Remember me? this is MagDog who you were willing to give a helping hand to.
你hubby是否做政府工甚至纪律報隊?雖然我对這行認識不多,但切記一定要忍、風茫不可太露、做好自己要做的tasks,then要"play"你 hubby的人見佢咁calm,他(們)会亂了陣脚啊,如有其他亞頭想help你hubby的,都会觉得你hubby有大將之風,更底幫。所以要忍,show his high EQ。
Then, you have to stand by his side and I agree to other moms' suggestions that don't overdo the 安慰,Business as usaual。 LIke you mentioned before, Such kind of unstable and unhappy situation at job is very negative to your hubby's future thinking, confidence and attitude towards career. (BTW, I was so-called "looser" or "victim" in those corporate politic games, that's why I haven't get back to work for 2 yrs. I wasn't happy and confident to work. But I am now trying to get back to work)
Anyway, all the best to you and your family. You can do it.