of course, be a mother....i do all the things for my son..eventhough i know how to go into this web site because i need to get some experiecne from here for my son.....it's a big responsible but no regret..it's my choice. I never love the boy like this....i'm a crazy mummy.....sometimes, my husband will also jealous that i love much than him..i try to make it in balance, very difficult la!