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樓主: 930米芝蓮

咁既人都有..好唔開心我要點做好(有d長) [複製鏈接]

Vca

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發表於 08-10-21 19:33 |只看該作者

根本樓主一開始就擺出個阿嫂款!

既然妳唔鍾意叔仔條女，咁咪唔好再同叔仔佢地一齊出去同自己朋友玩囉! 冇必要同朋友講個女仔既不是~~~

妳朋友同妳講係啱既 - 佢唔同妳打招呼，妳可以先同對方打招呼! 只係妳一早已經有"我係阿嫂~ 我大過你..." - 依個咁既觀念，先覺得有問題! 需知道~ 嫂唔嫂都好，妳同佢都只係平輩!

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930米芝蓮

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發表於 08-10-21 19:42 |只看該作者

原文章由 Joanna.L 於 08-10-21 15:02 發表

This is good suggestion. 我叔仔唔叫我都算,佢帶條女返屋企,竟然唔識叫我c6,叫聲哥哥都唔識,咁佢又識叫我6299,佢條女仲親我同c6唔係屋企,走入黎我房玩電腦,因為叔仔未買,咁我又唔會咁小人之心lock門啦!點知我返到 ...

Joanna 同我諗既一樣, 每次佢帶條女出嚟都唔會叫我c6&我, 我c6都係大仔, 好似你講得啱叫聲亞哥都好呀, 佢又係識得叫6299喎, 所以覺得佢地一d禮貌都無...唉..不過算啦, 鬼叫把口生係人地到..原來都有人好似我禁既..我會明白&唔會唔開心啦~..多謝各位!!

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alik

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發表於 08-10-22 08:01 |只看該作者

我叔仔都唔會同任何人打招呼, 所以我都唔恨佢叫我, 我都唔同佢打招呼, 但唔會嬲佢(佢叫我做亞嫂既話仲好似叫老晒咁, 佢年紀大過我). 我只會覺得佢父母以前無家教, 仲縱到佢生骨大頭菜咁. 加埋佢性格問題, 唔係好夠膽同唔熟既人傾偈, 打開話匣子(好彩我老公唔係咁, 再粗魯都識少少禮貌), 要佢廿幾三十幾人去改, 係難d.

亞嫂唔係大晒, 同兄弟姊妹屬平輩, 唔使下下擺晒大嫂款, 明知佢係咁既, 你又唔甘心主動同佢打招呼, 咪唔好理佢當佢透明囉, 咁介意盞自討沒趣.

[ 本文章最後由 alik 於 08-10-22 08:04 編輯 ]

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sandy1425

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原文章由 Vca 於 08-10-21 19:33 發表
根本樓主一開始就擺出個阿嫂款!

既然妳唔鍾意叔仔條女，咁咪唔好再同叔仔佢地一齊出去同自己朋友玩囉! 冇必要同朋友講個女仔既不是~~~

妳朋友同妳講係啱既 - 佢唔同妳打招呼，妳可以先同對方打招呼! 只係妳一早已經有 ...

同意！！！

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sandy1425

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好媽媽勳章大廚勳章

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發表於 08-10-22 09:08 |只看該作者

我見到我ah哥都係點下頭,我同佢由細到大都係叫名,我吾叫阿哥又代表我無禮貌嗎？？？
莫名其妙

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發表於 08-10-23 11:01 |只看該作者

樓主(930米芝蓮),

Don't feel upset la ~~ you can't control what other ppl think and how they behave. Just like typing your comments in a thread. Some ppl may overlook, some may interpret them superficially and some may even mis-interpret them tim.

You have done your part really good ga la. If they don't say hi, you don't need to say hi to them purposely. Just a smile is good enough. Sometimes, it is not necessary to do this 門面野 too much. Easy ~~

原文章由 930米芝蓮 於 08-10-21 14:21 發表
我都有問我c6係咪我得罪左佢..上兩個月叔仔生日禁我地同d fd幫佢搞左個生日party, 切cake後禁我好主動同飲柸同佢講生日快樂, 點知佢無應過我, 當時我c6係我隔離都睇到佢無應我, 禁我咪再同佢講多次, 點知佢行開左去同d fd玩, 無理我之後我都好無穩..唉我都唔知點解會禁, 其實我都係想大家關係好d姐...

[ 本文章最後由 fungwongphie 於 08-10-23 11:06 編輯 ]

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何謂不誠實使用電腦??

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NYmom

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發表於 08-10-24 03:41 |只看該作者

我姑仔都唔叫人架，不過我又無所謂wor。因為家教不同。
我老爺奶奶唔識教，男家d人唔識叫人架，我都教o左老公好耐，先識一入門口大聲叫我 daddy & mommy

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wmpl

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發表於 08-10-24 04:29 |只看該作者

哩個年代,仲有咩叫唔叫阿哥阿嫂吖,當然,對方對你有一個尊重嘅稱呼係會開心啲嘅,不過做人又唔好太執著,如果人哋係唔尊重你嘅,就叫乜都係"銀"耳~~

我叫我兩個阿哥都係叫名,咁佢哋又從來都冇覺得我唔尊重佢哋喎,反而我大哥以前有個女朋友就會好多事咁規定我哋幾個妹要叫阿哥,仲一定要叫"大哥"...[而家諗返,可能其實係想我哋叫佢做阿嫂,唔好叫名啦!]終於咪乞我哋憎又惹我阿哥討厭囉,事關我哋叫阿哥做阿哥佢哋都唔識應我哋,真係唔係講笑,叫幾百次都冇反應,我哋叫唔慣又硬係叫到怪怪咁,終於我阿哥咪又係要求我哋叫返名算數,大家都舒服啲,佢女朋友...唉,真係法國大餐.....~~

我C6啲細佬妹都唔係次次叫我,有好多時都係我主動打招呼,不過我又唔覺得咁樣係有問題,又唔會覺得好唔開心噃,佢啲細佬妹都唔係次次叫我C6,而家諗返起,仲好似係我C6主動叫細佬妹嘅多,我亦唔覺佢啲細佬妹咁樣係唔尊重佢大佬,因為尊重係喺心裡面,同埋,人哋啲家庭習慣我係唔會干預!!

人哋唔叫你,你可以叫佢先,你又明知佢同你朋友玩得咁埋都仲同你朋友講你叔仔女友唔好,咁你今次真係自掘陷阱嚟跳,係你自己攞嚟唔開心la!!

放開啲,嗰個只不過係人哋細佬妹,唔駛咁緊張!!

[ 本文章最後由 wmpl 於 08-10-24 04:31 編輯 ]

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Misskat

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發表於 08-11-6 13:32 |只看該作者

My C6's two younger brothers and the wife of one brother do not respect me and C6. I used to take the initiative to say hi and call their names. They just said, "huh". After I had given brith to my baby, C6's sister-in-law beacme very impolite to me. She and her C6 did not say any congrats to me and C6. It is OK. One time I went to 6299's apartment (the younger brother and sister-in-law) and said hi to the sister-in-law by calling her name. She pretended she did not hear me and look the other way

Ever since, I would not take initiative to say hi to them.

The other brother is very impolite too. He lived in our apartment for a while. I cooked a lot of meals for him. One time he stayed in our house during Chinese new year, he did not say happy new year to me and C6 when he saw us on the new year day. When our common friends came over, he said happy new year to them. I had been nice to him and I did not deserve this kind of treatment.

So I almost ignored them from then on...

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發表於 08-11-6 14:05 |只看該作者

嘩,樓主夠膽叫c6嚮99投訴叔仔吖

會招惹好多煩惱架,通常d99會記係個心度,積積埋埋就....
不過dABC係咁架,佢地通常扮有性格,如果你當佢係朋友唔係你叔仔,無輩份之別先可以同佢地溝通到...仲可以同你好FRIEND...

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Cat1218

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發表於 08-11-6 14:10 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 Cat1218 的文章

就等於我地同99咁,如果D99唔係扮曬皇太后咁,我相信唔會有咁多可憐嘅新抱...大家nice d,就可以和睦共處了

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2on

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發表於 08-11-7 14:36 |只看該作者

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