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I can't find you on facebook ar....

I tried ignoring Isabelle at night before but she'll be more awak and started shouting. Is that normal??? Maybe I should try ignoring her for longer...

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ava, 八掛問下，你係咪諗定左會返工啦?

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原文章由 cyl299 於 07-9-14 11:12 發表

最初就有, 而家無lu, 佢好反訓, 個米袋好快唔知飛左去邊!

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原文章由 yatjeh 於 07-9-14 15:42 發表
cyl,

c 啦, 我近日比呢個facebook搞到我無時間上bk添, 妳有時間可否教吓我玩呀?

Yatjeh,

What is facebook?

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原文章由 twingirls 於 07-9-15 05:52 發表

Yatjeh,

What is facebook?

www.facebook.com 你去睇下啦!

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cyl,

can I have your email pls? I think I set to the highest security...no one can search me... my email is [email protected]

I used to rock Francesca to sleep and put her down. It took lots of efford to make her fall asleep. She always cried when I woke her up and I need to rock her again.
When she was 4-5months old, I decided not to rock her to sleep anymore (I had enough!!!). One everning, I just put her to bed and left the room. She screamed and cried for 2 hours...then she fall asleep cos she's tired. The following everning, I did the same. She cried for an hour and went to sleep. The third night, she cried 20 mins...In a week time, she got used to it. And now I just put her down, say night night and left her room. She always plays with her cuddly toys in bed after I left. But that's fine, as long as she doesn't cry~ Even in the morning if she wakes up early, she plays with her toys and chats to herself and not crying or screaming to ask us to pick her up. She normally wakes up at 5 (I heard her...) but I don't pick her up until 7. I know I am a bit arrogant, but I am quite proud of Francesca^.^
When Francesca was 13 months old, I started her bedtime routine.
kiss night night to everyone-> bath-> clean her teeth-> milk + cbeebies (in the night garden!!!) + pajamas-> bye bye cars + draw her curtains with her -> read her a story-> kiss her and put her to bed
I sometimes add something special to do with her before bedtime.e.g. turn on then off the light so that she got excited about bed time. Sometimes if she wouldn't let go of her books, I will say "Francesca, It's bed time, say bye bye books." Then she will let go and go to bed.
This is how I settle her and get her to bed. You may try~

原文章由 cyl299 於 07-9-14 23:30 發表
Yennie

I can't find you on facebook ar....

I tried ignoring Isabelle at night before but she'll be more awak and started shouting. Is that normal??? Maybe I should try ignoring her for longer...

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Yennie
My email is [email protected], please add me on facebook

你真係好叻呀, train到Francesca, 仲可以自己訓! 我到而家都仲係同Isabelle訓架, 佢一知道我唔係佢側邊就會大喊既喇, 而且因為佢訓大人床, 我唔敢唔理佢因為佢而家識爬所以驚佢跌落床! 唉...我真係無用呀, 而家isabelle都係食無定時架, 不過我會努力慢慢train佢既喇, 因為我好想係返工前另佢戒到夜奶....

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原文章由 cyl299 於 07-9-15 11:01 發表

www.facebook.com 你去睇下啦!

唔係好明可教吓我嗎?

我近排忙番工同女d功課

我女2001年1月8日QE出世

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原文章由 cyl299 於 07-9-15 11:01 發表

www.facebook.com 你去睇下啦!

Thanks

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原文章由 gloriap 於 07-9-16 00:25 發表

唔係好明可教吓我嗎?

我近排忙番工同女d功課

其實你去facebook register左之後就可以add你d 朋友, 然後傾下計, send下禮物比大家咁囉, 我識好多人都話由facebook度meet返好多好耐無聯絡既朋友架!

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Hi acpurples,

Yes ar. I want to go back to work because a full time mum is too hard for me.......

I have offers from my ex company and another company. I'm nego the package now. I don't think I will go back to the previous one as they can only be able offer a "pig head bone" post.

I will most likely go to other company. Are you working in marketing? I'm as well. Have been in marketing for sooooo many years.

Cheers,

原文章由 acpurples 於 07-9-15 01:15 發表
ava, 八掛問下，你係咪諗定左會返工啦?

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發表於 07-9-17 00:01 |只看該作者

hey yennie, I will add you as well.

原文章由 yennie 於 07-9-15 21:10 發表
cyl,

can I have your email pls? I think I set to the highest security...no one can search me... my email is [email protected]

I used to rock Francesca to sleep and put her down. It took lots o ...

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原文章由 avalyl 於 07-9-17 00:00 發表
Hi acpurples,

Yes ar. I want to go back to work because a full time mum is too hard for me.......

I have offers from my ex company and another company. I'm nego the package now. I don't think I wi ...

Hi Ava,

Me too, though I always envy the ft mum who can spend time with their kids and share all the intimacy, I for one cannot stand being at home 24/7. In a way, I feel quite selfish that I am not giving my girl the best TLC. But in HK, if you loose a couple of years in the commercial world, you're more of less out of the circle that you have been building devotely for so long. And once they go to school ft, you're left alone.

However, my ideal would be to take a pt position, maybe finishing work around 3pm so to take care of her after school. Otherwise, by the time I get home, she's about to go to bed already and that would really be tough on her.

Will have to wait and see & keep on wishing....:mrgreen:

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YENNIE,

我都想ADD妳呀, BUT我係一個新手, 唔識搞呢, 不如妳ADD我啦! 我個LOG-IN名係MANDY YIP呀!

原文章由 yennie 於 07-9-14 21:31 發表
yatjeh,

I've got facebook too~
add me la!
My name is Yennie Darkins.

cyl,
Willow was like that at first~ cry 3-4 hours after her last feed at night.
I either ignore her or pick her up and rock her ...

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我想問你地係點potty train你地個bb架? 我阿b應該可以potty train既喇, 但係我唔識呀!

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Hi acpurples,

I have struggling for a while if it is better for me to stay home until Nivana is 1 or 2. However, as you said, it is difficult for me to find a job after 1 or 2 years. I have stopped working since I was pregnancy and have been out of work for more than 1 year already....

I also have the same feeling that I questioned myself if I'm a bad mother. I have discussed this with my hubby and my friends and I don't want to blame Nivana in the future that I need to stay home to take care of her.

HK is not as good as in UK. If we were in UK, we can apply for a part time from the company. That's most of my friends in UK is doing.

So I'm choosing a regional work hopefully that I couldn't work from home sometime. That what I did in my previous company.....

Cheers,

Hi Ava,

Me too, though I always envy the ft mum who can spend time with their kids and share all the intimacy, I for one cannot stand being at home 24/7. In a way, I feel quite selfish that I am not giving my girl the best TLC. But in HK, if you loose a couple of years in the commercial world, you're more of less out of the circle that you have been building devotely for so long. And once they go to school ft, you're left alone.

However, my ideal would be to take a pt position, maybe finishing work around 3pm so to take care of her after school. Otherwise, by the time I get home, she's about to go to bed already and that would really be tough on her.

Will have to wait and see & keep on wishing....:mrgreen:

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yatjeh,
i m new too facebook too...got on facebook less than a month~
there are too many mandy yip...dunno which one is u...
can u search my email [email protected] and add me pls? or i can add u if u give me ur email

原文章由 yatjeh 於 07-9-17 14:38 發表
YENNIE,

我都想ADD妳呀, BUT我係一個新手, 唔識搞呢, 不如妳ADD我啦! 我個LOG-IN名係MANDY YIP呀!

[ 本文章最後由 yennie 於 07-9-17 20:23 編輯 ]

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cyl,

I don't want to scare you but I personally think sleeping with your kids is quite dangerous (especially my hubby's size...he is big!)
I saw a program about 2 weeks ago on channel 5. They interview a woman who had 4 kids.
She had a little girl when her older son was 7. Her little girl died when she was 8 days old because of cot death. 2 years later, she had twin boys. These two boys died when they were 4-5 months old. They died from the same reason- cot death. That woman was quite big. She slept with her babies all the time. But at the same time, she killed her babies...The detective believes she rolled over on them when she was asleep.

I am sure it's lovely to sleep with your kid (and I really want to). But base on the risk of cot death...I don't wanna take the risk.

Francesca and Willow sleep in their own bed as soon as they were born. I used to sleep with my parents all the time when I was little. But soon I know about cot death...I am not dare to do so.

at the same time, I think having your kids sleeping in their own bed, you can hv more "private time" with your othe half!

I just wanna share my pt of view. Pls don't feel bad/upset because of what I said. Of cos we r all doing what's we think is the best for our kids, there's no right or wrong!

原文章由 cyl299 於 07-9-15 23:06 發表
Yennie
My email is [email protected], please add me on facebook

你真係好叻呀, train到Francesca, 仲可以自己訓! 我到而家都仲係同Isabelle訓架, 佢一知道我唔係佢側邊就會大喊既喇, 而且因為佢訓大人床, ...

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yennie
我最初都擔心cot death架, 所以都等bb大約兩個月先同佢訓, 我bb好醒訓架, 一定要抱住訓同埋訓左都放唔低, 所以我無辦法就同佢訓囉...

我就好醒訓既(我阿媽話我係由訓到第二日起身成個人都唔郁果隻

), 所以無試過壓到bb, 希望都唔會啦.... 其實反而係bb反訓, 半夜轉過來踢我

我都覺得同bb訓會另我同老公無private time, 我而家諗住等請左工人之後就唔同bb訓, 都要比bb習慣下夜晚起身我唔係佢身邊lu...

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