dear baby--- Issac

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可兒

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發表於 04-5-11 03:00 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

嘩!個男人唔只冇禮貌呀,仲非常幼稚....簡直去到白痴既地步 :-x :-x :-x

smallmonkey 寫道:
Hi everybody,

俾我講下我的case,呢件事激得我死, e加都記得, 大家評下理.....
one day I shopping in the supermarket and waiting in the cashier, 當下一個就到我突然有個 30 - 40 歲的男人走過來話 : 「小姐, 可不可以讓我先呀? 我頭先買完, 買漏左...我老婆係出面等緊我....」我望下佢老婆, 又唔係大肚又唔似有病, 再望下我後面的人龍.....於是我同佢講「對後面的人唔公平喎, 人人都想快架啦,個個都排隊,你都係排隊啦」個男人見打尖不成功就用D不友善眼神啤我, 然後走去再問第二個。
好戲在後頭, 當我俾完錢時, 個男人重特登走近我大大聲話「唉! 我地買完野,咪同人地講聲拜拜羅!!!」原來佢成功打尖特登走過來耀舞揚威一番......激死我。
其實當日我都想快D俾錢, 因為我老公抱住個5歲又訓左的女, 企係到等緊我, 我咪又係好守跌序咁排隊.....點解呢個世界會有D咁架人??? :-(

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Gutma

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發表於 04-5-11 11:40 |只看該作者

Re: 看地鐵人生百態鞭策自己做個稱職媽咪

Smallmonkey:

看完你的經歷很為你不值，你應該大大聲回敬他：『我無打尖咪無你咁快囉！』或者『先生我唔識你bor，我D朋友都唔打尖ge！』
有時遇到這些人也想理直氣壯地教訓他們，讓他們知衰，但通常都是已被人激到死死下 :-x :-x :-x ，唔識反應，比較積極的做法是做好自己，為下一代樹立好榜樣。