1. 大 b 見到你哋個肚愈來愈大會有咩反應? 會唔會好擔心比佢整親?
I think my son doesn't realise I have a true baby in my belly. Although when I ask where is bb, he will point to my belly.
I didn't worry much 比佢整親 at this stage, just don't let him sit on belly lor.
2. 大 b 仲咁細, 點樣解釋比佢聽會有個妹妹/弟弟?
It's not easy, may be I should get some books to explain what is siblings. However, I think he will only get the true meaning when bb is born.
3. 對於生多個後對大 b 既時間怎至關懷會想應地少咗, 你哋點睇? 因為大 b 可能一直做開焦點架嘛...
As newborn bb won't recognise people, I will ask 99/hubby/maid to hug and take care more of the newborn. Then I will spend more times with big B.
At the time I bf newborn, I will ask big B to come with me.
Besides, do let big B to participate in taking care of newborn. e.g. ask him to get diaper, tissue etc etc. So that he know bb needs his help and he is important too.
Also I will remind him that I love him very much and he is so lucky as he gained more love from me than bb coz he is older than bb and gain extra 3 years of love from me and Dad.
One more thing, I will buy a gift and give it to big B when I return back from hospital. Tell him that this is a gift from bb.
No need to think too much lar.
Being the only kid in a family is too boring to him lar. No one to share, no one to talk to! He will has higher chance to be more 自我 and 自私.
I am lucky that I have many sisters and one brother. We are very very close! Even we have our own family now, but we are still be very close!
Don't think too much lar. 3 years gap is OK. They can't communicate well if the gap is too big.