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複式洋房

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21#
發表於 05-3-8 17:03 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

RAYMOND:

多謝意見,其實我都唯有將心情放鬆,因為已經無辦法,
我老公好大男人,我實在迫吾到佢做任何嘢.
亦都吾想迫佢,你知啦,大男人越迫越走,
其實除了這件事以外,
我們的感情也沒有什麼問題. ?-(


男爵府

積分: 6375


22#
發表於 05-3-10 10:03 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

See some stories similar on another side:

1. Both man and wife over 40 (or just)
2. High education, tax payers.
3. son now 10
4. no sex since 2000 (less than 5 - A year !
the record can be lower. )
5. Man loves sports (playing golf now)
works till seven everyday,
but plays golf 2 nights (8:00 pm - 12:00pm)
whole day (7:00 am - 7:00 pm on Saturdays)
sits up late 12:00 or 1:00 am every nights
if no golfing.
6. Loves your massage service. (Only massage!)
then sleeps without complaints.
Man is willing to return the same service but
the wife does not need it because she knows
this is very tiring for the night around 1 or 2am.
Son gets up 6:30, she must too.

7. These years, she felt tired and felt sick about
her work but she was trained not to complain.
She discovered she is just a mother and
her husband's sister.
Her husband trusts her to handle the expenditures.
He trusted her to shecule time to deal with
home matters like grandparents' sickness and
complaints, relatives' gathering, school things,
breakfast and meals, ............
8. Husband appreciates mostly punctrual meal time
good ears (no talking back), travel (monthly business trip)
9. Husband works for the main income. Wife after
son's birth hardly schedules suitable work hours
to mee t the family needs.
(Husband always complains the wife has been
working for too long hours and neglects him
and the son.) But no pain no gain nowadays.

10. The wife is now working between home and
work.
3 days to 1 week)

11. The husband loves loves loves
travelling. (He can be another person
outside of Hong Kong.)

Very typical story.

Do man just want a mother in the house?

Do not count your days down!


別墅

積分: 854


23#
發表於 05-3-12 00:30 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

fafacat 寫道:
See some stories similar on another side:

1. Both man and wife over 40 (or just)
2. High education, tax payers.
3. son now 10
4. no sex since 2000 (less than 5 - A year !
the record can be lower. )
5. Man loves sports (playing golf now)
works till seven everyday,
but plays golf 2 nights (8:00 pm - 12:00pm)
whole day (7:00 am - 7:00 pm on Saturdays)
sits up late 12:00 or 1:00 am every nights
if no golfing.
6. Loves your massage service. (Only massage!)
then sleeps without complaints.
Man is willing to return the same service but
the wife does not need it because she knows
this is very tiring for the night around 1 or 2am.
Son gets up 6:30, she must too.

7. These years, she felt tired and felt sick about
her work but she was trained not to complain.
She discovered she is just a mother and
her husband's sister.
Her husband trusts her to handle the expenditures.
He trusted her to shecule time to deal with
home matters like grandparents' sickness and
complaints, relatives' gathering, school things,
breakfast and meals, ............
8. Husband appreciates mostly punctrual meal time
good ears (no talking back), travel (monthly business trip)
9. Husband works for the main income. Wife after
son's birth hardly schedules suitable work hours
to mee t the family needs.
(Husband always complains the wife has been
working for too long hours and neglects him
and the son.) But no pain no gain nowadays.

10. The wife is now working between home and
work.
3 days to 1 week)

11. The husband loves loves loves
travelling. (He can be another person
outside of Hong Kong.)

Very typical story.

Do man just want a mother in the house?


fchow :-D


民房

積分: 2


24#
發表於 05-3-12 00:42 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?


嘩有無咁順呀?
老公主動


公爵府

積分: 27141


25#
發表於 05-3-12 19:26 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

我問左老公,我話會唔會你老公包2奶,佢話唔慣事,佢話可能男人到左咁上下年紀有心無力,無咁需要......咁就慘啦!佢40歲時我先得30歲 :cry:


複式洋房

積分: 161


26#
發表於 05-3-14 23:36 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

easonkinki

多謝你幫我問你老公,咁你今次可吾可以問吓佢,男人係咪
到咗差吾多年紀(40多歲)心態上會減低性慾?
?-(


公爵府

積分: 27141


27#
發表於 05-3-16 14:01 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

佢咪話有心無力lo,我老公佢而家30歲但返工時間長左,而家佢都累到無咩心機做,但如果唔駛佢郁而有人服待佢,佢就當然肯啦!你係咪唔勤力唔願郁,而你老公又累so唔多想呀


複式洋房

積分: 161


28#
發表於 05-3-16 15:00 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

easonkinki

我好主動,又肯增加多些情趣,但係佢吾受,
佢話自己間吾中會有些 '吾得"


公爵府

積分: 27141


29#
發表於 05-3-17 16:36 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

1係比偉哥佢食,1係帶佢去做檢查,到左咁上下年紀其實要做架啦


民房

積分: 8


30#
發表於 05-3-18 14:25 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

Many time was really tired after work, like me, I believed many man fall into sleep in front of the TV, on their favoiur spot of the soda, after the last meal of the day. I read in newspaper, American people made love 5 times a week, compare to me a 2 kids father to sustain 1 time a week is all the hope that I try to accomplish, so far my wife has not complaine yet, what about other out there?
My wife rarely take initiative for the need, may be when her body get in a better shape, I sure it will activated me more, as some time sexual appeal and need are not just between the leg also between the ear. you know what I mean!


侯爵府

積分: 22170

馬年勳章


31#
發表於 05-3-18 16:59 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

咁其實你都應該feel到你老公有無需要架?如果feel到佢無既即是係佢生理或心理上既問題, 如果feel到佢有但唔想同你咁就可能係太悶想改變一下囉...


複式洋房

積分: 161


32#
發表於 05-3-18 17:34 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?


cowcat

Many time was really tired after work, like me, I believed many man fall into sleep in front of the TV, on their favoiur spot of the soda, after the last meal of the day. I read in newspaper, American people made love 5 times a week, compare to me a 2 kids father to sustain 1 time a week is all the hope that I try to accomplish, so far my wife has not complaine yet, what about other out there?
My wife rarely take initiative for the need, may be when her body get in a better shape, I sure it will activated me more, as some time sexual appeal and need are not just between the leg also between the ear. you know what I mean!

不太明白" as some time sexual appeal and need are not just between the leg also between the ear. you know what I mean!
這句的意思. 是否指如果太太身材好d會吸引你多d!
性 - 不單只是外形,最重要是心境.

其他人如明白意思請用中文解釋一下,

謝謝


民房

積分: 8


33#
發表於 05-3-21 17:54 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

Yes, if either side is in a bad mood or in an argument mode, sex may become a nuisance. But if there is no wall in between and at home there is a beautiful body curve, long leg, well balanced body parts, with a pretty face (very subjective) stand in front of me (I am thinking with cloth on), and she is his wife, I am the most lucky man in the world. She is so delight to look at, no matter what kind of bad mood I am in; home is a paradise. What on earth man need? Definitely not a war zone at home.
You see between ears, there is a brain, which controls our mood of need, and it may alter and over drive once simulate by other sense, sometime man just need to answer their nature sex call, 99% of man is drive into that mode with their eye.


大宅

積分: 3223


34#
發表於 05-3-22 16:49 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

singsing72
我同你個case好似, 我老公又係40幾, 呢幾年佢又係好小主動提出做愛, 我都有同佢傾過, 佢又係話無野, 我亦十分十分相信老公無第3者or出去滾, 佢一有時間就比晒屋企, 但我地想生多個小朋友, 為左做人我地都嘈左好多次, 究竟問題0係邊, 我叫佢睇醫生, 係咪更年期問題, 賀爾蒙唔夠, 但佢又話唔知睇咩醫生, 拖下拖下, 但我覺得會好影響夫妻生活. :-( :-(


複式洋房

積分: 161


35#
發表於 05-3-24 17:37 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

其實性方面有問題,可看 "泌尿科" 醫生,
如不知那裹找到,可叫一般家庭醫生轉介,
但我想兩夫婦的關係有問題,不論身心,
都應先處理好,才再想其他,
多一個小朋友也只會增加多一份煩腦,


民房

積分: 140


36#
發表於 05-4-28 21:22 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

通常男人對老婆失去興趣不出三個原因
1)對老婆無晒性趣..由相識到結婚生仔十幾廿年身體特征生理反應習慣晒就無對老婆無性趣
2)出面有女人
3)有D男人到左四十歲開始有前列腺既問題..最好去check 下


複式洋房

積分: 469


37#
發表於 05-4-28 22:46 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

singsing72 寫道:
次次都係我做主動,你話男人四十幾歲會吾會成個月無性慾


如果在香港做左10幾20年野(即是40幾歲左右)
而工作一直都忙又壓力大
身心疲憊,性慾減退是好正常
最緊要保持心境健康,睡眠充足
戒煙酒,多運動
再適當地補補身(不是性藥)
如雞精,蜂皇精,花旗參 , 虫草等 “常規”野
或食有信譽的溫和成藥
如六味地黃丸(至少食三個月先見效)
或去看中醫調理身體(中醫多數開五味子,羊霍之類)
幾個月後,身體應會改善,性慾也會好轉


民房

積分: 16


38#
發表於 05-5-4 00:29 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

我都想問...我老公才3x歲,工作繁忙,他不單對我無性慾,連讓我踫都不想.佢之前曾搬出家一般時間,現在己回來,但我不知佢那段時間有沒有越軌行為.佢晚晚仍會在我睡後去上性website.我們關係上是有問題,以前佢會是主動多,但現在就不是,且不想,我己試過著sexy衫,己起碼3個月沒有做了...

想問,怎可和老公講?
點樣令老公對我重拾興趣?
老公想老婆怎樣?

我想同佢傾,不過佢都是逃避,無機會傾.

咁點解佢會回來?

請給我男人的意見.


複式洋房

積分: 469


39#
發表於 05-5-4 11:16 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

男人對伴侶失去性趣,主要是身體和心理的轉變
30多歲,正是男人精力最旺盛時候
一般來說,性慾是沒有問題
所以多數(注意:是多數)是心理問題
加上: 1] 曾搬出家住 2] 上性website
似乎是對伴侶失去新鮮感

不知搬出家住的原因,所以難以定論
如果搬出家住原因是有婚外情
那麼,他是鳥倦知還(如被人拋棄,或經濟問題etc)
但尚未重拾原有的家庭生活(和妻子關係etc)
如果搬出家住原因是因為一些個人感情或工作問題想「逃避」一下
回來時仍未改善,那麼,他的問題尚未解決

但不論是婚外情或其他問題
男人是不會主動向女人訴苦
(excuse me, 大部份男人喜歡逃避問題)
作為妻子,抱歉,實在無法可施
只可以在他背後默默支持他
切勿煩他,切忌給他壓力
令他知道,妻子永遠在他身邊
那麼,他總會知道,他不能離開妻子

上性website方面
如果只是普通性website,那麼,他只不過尋求新的觀能刺激
如果是「性指南」,那麼,他的越軌機會很大
男人貪新鮮,個個一樣
要令他對妳重新有性趣
不是單單穿sexy衣服就可以(此乃換湯不換藥)
而是要在多方面令他覺得妳「新鮮」(抱歉,好似賣魚咁)
如一些新的嗜好,打扮,髮型,香水etc
以及創造多一些共同話題,如足球,湊仔,旅行..
視乎不同人而定
作為妻子,如果妳不知丈夫的愛好,就真是大問題了


洋房

積分: 58


40#
發表於 05-5-6 17:09 |只看該作者

Re: 老公吾肯同我做愛,請問男人們心態?

你先唔好咁快就諗到張床先,要由頭開始了解你老公,佢最近點呀,工作壓力大嗎,你要重新你地既關係,唔好成日諗住 do 野先,如果佢可以每晚擁抱你一分鐘,係一個好既開始。

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