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原文章由 ngauBBmon 於 08-9-24 13:36 發表
我的印印都是在上星期六到達我屋企。我是到agent處接她的。
初步觀察都覺得ok勤力，煮飯一般，幸好我懂煮飯，可指點一二。她亦都受教。
有些問題要請教大家bk媽媽︰
1.請問你們會給大門鎖匙與她嗎？幾時比？
2.如果我與家人出街 ...

1/我有比佢, 不過佢放假先攞, 佢返來就比返我keep
2/bb出世之後就一齊出去, 宜家就佢自己係home 食
3/我又無所謂, 一齊食, 因我都唔係好多人.

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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-9-24 22:37 發表
I only provide 1 pack of M 巾 to her (I have a few packs left).

Her toilet doesn't have mirror. Actually she did not ask for my permission to buy the apron, toothwash cup and carpet. She just bough ...

不過你比得一次佢話事佢就以為自己可以話事,佢唔問過你買的野我一定唔比 $$佢唔係計較而係佢沒有的你同意呀, 我覺得大家要知道規則.. 唔係買了就一定有得claims.. 仲有呀, 我令願在佢的washroom 安裝 mirror好過佢買一塊, if u fire her, she must bring all away la.

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原文章由 happymanman 於 08-9-24 19:50 發表

我都係咁呀, 第一次就買比佢shampoo, conditional & tooth brush + toothpaste, 我都係話下次佢要自己買包括 m巾, 如果唔係我咪要出多百幾元一個月比佢, 仲有佢唔好save我的 resources wor.. 我連衫都沒有買比佢 ...

我無買m巾俾佢呀, 唔理lu~
我今日都發覺佢做野無咩手尾, 煮完野食唔識閂抽氣煽, 又無熄廁所,廚房燈, 叫佢餵隻貓:如果發現佢食唔晒(乾糧), 第二餐就添少d, c6 o岩o岩發現佢竟然將食剩既貓糧(差唔多 1半)倒晒去廁所, 真係好浪費, 又要鵝佢一兩句......, d工人真係唔會同你慳$, 只會同你豪洗......, 因為唔係佢d$~~~
我都係第1次請工人, 好在遇到個好agent, 希望個工人生生性性,, 你都唔好咁勞氣, 唔好要ah b做紋薑!

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原文章由 happymanman 於 08-9-24 22:07 發表

你對佢咁好由得佢自己買,我係買定比佢的我可以買d平野ma..
我唔會比 $$去買野和落街因為我在假日一次過會買多d野放入雪櫃, 如果唔夠放工買多少少就算.. ...

我都諗住一個星期同佢去兩次街市/超市, 放晒落雪櫃算數.....都盡量唔過$佢手, 如果買唔夠, 就放工時call佢去supermarket等我, 點都要佢幫手拎下野.....

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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-9-24 22:37 發表
I only provide 1 pack of M 巾 to her (I have a few packs left).

Her toilet doesn't have mirror. Actually she did not ask for my permission to buy the apron, toothwash cup and carpet. She just bough ...

你個工人黎左幾耐呀?
我覺得佢自把自為買野俾佢自己係好唔掂囉! 如果佢真係要圍裙, 浪口盅, 我諗我都會買俾佢, 但我都係會買d cheap 既俾佢, 我e+俾佢隻浪口盅都係買牙膏既贈品.......
鏡同地顫我唔會買俾佢, 又係晌屋企搵塊唔要既粉底/eye shadow鏡俾佢就算咯, 如果無, 就叫佢自己買!

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原文章由 bbbingo 於 08-9-24 23:06 發表

我無買m巾俾佢呀, 唔理lu~
我今日都發覺佢做野無咩手尾, 煮完野食唔識閂抽氣煽, 又無熄廁所,廚房燈, 叫佢餵隻貓:如果發現佢食唔晒(乾糧), 第二餐就添少d, c6 o岩o岩發現佢竟然將食剩既貓糧(差唔多 1半)倒晒去廁所, ...

都係我要令到自己心平氣和... 始終要教的.. 不過我個工人都幾慳的可能佢之前的BOSS好嚴所以佢用野都OK

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原文章由 bbbingo 於 08-9-24 23:25 發表

你個工人黎左幾耐呀?
我覺得佢自把自為買野俾佢自己係好唔掂囉! 如果佢真係要圍裙, 浪口盅, 我諗我都會買俾佢, 但我都係會買d cheap 既俾佢, 我e+俾佢隻浪口盅都係買牙膏既贈品.......
鏡同地顫我唔會買俾佢, 又 ...

She joined me on 9 Sep. At 1st I really hate her 自把自為, and want to fire her instantly. I am guiding her to the right way now, at least she' not 自把自為 now because I scolded her once. Whenever she want to buy something, she will need to get my permission first.

I am also teaching her to be 慳 and she knows that I monitor things very closely (like food in the fridge, rolls of tissue paper she used). So she will not misuse things.

[ 本文章最後由 c-wong 於 08-9-25 09:32 編輯 ]

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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-9-25 09:31 發表

She joined me on 9 Sep. At 1st I really hate her 自把自為, and want to fire her instantly. I am guiding her to the right way now, at least she' not 自把自為 now because I scolded her once. Whenev ...

係呀我都覺得要 guide住佢. 仲要什麼野都要問我. 你個工人幾大年紀呀, 我個得 23age呀

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原文章由 happymanman 於 08-9-25 10:42 發表

係呀我都覺得要 guide住佢. 仲要什麼野都要問我. 你個工人幾大年紀呀, 我個得 23age呀

Yours is soo young!! I guess she's new to HK.

Mine is 34. She's way too smart. Maybe because she worked in HK for 4 years. As long as she can handle all work tasks and treat BB good, I will just let go. I think giving a little bit extra to her (like fulfilling her small requests) is ok if her performance is good. Her performance is so far so good EXCEPT her extra requests (e.g. asked for mobile phone, mirror, fruits, came back home later but apologized).

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I think that's ok if u tell her once should ask your premission before she buy or need something.

Mine is 34 too and she worked in HK for 8 years, she worked for me almost 2 months, her performance so far so good. The 1st day she came, i have already gave her the guidelines and routine for everyday work. For cooking, i taught her in my way and gave a notebook to drop down. I also provide her tissue, shampoo, conditioner and body gel. Those are not spending a lot for each month. I dun mind to provide all these to her. The most important thing is her preformance. I always tell my maid that she's my helper and hope you know your role in the family. But it's doesn't mean you are low or i never look down on u. I respect u and u respect me too. Give and take. I think it's really works!

原文章由 c-wong 於 08-9-25 10:55 發表

Yours is soo young!! I guess she's new to HK.

Mine is 34. She's way too smart. Maybe because she worked in HK for 4 years. As long as she can handle all work tasks and treat BB good, I will just ...

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原文章由 fleurc 於 08-9-25 11:51 發表
I think that's ok if u tell her once should ask your premission before she buy or need something.

Mine is 34 too and she worked in HK for 8 years, she worked for me almost 2 months, her performance s ...

Yes, I don't mind giving a little bit extra to her too if she performs good. I am very hands-off as my maid can do cleaning well, and cooks well (she can invent new dishes when I told her I want this and that combination). She's quite initiative. I know she's greedy but am quite glad to have her because she can help me out a lot (as I never do housework and can't cook proper meals).

I am giving her a perception that I am very 'harn', so she can help save resources. She would ask me to pay $ for bread, jam and butter, but she would add a phrase 'I will buy cheap'.

Another thing to mention is that maids tend to misuse electric appliances/resources. She broke my new broom and vacuum cleaner.

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i'm unlucky, my maid come to my home on 13 Sep, now i want to fire her as she is very dirty and can't understand cantonese. I don't let her to touch my baby. I prefer quit my job and stay at home to take care my baby.

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原文章由 venus_mama08 於 08-9-25 12:25 發表
i'm unlucky, my maid come to my home on 13 Sep, now i want to fire her as she is very dirty and can't understand cantonese. I don't let her to touch my baby. I prefer quit my job and stay at home to t ...

Yours is a Indo or Phillippino? New or finished contract? My maid will come end of next week and I'm quite worried she's no good as well... haaa...

However, I don't think I will quit my job and become a full-time housewife. I stayed at home more than a week now waiting for my baby to come out and feel so bored!

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原文章由 venus_mama08 於 08-9-25 12:25 發表
i'm unlucky, my maid come to my home on 13 Sep, now i want to fire her as she is very dirty and can't understand cantonese. I don't let her to touch my baby. I prefer quit my job and stay at home to t ...

你要想清楚呀, 你個工人係唔係未做過野呀, 如果係一定會係咁, 不如你請一個有經驗的啦..咁你會好少少呀我工人都係13/9來..

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我工人5/9黎, 緊接我舊工人走 (5/9), 佢係bun bun, so far 都ok la, 清潔做得唔錯, 不過有時都無手尾, 又係after bathing 唔記得關熱水爐同抽氣扇, 不過話佢幾次就記得了, 所以有野一定要即刻出聲啦, 開頭一定要嚴小小啦, 唔係做衰左個頭好難番轉頭, 我大囡而家2歲, 開頭佢都唔係好投入湊佢, 可能仲陌生啦, 而家好好多lu, 會一齊睇vcd 同唱歌仔比佢聽…好在我囡都肯跟佢, 放假我就要佢8點前番, 呢2個星期日佢都7:45pm 就番到, 千其唔好比佢地咁遲番, 遲d 要湊bb麻, 成10點先番真係晏得滯啦….

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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-9-25 10:55 發表

Yours is soo young!! I guess she's new to HK.

Mine is 34. She's way too smart. Maybe because she worked in HK for 4 years. As long as she can handle all work tasks and treat BB good, I will just ...

我個maid27歲, single, 之前晌singapore做過兩年, 我覺得佢個樣唔似27歲架, 係似3x歲個d, 個樣都好樸素....., haha, 我覺得有時相由心生, 希望佢做野都係勤勤力力&踏實個種....

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原文章由 fleurc 於 08-9-25 11:51 發表
I think that's ok if u tell her once should ask your premission before she buy or need something.

Mine is 34 too and she worked in HK for 8 years, she worked for me almost 2 months, her performance s ...

我都無睇低佢地, 因為其實我覺得佢地一個人離鄉別井, 去融入一個唔同文化既家庭, 係一件幾慘情既事, 雖然話我地會出糧俾佢, 又包食包住, 但將心彼己......., 我都希望盡量做到好公平咁對待佢地~

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原文章由 venus_mama08 於 08-9-25 12:25 發表
i'm unlucky, my maid come to my home on 13 Sep, now i want to fire her as she is very dirty and can't understand cantonese. I don't let her to touch my baby. I prefer quit my job and stay at home to t ...

我個印姐d英文都唔多好, 唯有做多d身體語言, 講多幾次囉.....,
你個maid點dirty法? 我諗你見到佢d"污糟野"時一定要第一時間同佢講....., 我記得我個agent晌brief我個印姐時話..., 佢一定要記住佢e+係湊緊一個hong kong baby, 唔係indonesian baby, safety and cleaniness are the most important things!!

如果真係死性不改而你又容忍唔到, 不如請個第二個maid囉~
其實我都唔想多個陌生人晌屋企, 因為我印姐到左呢幾日, 我都訓得唔好, 成日諗要點做, 要點編排佢d工作, 又驚佢做錯, 又驚佢懷恨在心, 又驚佢偷野, 借錢......, 總之就好多野好似好煩咁....
但我一定唔可以做全職主婦, 所以我一定要train 好我個maid!!

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原文章由 yamiyami 於 08-9-25 17:18 發表
我工人5/9黎, 緊接我舊工人走 (5/9), 佢係bun bun, so far 都ok la, 清潔做得唔錯, 不過有時都無手尾, 又係after bathing 唔記得關熱水爐同抽氣扇, 不過話佢幾次就記得了, 所以有野一定要即刻出聲啦, 開頭一定要嚴小 ...

我都諗住 ah b出世之後要個工人早d返~

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