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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Li,
你真係要諗清楚&同老公商量好先得呀, 因為呢D係你兩個人一家人(加埋阿B)既事.
其實你係咪想揍阿B多D, 定佢大D先再搵野做呀.

請大家留意, 曾經有人係facebook開左我係bk個名既 a/c (Nopan Ma), 當然人人都可以叫nopan, 但此人仲偷埋我囡囡bk張相開fb, 有問題, 大家小心

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

NOPAN,

yes , I know ....its equal to how many months we can support without my salary income ...

actually, my income just for my parents pocket money & my own use ... & we have a combined account & we both need to contribute our part of income to it for saving ...I didn't get any pocket $$ from him ... all our home expenses are paid by this combined account. exclude mortgage.

the one I worry is ...even I'm unemployemnt ..I also need to pay my parents money ... otherwise, they need to spent their saving ka la ... I promised ( pay monthly pocket $$ ) it to my parents before get marry.

that's why I need to think more details lor ...

actually, my honey can handle all the family expensese....include mortgage.

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Mui_Mui 寫道:
[quote]
LiBoBo 寫道:
CS, MUI MUI, MORI,

no, I'm not prefer to be a full-time housewife....I want to change my job ...

I told u all before ....I doing the same position , same job duties , no promotion within these 6 years even I continuous my study .. & I don't want to see the people I hate (my colleague)

I have insist for 4 years la ...don't want to keep my working life like this ..

but I feel very "mau tun"(chinese) lor ... I afraid not easy to find a job after quited ...

am i think & nervous too much ??

Li, so can you try to find the new job before quitting the exisitng one ? I mean you can keep your current one and find another one at the same time... The job market is not as good as it seems and I think it takes at least a few months to find another job.
[/quote]

MUI MUI,

my honey also ask to do that .... may be I try try la ....after I give birth ...

I don't think has employer willing to wait me 1 months for my post lor ...

actually, I tried in this early year ka la...no feedback..may be I write "one month" in the "Date of Available"

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

NOPAN 寫道:
Li,
你真係要諗清楚&同老公商量好先得呀, 因為呢D係你兩個人一家人(加埋阿B)既事.
其實你係咪想揍阿B多D, 定佢大D先再搵野做呀.

nopan,

it's also my excuse if I can't find the job after quit ...

I can spent my time to take care my bb... at the same time , we may employed a Philippines maid for 2 years contract la wor... the maid may be "excess worker" in my family ...

we need to make decision on employ a maid or not before late Sept ka la ma

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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發表於 04-8-6 15:50 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

LiBoBo 寫道:
NOPAN,

yes , I know ....its equal to how many months we can support without my salary income ...

actually, my income just for my parents pocket money & my own use ... & we have a combined account & we both need to contribute our part of income to it for saving ...I didn't get any pocket $$ from him ... all our home expenses are paid by this combined account. exclude mortgage.

the one I worry is ...even I'm unemployemnt ..I also need to pay my parents money ... otherwise, they need to spent their saving ka la ... I promised ( pay monthly pocket $$ ) it to my parents before get marry.

that's why I need to think more details lor ...

actually, my honey can handle all the family expensese....include mortgage.

咁既情形就要同自己爸爸媽媽商量喇....家開始儲定D錢錢備不時之需.

我都另外有幫佢地儲一筆錢, 因為唔知自己幾時唔掂. 仲有買份保險比佢地, touch wood我有時, 佢地起碼唔駛太擔心錢錢丫.

請大家留意, 曾經有人係facebook開左我係bk個名既 a/c (Nopan Ma), 當然人人都可以叫nopan, 但此人仲偷埋我囡囡bk張相開fb, 有問題, 大家小心

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發表於 04-8-6 15:56 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

NOPAN,

I didn't buy any Insurance protection for my parents ka ... of coz., they are one of the beneficiary on my death insurance la ..

aei...quite troubles to think this issue....

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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發表於 04-8-6 16:00 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

LiBoBo 寫道:
NOPAN,

I didn't buy any Insurance protection for my parents ka ... of coz., they are one of the beneficiary on my death insurance la ..

aei...quite troubles to think this issue....

係呀....就係呢D.
我死佢地有得金錢上既補賞.

請大家留意, 曾經有人係facebook開左我係bk個名既 a/c (Nopan Ma), 當然人人都可以叫nopan, 但此人仲偷埋我囡囡bk張相開fb, 有問題, 大家小心

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

NOPAN,

OH ...IC ...

u are at home or office now ???

u know ..I don't want go to work everyday ka ..may be no motivation la .....I'm not like this on previous job ka ...

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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發表於 04-8-6 16:20 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

NOPAN
啋啋啋!死死聲咁難聽!

LI
不過你想清楚先啦,因為你有BB之後,生活習慣改左,屋企多左2個人,你都要識應啦,跟住你又要教BB又要照顧佢喎,心理生理都有改變喎,如果你重轉工重新適應環境,都咪話唔攰呀,至慘係個心喺個屋企既BB,如果新工要OT你就慘啦!

我個朋友新婚前1個月轉工,點知轉左間勁OT既工,之前份工係咁話悶要轉,叫左佢唔好亂黎,但佢話讀左D野用唔到好SIDE,轉左之後同阿頭唔夾,放工又有陣都返唔到到屋企勁後悔,半年後無做囉,好快又搵到一份,又係勁辛苦,3個月又無做囉.

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

係公司....今日只係得我一個係度看守大本營.....

請大家留意, 曾經有人係facebook開左我係bk個名既 a/c (Nopan Ma), 當然人人都可以叫nopan, 但此人仲偷埋我囡囡bk張相開fb, 有問題, 大家小心

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發表於 04-8-6 16:29 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

mori,

I total understand about the suitation u mentioned .(both changes ) ,so I will not have any decision before bb's born ..

may be waiting until bb's has 6 mths la..

to be honest ...because I think this point too.....so feel very headache & troubles lor ..

don't worry...I will not 'hing X mon don"(chinese) otherwise..i will not ask this here la ...hehehehehe

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

LI
咁都好D,你咁講我就好放心啦,因為我朋友真係勁後悔呀.

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

LiBoBo 寫道:
mori,

I total understand about the suitation u mentioned .(both changes ) ,so I will not have any decision before bb's born ..

may be waiting until bb's has 6 mths la..

to be honest ...because I think this point too.....so feel very headache & troubles lor ..

don't worry...I will not 'hing X mon don"(chinese) otherwise..i will not ask this here la ...hehehehehe

Li, you should also consider whether the new job will have to work OT and make you feel stressful... if your existing boss not requires you to work OT and can be flexible, it can be considered as a good job for one whos have a new born babe as you definitely want to fly back home after work...But if you have a new job, it may be difficult to do that, as you do not know how you new boss thinks.

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

LI,
其實我生完阿B之後(年尾12月左右)就會搵返野做...但係我怕我唔忍心 'PAK'低阿B....所以而家諗都係搵返半日...可以放工放早D..... 不過以我而家既situation都算係全職housewife啦....其實都唔易做....我冇panpan咁識諗...完全無任何經濟準備之下...我就quit左份工....而家見得老公一個人咁辛苦...我都好唔開心...所以好想好想生完快d搵野做...
其實有左2個月既時候我都搵過工...仲要有幾份請我...但係做老師既...入職既時候一定要照肺(x-ray)...唔通我話比人知我已經有左bb咩...所以最後都疊埋心水做housewife....

B仔Album<---HERE(updated on 8.8) Tinok仔仔o係11月3日8:28pm出左世喇!7.63lbs重始めまして、TINOKです、よろしく∼∼

[img align=left]http://bb4.babyhome.com.tw/UPLOAD3/61740/s180/63468.6602526.20914.jpg[/img][img align=left]http://bb4.babyhome.com.tw/UPLOAD3/61740/1-9.gif[/img]

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

查實我都唔係咁鐘意我而家份工, 因為公司個條粉腸branch manager好鬼煩, 成日想騎住我, 成日搵位入....我只係想做野咋, 我唔得閒同你玩office politics.

本來我都想轉工, 但係而家有左阿B, 咪做落去囉, 因為我可以控制到收工時間, 有事要早走D都OK, 又有暑期空檔....算啦, 天下烏鴉一樣黑, 去到邊間公司都係咁架啦.

請大家留意, 曾經有人係facebook開左我係bk個名既 a/c (Nopan Ma), 當然人人都可以叫nopan, 但此人仲偷埋我囡囡bk張相開fb, 有問題, 大家小心

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發表於 04-8-6 17:38 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

mui mui,

thanks your reminder ...I know ...actually, my current job can leave ontime & not much work to do tim..feel "mo liu" all the times ....

anyway, I will & must think in deep ka la ...

eunise,

yes lor ..... other half (husband) pay the important role to his family when his wife without income ...

actually, my honey don't want I'm a full-time housewife ka ...he prefer employ a philippines maid..
he know full-tiem housewife not easy to do ..hehehe

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

re: 天下烏鴉一樣黑, 去到邊間公司都係咁架啦

nopan,

I using this point to persuade & "on wai" myself ka la ...

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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發表於 04-8-6 17:46 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

all,
同埋成日o係屋企好無聊....我o個頭(2:00pm)起身...o個頭(而家)又想訓...... 但我又未煮好飯...
今晚同老公去睇 -- 導盲犬小Q -- 7:50PM開場...所以要好早食飯....

LI,
我都prefer你請個maids...我諗初頭做full-time housewife都係好開心...日日都見到BB...但係日子一耐..我諗可能會變成 -- 壓力 ~~

B仔Album<---HERE(updated on 8.8) Tinok仔仔o係11月3日8:28pm出左世喇!7.63lbs重始めまして、TINOKです、よろしく∼∼

[img align=left]http://bb4.babyhome.com.tw/UPLOAD3/61740/s180/63468.6602526.20914.jpg[/img][img align=left]http://bb4.babyhome.com.tw/UPLOAD3/61740/1-9.gif[/img]

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Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

all,

anyone decide to go exhibition tomorrow morning ???

my colleague told me can get many free gift /sample in the morning ka ..so I will ask honey to bring a big big bag.... hehehhee

my honey back to HK la.....I asked his elder sister's family (has cute baby who has 16 months old) ... to post-celebrate his birthday ar... hehehehe ...

I didn't buy him any gift at the end ....so give him suprise la ...wah ha ha

我囡囡"梓瑤"係 1 月7 日來到我地的小家庭, 重3.9kg:-P

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