now my baby is 16 months old, take care by mother-in-law since she was born, now she suggests us to hire a maid for baby, 2 reasons
1. I no need to send my daughter to/from mother-in-law's home every mornings & nights.
2. she can have spare time to vacation with father-in-law & friends.
To me, I prefer daughter to stay with mother-in-law, because the relatives (she takes care of my daughter very carefully - better than me), maid is only an employee, no any relatives to me/daughter, so I'm really sure my daughter to stay with her mama is much happy than with maid.. but I can't too selfish, my mother-in-law also needs the rest..
so now I'm looking for the maid...