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[全職媽媽] 有冇同奶奶住的媽咪快 [複製鏈接]

temmtemm

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hi !
I live with my husband, his parents and his a younger sister. mainly i have a baby that she is 4 months and more. i don't like his mother. i'm always argue with her, but i don't have money to move out. so..... i don't know how to do. i'm so so unhappy. i'm so straight person, i don't know how to say somethings to other people happy (his mother) :cry:

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billie&winnie:聽你咁講,我棯你奶奶應該係個好人,其實有邊個做新抱既唔想同奶奶好,但自己已盡左力,而佢都係咁樣我地真係無法,我地真係忍得好辛苦,頂唔順先會係呢個topic度呻下,平時都無咩機會比我地呻了.你話d奶奶咁做,可能係因為佢以前都無人理,佢奶奶都係咁對佢等等...我覺得,若果佢地知道以前係咁慘,而家又點忍心咁樣對番人地呢,好似我咁,我雖然大肚同坐月無人理,但到我亞嫂大肚坐月時,我都唔忍心唔幫佢手,因為唔想多個人咁慘,所以遇到錫自己既奶奶真係好好運,一定要好好珍惜

大家好~~我叫Barbie呀,我係o係03年12月17日出世架,請大家多多指教!!!

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babydodo

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b肉兜兜,多謝你既鼓勵呀,其實我奶奶唔介意人地生男生女架,係佢自己既性格天生難頂,佢對我亞嫂好好架,我亞嫂所有家務都唔駛做的,因為佢屋企有錢,所以我地待遇差咁遠,我奶奶份人好現實的.
我忍得咁辛苦都係因為個囡,如果唔忍,就一定會離婚了.如果第時我搬走左,我一定唔會再番去,連bb都唔會比佢見,因為佢之前太絕情了.公屋果度其實已經派過一次了,但派果度有37年樓齡,又係一樓,所以無要到,希望下次派到好d,真係可以搬走就好了

大家好~~我叫Barbie呀,我係o係03年12月17日出世架,請大家多多指教!!!

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cyns2004hk

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mandycck 寫道:
:evil: :evil: 我都係呀....我好唔鐘意佢地....仲要成日煩住晒....湊BB已經辛苦喇,,,,唉....可惜我同老公都冇$$$$搬出黎.....仲之一個字"慘".................

me 2 ar :evil:

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我奶奶都係o係人面前就扮好,我住奶奶樓上天台屋(冇廚房),坐月時佢見我媽咪拎湯比我飲佢就有煲囉,媽咪唔o黎就冇,到12朝食薑醋,媽咪同d家姐黎就"不"薑醋比我地食,冇人黎就咩都冇得食,我仲餵人奶架(攪到我營養唔夠,bb滿月都只重左0.37kg咋,比護士話bb唔合格=.=),成日都好肚餓,好唔開心喊左幾次,老公又唔知喎,本身我同老公講好左返媽咪度坐月架,因為我沖涼係o係室外架,驚冷親,點知奶奶又發脾氣先冇去,跟住有幾日得10度以下,我咪同老公講一定要返媽咪度,咁我先有飽飯食咋,同有人照顧我同bb,我住1week返o黎時著返去媽咪度時件衫,由鬆身變左貼身衫,之後返去又減肥啦(因為冇啖好食,仲要受氣)

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非常同意

cyns2004hk 寫道:
其實同家婆同住, 我地全陪都遇上大同小異的問題,
但我地要記住, 老公個心先要緊.其他的咪當時運高看不到!!!

:lol: :lol:

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同意, 香港女人應有氣量和尊重老人的美德

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Dear babydodo,
Same situation with you, have a rediculus 99, she did kick us out of her house when I was 9 months pregnant, with same reasons.. I don't work at home as fast as my husband's brother's wife who is not pregnant!
she said if she is not that kind, she will not let me to sleep with my husband's brother's family..
we gave her USD 3000 per month..
At Dec 03, I can't hold anymore in a snowy night, I told my husband if he doesn't wanna move, I will leave US forever.. I will take amanda with me and won't let him to see our daughter anymore.
All dirty words from my mother in law's mouth.. are all enough for me to cope with.. on amanda's 4 months old, we moved.. and I reduce the monthly allowance for 99, black face.. ha ha I expected to see. so I don't let her see Amanda that often.
She loves amanda, so I don't let her to see..
she hates girl.. but bad luck, Amanda looks like her, so she love Amanda a lot..
now.. my husband's factory closed down (because cheated by his elder sister).. cool.. I told all his family that we don't have money ..not their ATM anymore.
Cheer up.. baby dodo..
really wish you.. leave the hell sooner.!!!!..
baby needs a positive place to growth up... she deserves to be loved by your parents and sisters..
me.. first 4 months after I gave birth, only ate breads and over night cold rice..
live in new york, no relatives by my side, no car, no driver license.. it was my hell period...

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我就好彩好多，我奶奶係個好堅強又好為人著想既人∼佢好多年前同我老爺已經無感情，由老爺有錢變無錢，佢都義無反顧咁照顧住個屋企，直到依家４０幾歲都仲番屋搵錢俾個屋企∼當初我同老公拍拖，住０係佢地屋企，奶奶都好照顧我地，成日問我食左野未，又關心好多野∼之後我同老公搞出人命，我地果時仲細，決定落左佢，但錢唔夠，又怕肚內既ｂｂ大得濟落唔到，佢雖然反對但仲借錢俾我地落…（諗起真係好感動…雖然係錯，但都幫我地）到我同老公第２次搞出人命，決定生個女（依家半歲），用用下唔夠錢用，佢私己都貼埋出黎…
到女女出世咁耐，佢都好錫佢，依家佢一放假，就好主動幫我地睇女，叫我地出去玩，夜番都無出過聲，只係叫我地小心ｄ，快ｄ番∼
其實，雖然佢老人家有時真係關心過龍，有時都幾煩，但講真，佢真係擺個心出黎當我係女…我講既野，雖然佢有時唔同意，但亦有尊重…
如果要講佢既缺點，最多只可以話佢關心人地太多野，有時幾煩（係咁講唔停…真係一秒都唔停果隻）
我住０係我老公屋企咁耐，從來都無稱呼佢咩野，記得有一次，我同老公結婚無幾耐，我同佢傾計，我第一次開口問佢︰「我可唔可以叫你做阿媽呀？」如果我唔係全心全意當佢做阿媽，我一定唔會咁問佢…
以前我仲唔識野，唔鍾意我奶奶，但依家，真係當佢係我阿媽∼我有ｄ咁既奶奶，真係好好彩…
不過，我都係唔打算日後同奶奶住，唔係唔鍾意佢，只係我個人好需要私人生活，由細細個已經夢想自己同老公仔女，親手靠自己組織一個家∼
老人家絕大部分都係煩，但可能，佢地都有佢地既原因∼（當然唔排除有ｄ真係有心整人…）

浦浦既小寶貝，子靈女女，於８月２２日ＱＥ出世∼ :-D

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我奶奶同老爺都係好人，對我都唔錯。但佢地就咪都要管一餐。同佢地一起住一D自由都冇。 :-(

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mandycck 寫道:
:evil: :evil: 我都係呀....我好唔鐘意佢地....仲要成日煩住晒....湊BB已經辛苦喇,,,,唉....可惜我同老公都冇$$$$搬出黎.....仲之一個字"慘".................

..me2~

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911 寫道:
同意, 香港女人應有氣量和尊重老人的美德

妳咁寫我同意但係事實上有很多係自己都控制不到的...
我99的衛生習慣好差剩菜倒入廁所佢都不把個座板揭起先
搞到成個廁所污濁哂同佢講聲(我老公開口)就話我D嫌佢污濁....

佢又試過將放生肉的碗就咁似但過一過水就拿來盛湯 D飯已經熟著可以食又將D冷飯倒落就即刻要食去勻廁所將個座板滴到污濁哂洗一洗我D先用又話我D嫌棄佢....

同佢講這D野佢就好激氣話佢D以前都係咁依家冇理由要佢改 ....

以前冇BB 我都不想同佢講咁多但係依家有了BB 不通由得佢去咩.... 所以鬧交的機會就多著了佢仲成日周圍唱話我D兩公婆夾埋"蝦"佢TIM...
講到底就係我D講咩佢都當我D針對佢佢就愈不改....

O個日佢去廚房煮勻野成手魚腥味就要"惦"個女塊面我咁係不俾啦...就話我DOOXX..... :evil:
嘩! 個BB咁細咩抵抗力都冇不小心D 不通有事先來講咩(大吉利是)....

我老公都好支持我都好明白我咁計較係爲著個女
佢都好孝順夾在我D當中佢都好辛苦
我都知但....我不想將個女拿來試衝突也唯有繼續發生了...