From last July, I've a big changes in my life. Start to my new life in other country, also change to full time mum job, I miss my previous helper she help us a lot! However, I'm a typical HK lady, love go to shopping, go outside to eat etc. You dont think HK is very convenient place, most important is many things are cheap. I can hang out with my friends anytime if I like, of course, I've my helper in that moment la.
So far, my feeling is boring and no freedom. Well, I will. I must respect my husband's decision as he has transferred his job here. Also, I'll do my best to start my good mum job.
Not much full time mum in HK as I know, most of them have work. I also prefer go to work as mum job is not easy la. I've to wait around 1 more year than my son can go to nursery. Maybe I've more free time later, ha ha! :mrgreen: Are you enjoy to take care your daughter my yourself?
I'm envy of you can use chinese message, I think I have to learn, feel more comfortable & familarity!! But now using the computer which is no chinese keyboard.
Woh, quite long message, hope you dont mind la! :lol:
Hello 沙沙, JellybeanyD, 歡迎你地呀!
一姐, Paco ma, BoeyC, Clarab, Louise and 各位姊妹, 你地好!
好耐冇上黎talk, 不過都有一路睇住你地對話, 事關我個手寫板唔知仲セ,直接寫唔到bk到, 依家我要寫落去wordpad 再copy 去bk, 好煩, 有冇姊妹知點解??
不過呼睇到 JellybeanyD 既 mail, 真係覺得同道中人.
JellybeanyD, 我都係七月尾到uk. 我honey係呢度出世長大, 係香港住左11年後, 覺得小明友係uk讀書比較好, 等到大女依家4歲, 細仔依家5個月便過黎settle down. 半年前我honey既relative 話想賣間takeaway, 我老爺奶奶就叫我地返黎, 話自已做生意好過打工, 又話幫我地傾掂哂. 其實我一早已話明叫我honey先過黎攪掂我先過, 因為我唔想resign住, 份工好好, 阿女間幼稚園都好好既. 但係我老爺肯定冇問題, 又話個區d 學校好好, 唔駛擔心. 我地一家四口便一齊飛過黎, 我既nightmare便開始. 黎到打比個親戚佢先話唔賣間takeaway, 我地簡直晴天"pig leg", 根住又煩住找學校, 找鋪頭... 我奶奶呢區d學校好渣, 又唔係咁多鋪頭meet 我地budget, 好frustrated and sad. I keep asking myself why i came here, the reason i come here coz i want my daughter receive good education and hv a good living here, but now, not even say a good school, i cant give her a good living coz we're staying with their parents at the moment which is situated above their resturant, the enviroment is not child-friendly, i need to go up and down even for a pot of hot water for my baby (no kitchen upstairs, you need to pass through the quests' tables everytime !!). I know it's pointless to regret but i really do... i got a good job which allow my family always travel around, my daughter studied at a good kindergarten and she used to hv gym lesson every sunday, i got domestic helper and a comfortable house and i miss my family and friends...... 我屋企人不停叫我返去, 叫我從頭再黎,唉....我唔想小小挫折就返去, 工亦未必塭得番, 但我同我honey講明, 六個月內塭唔到鋪便番HK.
我係咪仲慘o丫! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: