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發表於 09-1-21 16:57 |只看該作者

我99都話有我屋企鎖匙, 之前佢從來都唔會走黎 ... 到生左阿b之後, 佢就成日囉住鎖匙自出自入, 門鐘都唔禁 ... 之後我就鎖鐵閘, 佢開唔到就禁鐘, 可能佢知我唔鍾意, 整整下佢就冇再中上黎 ~~

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發表於 09-1-21 17:15 |只看該作者

原帖由 patajojo 於 09-1-21 16:57 發表
我99都話有我屋企鎖匙, 之前佢從來都唔會走黎 ... 到生左阿b之後, 佢就成日囉住鎖匙自出自入, 門鐘都唔禁 ... 之後我就鎖鐵閘, 佢開唔到就禁鐘, 可能佢知我唔鍾意, 整整下佢就冇再中上黎 ~~ ...

咁當你地見面時，佢會唔會面燶燶呢？

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hildameme

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發表於 09-1-21 17:15 |只看該作者

你嘅心情我都好明白,我奶奶住對面一日自出自入我HOME幾次,仲比佢攬到我依家有產後抑鬱,因為我唔想見到佢,見一次就唔開心一次,見完佢自己會埋一邊喊,但無法子其實佢應該知道我唔鍾意,因為我會有意無意會講D說話叫佢走,我好似對佢好衰,有時都知佢係為我好但唔鍾意一個人佢做咩你都會睇唔順眼......:;pppp:

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發表於 09-1-21 17:29 |只看該作者

原帖由 hildameme 於 09-1-21 17:15 發表
你嘅心情我都好明白,我奶奶住對面一日自出自入我HOME幾次,仲比佢攬到我依家有產後抑鬱,因為我唔想見到佢,見一次就唔開心一次,見完佢自己會埋一邊喊,但無法子其實佢應該知道我唔鍾意,因為我會有意無意會講D說話叫佢走 ...

嘩！你好似仲慘wor！
我而家湊住2個,心情時時都好唔穩定,所以一唔開心就想發脾氣,我都唔想攪到同6299反目成仇!上來bk呻下,希望捱過去啦!

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Casttle

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發表於 09-1-21 17:40 |只看該作者

我都覺得間屋係你99架喎, 佢去返自己間屋冇乜問題喎, 其實問題好簡單, 鎖好門囉, 每次你老公返工之後, 你都返鎖自己咪得囉, try多幾次, 你99會開聲問你點解鎖門, 你咪順勢同99廣你既不满囉, 唔應該發你c6脾氣, 因為佢會覺得間屋係佢ar mum買, 佢黎探個孫或者探個仔, 好正常, c6唔會feel到有問題, 反而令佢對你反感而傷感情就無謂la

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hildameme

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發表於 09-1-21 17:46 |只看該作者

你都好起碼bb你自己湊番,我唔鍾意我奶奶嘅原因就係佢一開始幫我湊個女,佢湊咗3年幾湊到個女唔肯跟我,到依家呢個細嘅遲d都要比佢湊,我好驚佢會搶埋我個細女所以成日會諗埋咗一邊囉....

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發表於 09-1-21 18:00 |只看該作者

原帖由 hildameme 於 09-1-21 17:46 發表
你都好起碼bb你自己湊番,我唔鍾意我奶奶嘅原因就係佢一開始幫我湊個女,佢湊咗3年幾湊到個女唔肯跟我,到依家呢個細嘅遲d都要比佢湊,我好驚佢會搶埋我個細女所以成日會諗埋咗一邊囉.... ...

其實到他們大時，一定唔會唔跟你架啦，始終係亞媽，除非你唔錫佢地啫。唔好諗埋咗一邊啦！

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女王大人

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發表於 09-1-21 18:13 |只看該作者

換鎖啦

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naviegirl

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發表於 09-1-21 18:54 |只看該作者

If I were you, I would feel like someone crashed into the washroom when i was taking a shower. Like if i have a leased apartment, the landlord does not have any right to visit the premises without advance notice to the tenant.

Unfortunately it does not applied to your case here. Your 99 thinks that your home is part of her home just like your husband's room before he got married and she has all the right to go to your apartment anytime she likes especially she paid for it. She absolutly does not have the idea that she is invading your privacy.

Do you or your husband pay her any monthly rent?

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chole_bb

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發表於 09-1-21 19:00 |只看該作者

有一段時間我99都係自出自入(一個禮拜嚟3,4日),搞到我一聽到key聲就好驚,同c6嘈到拆天,要分開咁濟,最慘係佢一嚟到就大叫:bb,嫲嫲嚟咗呀!亞b明明瞓緊覺都比佢嘈醒,次次玩到亞b得番半條人命,有一次發緊燒都唔放過,喺度大大聲講嘢,跟住入房整醒埋亞b,重要話亞b醒咗跟手抱出嚟又玩一倫,

我嬲到想喊,之後佢每一次嚟,我都唔會點同佢講嘢,我會扮到好忙,唔會招付佢,可能佢feel到我唔鍾意,過咗一段就冇乜上嚟,同埋以前佢話親呢樣乜呢樣七我都由佢,湊亞b嘅方法極到九唔搭八我都唔會開聲話佢,因為佢係c6個亞媽,我都想尊重佢,忍得嘅都忍,但係既然佢咁唔尊重我,我都唔需要忍佢,所以依家我覺得唔啱嘅嘅我會say NO!不過呢排佢唔知係咪見我多番d嘢講,又耐唔耐就會拱上嚟

,但係依家會打比我先,如果佢又好似以前咁我又會想

又

會

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發表於 09-1-21 20:33 |只看該作者

原帖由 chole_bb 於 09-1-21 19:00 發表
有一段時間我99都係自出自入(一個禮拜嚟3,4日),搞到我一聽到key聲就好驚,同c6嘈到拆天,要分開咁濟,最慘係佢一嚟到就大叫:bb,嫲嫲嚟咗呀!亞b明明瞓緊覺都比佢嘈醒,次次玩到亞b得番半條人命,有一次發緊燒都唔放過,喺度 ...

我都係"一聽到key聲就好驚"，無時無刻都要豎起耳仔、打醒精神做人，仲發過好幾次惡夢--99帶了一大班人剎上來，我著住睡衣......！

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發表於 09-1-21 20:40 |只看該作者

原帖由 naviegirl 於 09-1-21 18:54 發表
If I were you, I would feel like someone crashed into the washroom when i was taking a shower. Like if i have a leased apartment, the landlord does not have any right to visit the premises without ad ...

你完完全全講中我的感受-"I would feel like someone crashed into the washroom when i was taking a shower"。

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發表於 09-1-21 20:55 |只看該作者

我住既果間屋, 係我同c6既
但有次因c6病左, 大意失荊州咁俾左key佢上黎幫手照顧c6.
就開始自出自入, no call no bell
響28日後...頂唔順....問佢要返條key

佢好唔願....又周圍同親戚講: 我打完齋唔要和尚"喎
我話之佢:lol

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eshiro

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發表於 09-1-21 23:25 |只看該作者

can't accept that, too !! but probaby it was my fault that i told her to use her key when we are gone for work and only the maid & bb at home... eventually, she thinks she can just use the key to open the door anytime! It's hard to accept that she think this is her home............

hildameme,

totally understand your feeling! we need to depend on them to look after the babies.. sigh... i almost got 產後抑鬱 after my 2nd baby was born because of 99, too ...

"見一次就唔開心一次" <-- exactly how I feel... but I need to see her almost every morning as she will come over when I left home for work..... because ne maid can't look after 2 babies... so I need her to come over just in case a spare hand is needed... even though she doesn't know how to take care of baby at all..................... what a pity.

"有時都知佢係為我好但唔鍾意一個人佢做咩你都會睇唔順眼" <-- this is exactly how I feel now... no matter what she did... I would be upset. Especially she is spoiling my 2-year old... and I also afraid my baby girl will be spoiled by her, too ..................

my 99 also has the tendency to make my son 跟 her 唔肯跟我... when my baby boy was attached to me.. she would say 'how come he got so attached to you gar.. so weird!" .. I don't see anything weird that the baby attach to mommy wor! She is like 搶仔 all the time............... sigh............

原帖由 hildameme 於 09-1-21 17:15 發表
你嘅心情我都好明白,我奶奶住對面一日自出自入我HOME幾次,仲比佢攬到我依家有產後抑鬱,因為我唔想見到佢,見一次就唔開心一次,見完佢自己會埋一邊喊,但無法子其實佢應該知道我唔鍾意,因為我會有意無意會講D說話叫佢走 ...

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aromama

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發表於 09-1-22 04:13 |只看該作者

HAHA 我比key我99,99都吾上我屋企架,要請先來,99住隔離街,講都吾信ne,姊妹!係咪好倩慕呢?!

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ac321

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發表於 09-1-22 10:08 |只看該作者

係咪好倩慕呢=> No, not you.
I 好倩慕 heymom........ as her 99 bought them a flat and they don't need to pay rent/mortgage and have a 'free of charge' flat to live in............

原帖由 aromama 於 09-1-22 04:13 發表
HAHA 我比key我99,99都吾上我屋企架,要請先來,99住隔離街,講都吾信ne,姊妹!係咪好倩慕呢?!

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