Then, please don't say我同老公都諗住俾$4000/月佢...
This $ is not given to your 99, it is for your family expenses............
Therefore, remember to say 'thank you' to your 99!
P.S.
I have a yan yan, her salary + agent fee + air ticket + extra living expenses for her is more than 5k per month.
However, I also need to pay for 埋餸煮飯 4k per month.