Nillie,
aiya...sorry to hear about your nanny...maybe it's better if fat bear stays home at least for a couple of yrs cuz at least you will have no worry. alot of american families r like that anyway. your nanny is so ridiculus. i think you have to set your rules up straight that she has to do all the cooking and do housework and take care of gabriel at the same time. dont expect you to cook after work. Hope gabriel will recover soon...i am really worried. cuz babies and small kids they can;t express their feelings... :~~~ (u know my old one twisted alvin's arm twice...what a nightmare!)my old nanny quit last week we just put an ad on singtao again...ah...trying out a new one yesterday and she was extremely slow..45 mins for her shower and 3 hrs for dinner and 1 hour to fry an egg...i mean if i have to wake the kids up and cook breakfast she may as well go home, oh yeah and she only gave alvin 3 oz of milk this morning..my c6 was so mad.......my poor alvin is home with her today hopefully she knows that he has to eat lunch and dinner............................
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 07-10-1 09:00 發表
SY_mom,
the reason to have a nanny, not just do some of the housework to help me out, the main reason for a nanny in my house, is to look after Gabriel.
As she doesn't do her job well, certainly, she ...
We tried, 讚多d佢 la and all the stuffs and still don't work. She is so smart, she would tell us that she needs to go pee or "all c" and then get out her chair and then go play. Now, I tell ...
原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-10-1 23:04 發表
Nillie,
aiya...sorry to hear about your nanny...maybe it's better if fat bear stays home at least for a couple of yrs cuz at least you will have no worry. alot of american families r like that anyway. ...
SY_mom,
加洲nanny同new york nanny嘅工作係唔一樣架, new york嘅mostly 係賓妹型式, live in, 做housework, 煮飯& take care baby.
new york 嘅nanny, not even ask you how long the last nanny worked for you.. 佢哋mostly 求工心切, plus, if interviewee 一寸, 你做daddy mami 會點? ==>"吸"佢線咯! 未上工都咁寸, 就執包伏喇! 佢返工後仲會尊重你?-( ?-(
返正肥bear 嘅salary only 夠cover nanny人工,食用+Amanda 校巴+ 佢返工嘅gas, 咁不如自己睇返, Amanda+Gabriel 更"經"貴, 更寶貝. 更重要係, 唔駛勞氣..
原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-10-1 23:04 發表
Nillie,
aiya...sorry to hear about your nanny...maybe it's better if fat bear stays home at least for a couple of yrs cuz at least you will have no worry. alot of american families r like that anyway. ...
原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-10-1 23:04 發表
Nillie,
aiya...sorry to hear about your nanny...maybe it's better if fat bear stays home at least for a couple of yrs cuz at least you will have no worry. alot of american families r like that anyway. ...
shamom,
you have hidden camera in your house? do you know how much that cost? clean mop in kitchen sink wah..ho disguisting woh. last time my cousin found out her nanny used mop to clean dinning table....one of my last nanny gave
alvin coins to play with so that she could use massage chair...i guess she was too comfortable and didnt know i was looking at her..................
if my 99 hears that the nannies in NY areas are like the filipino maids in HK, she'll absolutely like it. if i knew it earlier, probably we would have moved to NY before i gave birth. but now we don't need to think abt it coz we don't plan to have any more kids.
recently i just thought what if my 99 didn't treat the live-in nanny as if an filipino maid when we hired her when sean was 1, then i might already have gone back to the workforce. i thought that nanny was good. but 99 didn't trust her to take care of her grandson, so she asked her to do all the cleaning jobs instead and the nanny didn't like it. 99 also wanted that nanny to sleep in the same room as sean and said it would be her fault if sean caught a cold. one day 99 and that nanny had a fight so she told me she wanna quit.
i guess in sillicon valley there're lots of things a non-highly-educated 30-50-yr-old could do. they could work in the semi-conductor factories and make more money than being a nanny.
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 07-10-2 02:28 發表
SY_mom,
加洲nanny同new york nanny嘅工作係唔一樣架, new york嘅mostly 係賓妹型式, live in, 做housework, 煮飯& take care baby.
new york 嘅nanny, not even ask you how long the last nanny worked for you.. ...
Carrie,
Congratulations! u passed the 1st time? i had to take 4 times to pass haha ... where are you all going to celebrate? have lots of fun =) oh i have extra toddler seat if you want it, let me know.