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原帖由 jenny媽媽 於 09-2-27 21:34 發表

挑!佢想作你$你咪扮死囉!你大大聲聲同佢講我而家俾人炒左呀冇收入o架!阿99就算你真係儲起左D錢咁又點啫係咪代表要俾哂你呀99又/樓主你係呀係儲起左D錢呀咁點啫唔駛留定D錢以備不時之須呀...係咪阿99你可以包保我即 ...

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ac321

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發表於 09-2-27 22:51 |只看該作者

I can't understand.........

Your 99's living expenses should be given by your husband, not you. She is not your mother, right?
I don't think you should give 15k for your 99 monthly. You should let your husband to do that...........
I will only give living expenses to my parents, and my husband gives to 62, 99.

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4607

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It is because my husband and I share the money. i give = he gives, no difference

原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-27 22:51 發表
I can't understand.........

Your 99's living expenses should be given by your husband, not you. She is not your mother, right?
I don't think you should give 15k for your 99 monthly. You should let yo ...

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ac321

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發表於 09-2-27 23:28 |只看該作者

No, it is totally difference.
Your $ is the $ you earned.
Your husband's $ is the $ he earned.

Even you would like to share all the $ you have with your husband, you should only mixed with those $ after your/his personal expenses.
If not, then your 99 may think that those are also his son's $. i.e. she have the right to use it.

i.e. the 15k given to 99 is your husband's $, right?

It is better to separate your $ and your husband's $ so that your 99 can't use 1 cents from you.

My 99 looks like yours.
She always ask me how much I have in bank, how much I earn, how much I pay for my parents, how much I pay for my kids.......
I won't tell my 99 as those are all my $. I can use all of them as I like. It is because I never use 1 cents from your son.

原帖由 4607 於 09-2-27 23:03 發表
It is because my husband and I share the money. i give = he gives, no difference

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ac321

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發表於 09-2-27 23:30 |只看該作者

Then,
you give = your husband gives
your $ = your husband's $
your husband's $ = your 99's $ (as he is her son)
...........
that's the main reason that your 99 believed that your $ is her $!!!!

原帖由 4607 於 09-2-27 23:03 發表
It is because my husband and I share the money. i give = he gives, no difference

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bb363597

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到時妳可以同奶奶講果d係妳同老公嘅養老金,
今日唔知第日是,而家已經咁難搵食,到仔大女大時都唔知會點,儲定多d錢,第日d仔女有咩事上尼,都易解決d.

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hashtag影視迷勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章親子達人勳章

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原帖由必朱於 09-2-27 17:59 發表
佢"作"你, 你照講冇錢 , 佢話你有 , 你都唔認, 如果佢爆話睇過你BANK STATEMENT, 你咪發返佢"難咋" , 話佢睇你私人嘢, 查你......

同埋你可以話佢知 d 錢係你屋企架!
ex: dad, mom, sister or brother...

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發表於 09-2-28 10:27 |只看該作者

咪同佢講D錢係留比細路讀書, 你想D孫無書讀咩?

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你都就嚟無得撈, 你自己有錢都留返自己駛啦. 叫你老公每個月俾幾千蚊佢算啦, 你揾錢俾自己頭家, 外家就話啫, 99? 老公俾囉, 99又無養過你.

一講到錢, 都係清楚d好.

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牛年勳章月餅勳章好媽媽勳章畀面勳章

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發表於 09-2-28 14:20 |只看該作者

c6養99就話天經地義姐
心抱都要養99係咩道理

養都養自己父母先啦
cut佢家用咪cut囉老溤架咩
就算有私己都唔關佢事啦
佢真係以為自己係乜水:;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp:

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HangPig

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發表於 09-3-1 00:04 |只看該作者

account有錢關佢咩事?一定要比佢咩?掉轉叫佢比d錢過你得唔得?

另一方面家用一定會cut,得佢用得咁開心:;pppp:

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858D

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原帖由 louisrenee 發表
你可以同你99講d$唔係你而係你媽咪放係你到,我唔可以用嫁.!

好主意。
最好由你老公自己開口講。奶奶不講，你老公也要主動題。
老人家不會明白我們的 budget，是不是叫預算？
有的老人家對兒女以前真的負出了他們的所有。個個望子女成龍成鳳。老來沒能力養自己來榮耀自己。為有靠兒女媳婦的收入多而覺得榮耀。讓人羨慕他們有好兒女跟媳婦供養，追求生活快樂無憂。這是他們以前缺乏的。

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