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goodsnooky

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發表於 14-5-12 05:58 |只看該作者

Thanks for brooklynbb's comments. I have decided to work something like 4 days a week after turning 50. We have decided to keep the baby. The baby has become the talking point in the family. It seems that everyone likes discussing about the baby.

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原帖由 goodsnooky 於 14-05-06 發表
Oldest one is almost 10 but is intellectually equivalent to a 13 year old. Younger one is 6 years o ...

I don\'t think this is a reason to justify the call of abortion here. It sounds like you may need to spend time to talk to your sons and explain to them what had happened (you learnt that you spoilt the younger son and you knew how it hurt the older one and how you will do differently in the future or even now,) and how things would work when new baby come.

I personally wouldn\'t take it if my sons try to leverage with me even they have their valid reasons. At the end if the day,we are still the parents and there are certain things we should stand firm on our ground and be the one leading the matter.

It\'s a precious gift to get another baby.hope you won\'t stress out and could figure out how to work it out with your boys. Good luck

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goodsnooky Thanks for the kind advice. We are definitely keeping the BB. 發表於 14-5-12 12:41

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First, retirement by 50 is a torture. What are you going to do between 50 - 80 years old, assuming you die early at 80, the average age of man in HK is 85!. Have the baby. Since your other kids are older, they can look after the little one. 3 kids can have they look after themselves. Even if you retire at 50, you still need kids to keep you entertained. Trust me!