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5821#
發表於 08-2-15 14:43
唔好意思,咁奈無上黎,一上就大吐苦水。但真係好想叫救命,次次都係係我快要考試時工人玩野!!!

呢幾日我已發覺工人唔開心,做野做錯晒又無心機,我都無出聲,仲想辦法令佢開心,我都算唔話得la,點知佢話好累,唔舒服,又話掛住d仔女,想放兩個星期假返鄉下。我即問佢係唔係鄉下有事,我已feel到你唔開心。佢又話唔係。我同佢講如果你病要看e生,佢又話無用架,無私人空間養病。我就話人人都會病架la,唔通每次你病都要返鄉下養命咩?跟住佢話其實我覺得你有d野唔滿意我,所以我唔開心。於是我就同佢講,講真無人係完美既,我唔係一個好僱主,但我有錯我都會同你講sorry啦。你做野我的確有時都有唔滿意既地方,大家同一屋簷下,都要互相遷就,好好溝通架la。如果你既問題無解決,放完假返黎,你都會唔開心架la,在我方面,我care你既感受,到目前為止我都好接納你,甚至我有嘗試改變自己去令你好過d,而家問題係你仲想唔想做。佢就話想做。

我都唔知點算好,放佢假又唔係,唔放又唔係,炒佢又好煩
我覺得呢個工人唔係好適應香港既生活,更唔適應出國做工人,做野咁薄皮,人地有d意見就唔開心,仲要老板就晒你 !!!


男爵府

積分: 8253


5822#
發表於 08-2-15 16:03
belu,

I think u need to discuss again with your maid to see what exactly she is unhappy of. Otherwises, u can't help her wor.

原文章由 belu 於 08-2-15 14:43 發表
唔好意思,咁奈無上黎,一上就大吐苦水。但真係好想叫救命,次次都係係我快要考試時工人玩野!!!

呢幾日我已發覺工人唔開心,做野做錯晒又無心機,我都無出聲,仲想辦法令佢開心,我都算唔話得la,點知佢話好累,唔舒服,又話掛住d仔女,想放 ...


大宅

積分: 4327


5823#
發表於 08-2-15 16:04
真巧合! 我昨晚同姐姐照肺!

昨晚我發現工人姐姐, 幫Hayes papa 整 magic stick of his favourite North Face Down Coat.
工人自作聰明, 拆晒D magic stick出來, Coat的防水布面拆破了幾個小孔.
即係D Down 好容易走出來 & 破壞 Water-proof Function!
一睇就知工人唔係跟 Hayes papa 意思做野.

問佢點解唔先諮詢 先生 or 太太, 才動手做. 佢目無表情唔答我!
我話 " Please be polite, answer me right now, don't make me mad coz. I've trained your manner & attitude for three years. You're a good maid I know, please don't influence the health condition of little Hughes in me, Okay?!"
She still kept silent without any apology!

I said, "Do you know Boss like these two down coats that he wears everyday? He bought them very expensive from USA, you know? Why not follow boss's instruction, any problem occured in the process? Tell me! Otherwise, please buy a New One for him!"
我工人居然答我: "好呀!" 然後即刻番入廚房!
佢從來唔會咁串, 我火都來! 即刻叫佢出來Deal掂佢.
Hayes papa剛陪完Hayes訓, 出來一齊Deal.
工人答: "我諗住...我以為..."

我地個Point好Clear, 唔清楚唔肯定要問我地, 做錯野要Say Sorry. 基本工作要求, 已教妳三年. Forgive妳當然Okay, 但妳態度要正確, 冇可能 "好呀!"然後走左去.
我地唔要呢D姐姐, 教壞小孩. 我地一向好有禮貌對妳, 又照顧妳一家大細的$$需要.
點解妳會咁既態度, 妳係唔係想唔做, 我地願意比妳走. 有咩講清楚, 大家最緊要合作愉快.

佢喊晒 & Say Sorry. 仲話好想湊Hayes & little Hughes.....
唉! 教工人負責任, 要 Say Sorry, 好似教多個女!
唔Deal掂單野, 又唔知佢諗咩, 唔安心. 始終要一個Reliable, Responsible & Stable Maid at home!



原文章由 belu 於 08-2-15 14:43 發表
唔好意思,咁奈無上黎,一上就大吐苦水。但真係好想叫救命,次次都係係我快要考試時工人玩野!!!

呢幾日我已發覺工人唔開心,做野做錯晒又無心機,我都無出聲,仲想辦法令佢開心,我都算唔話得la,點知佢話好累,唔舒服,又話掛住d仔女,想放 ...
God is here with us! ^ ^


大宅

積分: 4327


5824#
發表於 08-2-15 16:16
How about the Venue??????-( ?-( ?-(


2月份奶媽飯局, 姊妹們快D埋位!:loveliness:

21/2 (Thur)
tingfai
ivyscyip


25/2 (Mon)
tingfai

26/2 (Tue)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama

27/2 (Wed)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama

28/2 (Thurs)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama

29/2 (Fri)
tingfai

God is here with us! ^ ^


大宅

積分: 2891


5825#
發表於 08-2-15 16:37
原文章由 honey2h 於 08-2-15 16:04 發表
真巧合! 我昨晚同姐姐照肺!

昨晚我發現工人姐姐, 幫Hayes papa 整 magic stick of his favourite North Face Down Coat.
工人自作聰明, 拆晒D magic stick出來, Coat的防水布面拆破了幾個小孔.
即係D Down 好容易 ...


呢度既c9三日唔埋兩日就要為d工人而煩惱, 佢地d problems日日新鮮

belu, 你個工人似乎需要情緒輔導...佢平時放假有冇同d friends去玩ga? 佢好似好思鄉咁.


大宅

積分: 2891


5826#
發表於 08-2-15 16:42
原文章由 honey2h 於 08-2-15 16:16 發表
How about the Venue??????-( ?-( ?-(

2月份奶媽飯局, 姊妹們快D埋位!:loveliness:


我check吓安兒爸邊晚得閒在家先可以報名.

venue - 我覺得上次個度幾好, 唔想煩就不如照舊, 當然如有其他好提議一樣歡迎


別墅

積分: 614


5827#
發表於 08-2-15 16:42
2hmama,

我同意工人做錯野唔係大問題,講清楚再改就得,無禮貌就係問題,唔認錯種罪加一等。自問我對工人好客氣,但我唔知佢個腦想乜,怪怪地,例如:
我叫佢要安排食物份量(當然預埋自己果份),點知佢成日都食好少,有時只係食麵包,無食飯,我問點解,佢居然講唔敢買咁多送,d野又貴,怕用晒d錢,又要問我比,我話物價貴左我知道,雖然我有叫佢寫低用左幾多錢,但我有時好忙,無日日check,真係唔知佢用晒錢ga bor,另外屋企d清潔用品用完又唔出聲,我問到,佢只講用完好耐(姐姐,咁平時你用咩洗野呢?)我話佢聽唔緊要,用晒d錢咪問我比law,我會check數架馬,點知佢話問我要錢好醜,好似乞e,我真係比佢 ,都唔知佢咩構造,難怪佢唔適應做工人既生活。


別墅

積分: 614


5828#
發表於 08-2-15 16:56
原文章由 onyeebb 於 08-2-15 16:37 發表


呢度既c9三日唔埋兩日就要為d工人而煩惱, 佢地d problems日日新鮮

belu, 你個工人似乎需要情緒輔導...佢平時放假有冇同d friends去玩ga? 佢好似好思鄉咁. ...


安兒媽,

我都覺得佢思鄉,因為佢初初黎時已經無心情做野,都有同我講好掛住d仔女,我都有安慰佢,無想過黎左十個月,情況無改善。可能呢排好凍,凍到佢覺得自己好可憐。但又好怪,我比左好多冷衫同一件羽絨佢,又比左$200佢買衫,佢都係著得好少,又無著我比佢d衫,連我99都問佢凍唔凍,佢話ok,但點解e+話唔適應hk天氣,太凍la,你地話佢係咪凍傻,一係就係心理有問題,自己整到自己好可憐,然後怨天怨地,真係想陷我於不義!


大宅

積分: 2233


5829#
發表於 08-2-15 20:56
原文章由 honey2h 於 08-2-15 16:04 發表
真巧合! 我昨晚同姐姐照肺!

昨晚我發現工人姐姐, 幫Hayes papa 整 magic stick of his favourite North Face Down Coat.
工人自作聰明, 拆晒D magic stick出來, Coat的防水布面拆破了幾個小孔.
即係D Down 好容易 ...

Poor Hughes must be very angry too.
These similar problems I almost face everyday.
My maid always forgot things, broke my China wears and lied to me, reapeat doing some unnecessary house works, works in extreme slow motion. Works on her own way never ask.
Everytime I brief her, she only says " All " .......too many too many. Lets chat more during dinner.

Dont get too upset. They're all the same!


男爵府

積分: 8470


5830#
發表於 08-2-15 21:23
原文章由 diaperb 於 08-2-15 20:56 發表

Poor Hughes must be very angry too.
These similar problems I almost face everyday.
My maid always forgot things, broke my China wears and lied to me, reapeat doing some unnecessary house works, work ...


但係佢都仲可以續約喎, 佢真係好彩.


大宅

積分: 4327


5831#
發表於 08-2-15 23:08
Wa Wa! Your maid really make you angry everyday bor!
You're a VIP C9 now, wonder why you still renew her contract. If I am you, I think I would try another one.....

My maid tell me tonight that she won't go for holiday during the first two months of Hughes coz. she worry we're unable to look after Hayes & Hughes in good condition. Besides, she knows I need frequent meals prepared by maid at that period.....

"Suen La!" I know she's a kind & considerate maid performing well in past three years. She actually understand & accept our points of training for her as a good maid. Maybe she was short short dei last night!

原文章由 diaperb 於 08-2-15 20:56 發表
These similar problems I almost face everyday.
My maid always forgot things, broke my China wears and lied to me, reapeat doing some unnecessary house works, works in extreme slow motion. Works on her own way never ask.
Everytime I brief her, she only says " All " .......too many too many.
God is here with us! ^ ^


男爵府

積分: 6628


5832#
發表於 08-2-16 00:30
wckmay, aggie_to, tvoincy, strawberrys & SMM,

上一批衫其實過年前送o左黎, 一直唔得閒計數, 依家先ok, 你地想點交收呀? 奶媽飯局啦!


男爵府

積分: 6628


5833#
發表於 08-2-16 00:32
2月份奶媽飯局, 姊妹們快D埋位!:loveliness:

21/2 (Thur)
tingfai
ivyscyip
hellocandy


25/2 (Mon)
tingfai

26/2 (Tue)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama
hellocandy

27/2 (Wed)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama

28/2 (Thurs)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama
hellocandy

29/2 (Fri)
tingfai


男爵府

積分: 8470


5834#
發表於 08-2-16 01:10
下個星期會好忙, 因為要預備 payroll 同 b 仔 , 所以唔知邊日可以早走, 你地照約, 我得就到啦.


男爵府

積分: 6628


5835#
發表於 08-2-16 01:28
咁遲先出b仔o既? 都洗晒啦!

訓喇! 遲o的再傾!

原文章由 fsy 於 08-2-16 01:10 發表
下個星期會好忙, 因為要預備 payroll 同 b 仔 , 所以唔知邊日可以早走, 你地照約, 我得就到啦.


男爵府

積分: 8470


5836#
發表於 08-2-16 01:40
原文章由 Hellocandy 於 08-2-16 01:28 發表
咁遲先出b仔o既? 都洗晒啦!

訓喇! 遲o的再傾!


係呀, 我哋要跟 group 個 timetable 嘛, 所以唔一定係新年前, 2-3月先會出.


公爵府

積分: 28951

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5837#
發表於 08-2-16 09:32
昨日下午睇中醫, 感冒未清但好少事, 食2劑搞掂; 至於經期方面, 暫算正常, 除非連續3個月, 每次早1星期, 及經量不正常或有異樣, 才屬不正常. 現建議下月初(未來經前1星期)再去睇, 開補氣血及調經茶飲用, 試3個月就應搞掂.

中醫認為餵母乳咁耐, 對我的氣血有一定影响, 至於八珍茶就適合飲用, 可照舊服用.
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大宅

積分: 2539


5838#
發表於 08-2-16 11:54
原文章由 Strawberrys 於 08-2-16 09:32 發表
昨日下午睇中醫, 感冒未清但好少事, 食2劑搞掂; 至於經期方面, 暫算正常, 除非連續3個月, 每次早1星期, 及經量不正常或有異樣, 才屬不正常. 現建議下月初(未來經前1星期)再去睇, 開補氣血及調經茶飲用, 試3個月就應 ...


我都是要在下次月(未來經前1星期)再去睇, 開補氣血及調經茶飲用. 但我仍未試八珍茶.

點飲的?

我諗住下星期要再看一次中醫,我的咳一直都唔清.成日咳會影響身體的.


公爵府

積分: 28951

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5839#
發表於 08-2-16 11:59
八珍茶在經期完後連飲兩劑就得, 遲些再傾過, 我要放工接琦琦放學!
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大宅

積分: 2273


5840#
發表於 08-2-16 15:07
2月份奶媽飯局, 姊妹們快D埋位!:loveliness:

21/2 (Thur)
tingfai
ivyscyip
hellocandy
go4baby

25/2 (Mon)
tingfai

26/2 (Tue)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama
hellocandy
go4baby

27/2 (Wed)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama
go4baby

28/2 (Thurs)
tingfai
ivyscyip
Hayes mama
hellocandy
go4baby

29/2 (Fri)
tingfai

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