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有囡囡既你, 點保護個女? [複製鏈接]

chingbb

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發表於 09-3-4 16:52 |只看該作者

我諗除了以上的"方法"外; 我覺得要自己的囡囡懂得基本的互相尊重, 要懂得原諒, 等等! 自己要做好本份; 我仲會同囡囡講, 有什麼事, 都可以同媽媽商量和談心事, 最緊要是媽媽的門, 真係永遠打開的!

Don't worry!Be happy!

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章睛靈勳章

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 15:28 發表
However, their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese is: 62 99 can treat their daughter in-law as a bun bun. It is because they think that they (or his son) have already pay for the daughter in-law's p ...

我父母都冇拎過男家1分1毫,但99仍然想當我工人咁用(我地唔係一齊住,而且實則係我被佢點過n咁多次,最近唔得閒幫佢,佢就鬧),真係以為我好好蝦,我真係想同佢講....
99我唔係你想像中咁好蝦,只係因為我愛你個仔,唔想佢唔開心我先唔同你嘈,由得你鬧由得你話,等你鬧完話完,我就委屈到喊,好囉,而家連你個仔都睇唔過眼,覺得你野蠻,覺得你老馮,而且我父母養大我,我幫佢地忙係應份,但請你記住,你從來冇對我付出過d咩,我唔係應份一定要幫你嫁,只係因為我愛你個仔,所以我去幫你忙,但你就越來越過份,仲要講到好似我應該幫你而唔應該幫父母,如果唔係既話,我就唔0岩,就係錯,就係因為你唔講道理,你個仔對住你先咁勞氣咋

[ 本帖最後由 lauretta 於 09-3-4 17:19 編輯 ]

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 06:41 發表
男家 can't 恰 my kids.
你會點做?
I never give any change for 男家 to 恰 us (me and my kids).
What I did is:
1. never live with 男家 families, include 62, 99, and his brothers/sisters.
2. never ask fo ...

YES! Also, I'll tell my daughter to keep a distance with the in-laws since the first day shd'll know them so as NOT to give them any hope of 'close relation'! :;pppp:

I don't have any daughter for the moment but 1 son.

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發表於 09-3-4 18:40 |只看該作者

如果我有囡,我會從小就教佢做人道理,
教佢要學識獨立(包括經濟及其他),堅強.
如佢能做到,勿論去到邊度,都唔使驚比人蝦.

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 13:41 發表
男家 can't 恰 my kids.
你會點做?
I never give any change for 男家 to 恰 us (me and my kids).
What I did is:
1. never live with 男家 families, include 62, 99, and his brothers/sisters.
2. never ask fo ...

咁我諗我仲勁d,我自從搬左之後,無俾99上過來,搬去邊都唔會通知佢