Agreed with 芝士腸!!
Boy or girl is the same as long as it is your own child. I don't see why boy is better than girl??? We're already in 2009 and should say goodbye to those old stupid thinkings....
Be strong, accept your baby as who it is - boy or girl!!
Imagine you were the baby, what and how you would feel???? Every child should have the right to be bathed in love of his/her parents and family!!