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Creamie........

I'm bleeding like hell today.....but the nurse asked me to do the blood test first to see whasup tmr....we hv similar situation...omg.....
Last nite, I went back to my parents home to hv dinner, already see a lil bit of blood....under my heart was like....no fxxking way....it can't be.....but I didn't cry cuz I dun want my mama worry, n then when I arrived home saw my husband....I couldn't stop crying....he Is more tough than me, keep comforting me like it's a tiny matter....so it's better for me to calm a lil bit....
But today, I'm bleeding like never before.....my period last month is really less,just last for few days only can see when go toilet.......I'm quite scared today when I saw huge amount of blood.....how about u??many blood also?? Is it normal?? Do u feel tummy pain pain??

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pipip929 .. 自已走都吾係一件壞事..MAMI要準備好身體再懷個健康BB... TAKE CARE YRSELF. 發表於 11-12-21 09:51

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發表於 11-12-20 16:43 |只看該作者

I did my first IVF late last year and fail with no FE. God knows how long I

for. Earlier this year I was able to conceive naturally. I was so thrilled because both my tubes are blocked and I don't need to go through the IVF process again. I was only happy for a very short period because I m/c in 6w.

After that I have been taking chinese medicine for about 6 months. I didn't want to rush into my second IVF because I want to make sure I am alright both physically and emotionally, and more importantly, ready for any failure.

I just did my second IVF in Nov. Still no FE and my doctor was surprised by my poor egg quality because I am only 33. I start to worry about going back to square one. But now I am 9w

Renault, don't give up. You need to stay hopeful but don't give yourself too much pressure. The major difference between my first and second IVF is that I was really stress out and I kept my hope really high in my first IVF. I am more relax in my second round because I know what to expect, and I am in good mood most of the time.

IVF isn't easy and definitely not a pleasant experience. Good luck to all sisters who need to go through this difficult path! Add oil!

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發表於 11-12-20 17:41 |只看該作者

Bearwife 發表於 11-12-20 16:43
I did my first IVF late last year and fail with no FE. God knows how long I for. Earlier ...

u must take good care ah bearwife!!do u think chinese medicine help?

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發表於 11-12-20 18:08 |只看該作者

Renault, 我今日已經無尋日咁(D血直流),少咗好多,亦一直無肚痛. 其實姑娘都有要求我今日返去抽血,但係我話我肯定唔洗check啦,姑娘仲話妳擺咗3個胚胎,有case試過中一個,另外失敗果2個都有可能導致流血,但係我尋日真係好down.

我亦同妳一樣,tube problem(blocked one side and not function another side) so IVF is the only way. 擺胚胎果日醫生同姑娘都分別同我講我D胚胎分裂得好靚,內膜又厚,建議我只擺2個,因為佢哋驚我會中晒3個,但我堅持擺晒3個,所以今次係希望大.失望更大.

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發表於 11-12-20 18:13 |只看該作者

Renault 發表於 11-12-20 15:17
I want to know does the day of排卵 matter to me if I do FET??cuz I never know when is it~ my problem ...

Renault, try to calm down first.
First, blood didn't point to fail. Get the blood test tomorrow first. Some JM still positive with blood...

Actually we are talking about 50-60 cumulative successful rate for two cycle (one fresh cycle, one FET)

So let's hope on next FET .......

Your can try some acupuncture, as some research support it increases the IVF successful rate. About chinese herbs, depends on you want to try or not. Find one good doctor, try one or two sessions of acupuncture and decide whether you will continue or not. Somehow, most doctor will recommend you try on when your next cycle came. So you have a month.

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發表於 11-12-20 19:14 |只看該作者

Creamie 發表於 11-12-20 18:08
Renault, 我今日已經無尋日咁(D血直流),少咗好多,亦一直無肚痛. 其實姑娘都有要求我今日返去抽血,但係我話 ...

hope u feel better and better! let's +oil tgether!when u will start again u think??

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發表於 11-12-20 19:21 |只看該作者

Babybabyhopes 發表於 11-12-20 18:13
Renault, try to calm down first.
First, blood didn't point to fail. Get the blood test tomorrow fi ...

but my blood is out like waterfall this morning~it's crazy!.......i know IVF is not 100%success....it's just really hurt...as my family giving me huge support...and tmr t's also my mum's b-day....i was thinking how great if i can give her a big surprise...ai...let see what the nurse saying tmr....
thanks for ur advice!my mind is still 15/16....i'm the kind of person always have trouble to choose or decide stuff......that's why i always listen to wut my husband say....(seems he 's thinking to try the next round next month~i can't wait also~)hope for the best!!!

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The eggs quality from my last round of IVF didn't improve much after taking Chinese medicine for 6 months (notice from no FE). Although my doctor told me the egg quality varies in each cycle. I m just doing it on best effort basis. I have been telling myself that I have done everything I could, and seeing Chinese doctor would keep me busy while waiting for the next IVF.

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發表於 11-12-20 20:31 |只看該作者

回覆：後生又點！！？？第一次IVF。。失敗

You need to keep your 心情 positive. I think my mood really make the difference. I know it is difficult, and everyone who are doing IVF are desperate and hopeless. I was there and I know exactly how u feel.

Renault, don't get too upset. You need to get yourself ready for FET. Best luck to you!!!

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發表於 11-12-20 21:22 |只看該作者

Renault, 唔好唔䦕心啦，快D收拾心情去準備做第二次lvF，如果唔急（你先得24歲），其實可以休息一個月先再做，當放聖誕假盡情食，玩，休息，話唔定再下一個cycle lvF成功，要戒口十個月呢！加油

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發表於 11-12-20 22:55 |只看該作者

回覆：後生又點！！？？第一次IVF。。失敗

Hi... Just glanced through your the posts. You are so young and the success rate is really high! Don't give up ah!! I did my Ivf w/ dr so too. I can't do fresh ET since I got some polyps in the uterine wall. From check up to surgery, I waited for 4 months. In that waiting period, I did see Chinese doctor to improve my health in general. But as many other jm have said, medicine and technology may not be the real solution. Since I've been infertile for 3 years, and have been seeing many dr ( Chinese and western) for my weak body, I realized that good living habits and regular exercises are the keys to health. So in the half yr before I did Ivf, I keep doing exercises almost daily, and be careful for my sleep and diet. Then after the surgery (to remove polyps), I did FET in the following month. Before and after FET, I also go for acupuncture. But I listened to dr so and didn't take any Chinese medicine in that month. Now I am preg, in 11w la... I have some brown discharge previously and caught a cold recently too. The journey is still full of challenges and worries, but I learn to respect life is not all in our control. I'm not sure which part of I did helped my pregnancy, and perhaps it's all about chances only. So, pls try to keep hopeful and just try ur best, and let 'life' make its own decision. Add oil ah!

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發表於 11-12-21 13:00 |只看該作者

Reading all messages from u gurls...it's really touching! Thank you very much!

I just went back to do the blood test, although I know the result under my heart,anyway just keep following the nurse instruction. As the nurse told me, I will have to wait one more cycle to let the medicine effect get out of my body.so means,I will start FET in Feb.

What's in my mind now is.....whether I should back to teach dancing or not!?.....I know it's good for my mind n my body...the things is I don't know how to face ppl....other tutors n students will ask question for sure(cuz I quit for like a month)~ I know they care about me ,but I still want some privacy....i will probably start teaching for one month n half ,then I need to stop again~......

I'm kind of give up my career for this whole thing....I don't mean it's not worth it but I quit right after I won a competition....turn down the offer from other studio...many great opportunities....that's why I feel extra heart breaking that it's failed for my first try......

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本帖最後由 Renault 於 11-12-21 13:32 編輯

hey 糟糟豬,
Thank you for ur support!!and congrats to u !!!!:) i would like to try the acupuncture also, seems its better for me, as the nurse keep saying no no no for chinese medicine~~''............i don't want to risk my $12000 next time when i do FET.
So, When should i start the acupuncture??? how many times i should do per week???how much is it and is it expensive?any good doctor recommend?

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發表於 11-12-21 14:27 |只看該作者

um..actually i'm not q. happy with my acupuncture doctor... not related to his skills, but mainly his attitudes.... i went there just coz he's q. popular in BK too.... and most of his patients are doing IUI or IVF..... if you really wants his contact, i can pm to you later... but u may want to look at the other jm's recommendation first.....
i started acupuncture around 1-2 months before FET... it's done weekly according to my doctor, as we do not need to "stimulate eggs" this time.... then before and after FET, did a bit more frequently loh....

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發表於 11-12-21 14:35 |只看該作者

Yea~ I hv to agree that u need to feel comfort with wut the doctor saying n stuff~ is it the the one in Central?? Seems he is the only famous acupuncture doctor in bk~~~ anyway, I will keep searching~ thanks again

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本帖最後由 babytwinstar 於 11-12-21 15:05 編輯

請問你搵邊個醫生呀??我都打算做ivf

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發表於 11-12-21 15:12 |只看該作者

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原帖由 Renault 於 11-12-21 發表
Yea~ I hv to agree that u need to feel comfort with wut the doctor saying n stuff~ is it the the one ...

Yes... The one in central... There's another lady but seem to be more expensive... U may ask ask ....

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我都打算搵佢，請問佢好唔好呀??

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