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to cyns2004hk:
你老公都好愚孝喎...其實講真...我地同奶奶都係女人...我地都係有阿媽生...佢地都係做人地既媳婦...唔知點解...有d人對自己媳婦好好...有d人就好差...都唔明d男人...雖然係阿媽生你...但係同你白頭到老既人...陪伴你過埋下半世既人...都係身邊既女人---->即係老婆...我地講既野...佢地未必信...佢阿媽講既野...就信到十足...如果你老公仲係清醒既...叫佢訓覺個陣時(薛)高梳頭諗清楚啦...反醒下啦...個老婆受左咁既委屈...食唔飽...老婆講又唔信...唔通同你阿媽前世有仇...今世無野做特登屈佢咩...真係比d男人...(包括我老公)吹脹...

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cyns2004hk,

My husband also like yours. He don't know that her mother has 2 faces. When my husband here, she will treat me good, when my husband not here...ar...

Sometimes I told my husband that I don't like the food her mother cooked (too little and only vegetables, NO MEAT...even I am pregnant during that time...) But my husband say 'why don't you voice out? My mom always ask what food you like and she will cook for you....'.

Now, I have a maid in my home, she come to look after my bb (actually look after my Maid!!), when my husband at home, we have fish, vegetables and chicken...when my husband not at home...she tell my maid no need to cook chicken or fish...just 1 to 2 dish is enough...

You know I don't mean to jealous my husband, but in her mouth she told my husband that she treat me as her daughter but on the other hand what she is actually doing is NOT!! She even give the soup to her own daughter to drink when she visit me while I am 坐月，all the soup materials are bought by my husband and he tell her mom to boil for me only...but my mother in law always always always remind me to share with her son - my husband, her son can drink it also.

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onon1022,

I totally understand and support you!!!!

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coco926,
=.= 你老公真的過份. 我覺得他是有心發夫威的. 還要哄他媽媽開心, 因為他娶了老婆, 還處處照顧老媽的感受. 你要好好教育他. 這樣子有點沒出息. 真的男人, 不該讓老婆吃死貓, 不讓不尊重老婆的感受..=.= 如果我是你, 我就唔忍佢啦.

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總之切肉不離皮啦!!
有一次我老公以為我話佢呀媽,佢向一家人面前拍檯閙返我(食緊飯)之後仲嬲左我好耐,但係我根本係批評緊件事,唔係批評佢呀媽,佢冇向我認錯,仲要我食左隻死猫,我咁大個女都冇試過比人大聲話過,我呢世都唔會忘記!!! :cry:

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-.- 我實在不懂...為啥當女人要那麼苦. 對, 各位好姐妹, 小妹有一個方法...^^" 就是不跟愛人結婚.. 或婚後也不讓相方家長知道. 我覺得結婚是2個人的事. 我只要老公的愛就足夠了. @v@" 雖然我天天喊愛人"老公", 可是我跟他還沒有註冊的. 2個人一起, 開心就好. 我當作嫁了他.

-.- 有時候, 我覺得穿嫁衣的背後, 不會有童話的. @v@" 同居也不錯, 拍拖也好. ^^

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我相信我和其他媽媽都很贊成你媽媽的做法, 基本上很多媽媽都知要借聾耳陳的耳, 做好自己本份.

我以前都係咁認為盡自己本份做好就得,咩都唔計較, 對佢家人好過對我自己屋企, 有咩唔啱聽都聽完算數, 無投訴.不過你以為做好自己本份咩, 佢話唔係, 你無做過.

見好多媽咪都同我一樣, 都有一個只要d新抱做好新抱0既本份而唔可以個新抱做好仔女0既本份0既99. 簡單實例, 我一星期對住佢地6日(除左翻工同瞓覺時間), 只係1日翻下外家, 咁都有人唔鍾意, 你可以咁講, 滿足佢, 咪再減到兩星期一次, 但可以好肯定就算點減佢都唔鍾意.佢甘本唔鍾意你屋企人, 除非你完全唔再接近你外家, 佢就滿意. 但係我都有底線, 我做到只可以借聾耳陳的耳, 當唔知佢唔鍾意, 扮傻.

其實佢點講, 點諗與我無關, 我都費事理, 依舊同往常一樣, 不過有d人你唔順佢意, 佢就會黎攻擊你, 就好似我咁, 之後佢不停係我老公度講野, 加鹽加醋不特止, 直頭係屈我.

最無得頂0既係佢有個唔理事實既仔, 啱唔啱唔去分柝下, 總之亞媽講0既一定係啱, 翻黎發哂脾氣, 無話睇下事實諗下, 就算我攞真憑實據黎反駁話佢亞媽無中生有, 佢都可以瞌埋眼當睇唔到, 到最尾都要話佢亞媽無屈我, 佢亞媽啱, 一次係咁, 二次, 三次, 屋企嘈到無日安寧. 平心靜氣講講過, 喊到豬頭咁講講過, 發哂顛咁鬧鬧過, 最終係無言而對.

最後發覺原來同自己最親0既人, 最信賴0既人, 係佢心中你永遠只係佢0既敵人, 永遠同自己對立, 只會幫其他人黎挑戰你0既容忍度, 無人會睇下你貢獻過d咩, 只會不停搵不同莫須有的罪名話你, 老實講有時真係諗咁多年努力維繫一頭家, 最後就因為人地幾句不負責任的說話打破, 自己到頭黎唔知為咩, 換黎好似剩係得一泡眼淚, 講種感覺, 真係好難受!

對唔住, 有d感觸, 說話多左! 最後祝願各位媽媽有個好好的家, 唔好有類似我的遭遇.

prettylamlam2004 寫道:
cyns2004hk& onon1022 ：

或許你們認為我不理解你們的情況，在說風涼話。其實我只認為奶奶那方面既是改變不了，便要找個空間讓自己開心一點，別氣壞自己。要是改變不了老公的愚孝，便別為這方面傷神。

奶奶對媳婦不好的片段，我由小看大，我祖母對媽媽的差好比粵語片。記得有一次，媽媽和祖母吃飯，當中還有我的兩位姑姐和我的二嬸三嬸。祖母當眾指我媽媽一點用也沒有，生的都是女，還說幫不到我個仔生仔的女人我唔當佢係媳婦，還說要個仔(我亞爸)同我媽媽離婚。
我祖母也是出色的演員，我爸爸一直也不知道我祖母對媽媽不好，因為我們(媽媽,我及妹妹)從來也不會和爸爸說祖母的不是，因為爸爸很緊張祖母，誰說祖母不是，誰就被責罵。
媽媽了解爸爸的性格，所以她選擇盡了本份便算，其他的不想。媽媽說如果不是這樣忍，爸爸一早便因為祖母而和她離婚。

如果有不開心的時候,望望孩子便會開心。
祝你們生活愉快及你們的孩子身體健康。

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若然妳奶奶年事已高便算罷啦, 相反仲要對好耐的話,便一定要同先生徹頭徹尾好好的傾,否則仲有一天一發不可收拾,因為妳們倆仲有排對,唔通妳想日日家嘈屋敝,妳要知道女人係一個個體,要獨立D唔需要任何野都依賴人,妳有BB嗎?放心,我唔係叫妳離婚,只是叫妳好好的反省,妳忍心BB在這樣的環境下成長嗎?離婚只不過係最後一步!! ?-(

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總之死老鬼做家婆做到好乞人憎.

我一提起佢, 我粗口就

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damiergirl...thx support我呀...
我所謂既奶奶佢好後生...有排對...個次滿月之後...我都費事見到佢...費事諗起唔開心既野...有次我老公仲同bb講話搵佢飲茶我彩佢都傻...呢幾日佢打黎...問b仔點...仲叫我老公得閒帶b仔返去食飯...我見我老公好似好想去...咁咪應承去囉...我阿媽叫我同我老公講...去無問題...但係如果佢阿媽比面色我睇講野難聽既話...就即走人...不過語氣要好...我都應承左我阿媽...星期四個日...我老公打比佢阿媽...同佢阿媽講星期五返去佢屋企食飯...佢話去街叫我地星期六去...點知轉頭即叫我地星期四返去...但係我當然唔行啦...由此證明佢好掛住...好想見到我個仔...所以今個星期六...即聽日返去...睇下佢攪d乜...

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ONON:
我同你一様,我大伯&叔仔從無叫過我做2嫂,我奶奶仲叫我叫叔仔做3少(我當然無叫啦)入屋點下頭算,後來叔仔結婚奶奶就一定要叔仔個老婆叫我做2嫂,佢話唔係人哋會話佢無家教,咁點解佢自己D仔唔洗叫人,有時人哋叫佢哋仲扮聽唔到,人哋生D女做你心抱,你就可以咁有家教呢?
ONON我好明白你,唔緊要架,唔好太過唔開心難為自己,唔係無佢唔得,唔係為佢生存,得閒多D 上BK傾下計.
唔講啦老公就番.BYE BYE

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肥tam...thx to you ar...

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sorry,我仲以為妳同奶奶一齊住,原來相反,咁洗鬼埋佢咩!!

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joan121...我無理佢呀...係有陣時個老屎忽打黎...同老公講起一d野...咁先為左佢噪...阿仔未滿月之前我忍佢好耐...因為好多時都見到佢...阿仔滿左月之後...唔駛見到佢...我梗係唔理佢啦...但係佢個屎忽痕...唔見我帶個仔去佢屋企...打電話黎叫我老公帶個仔去佢屋企...咁我老公好想去...唔通唔比佢去...又為佢噪咩...去到佢屋企...又要見到佢個假樣...見到佢個樣...我又諗起佢叫我落仔...諗起佢講既好絕既說話...諗起佢叫我叫我阿媽比錢佢請佢一家人食滿月酒...我就好憎佢...今日要去佢屋企食飯...如果佢又啤住晒...擺出臭臉...我實拍桌走人...

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發表於 05-1-9 14:18 |只看該作者

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onon1022,

As you already married and have baby with your husband, then your choice is to accept the fact that 老屎忽 is hard to get along with and sometimes makes your life harder and not as happy as you expected.

I am lucky that I don't need to social with my 99 all the time. I still have no baby yet. So my 99 won't come to visit our home and she only calls to my hubby to talk with him. I only need to see her when we have dinner gatherings and we are polite to each other, not very close, like guest to each other.

What I want to say to you is I hope your relationship with your hubby will never be affected by other. When we prepared our marriage ceremony, I always argue with my hubby because of my 99 (his family) trouble desire about our wedding. So I told my husband it was very meaningless and worthless to fight because of other people, so from that moment we will not fight or argue about his family or my family or other matters.

You know what, I told my hubby about your situations, your 99 wanted your mother to pay for the dinner and your hubby's brother borrow money from you.....etc. He said they are 唔係人.

Do what you think is right, you must care about your own happiness, your own feeling and respect.

Good luck and wish you the best!!!!!!

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to damiergirl:

多謝你個句:Good luck and wish you the best!!!!!!

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onon1022 寫道:
我所謂既奶奶佢好後生...有排對...個次滿月之後...我都費事見到佢...費事諗起唔開心既野...有次我老公仲同bb講話搵佢飲茶我彩佢都傻...呢幾日佢打黎...問b仔點...仲叫我老公得閒帶b仔返去食飯...我見我老公好似好想去...咁咪應承去囉...我阿媽叫我同我老公講...去無問題...但係如果佢阿媽比面色我睇講野難聽既話...就即走人...不過語氣要好...我都應承左我阿媽...星期四個日...我老公打比佢阿媽...同佢阿媽講星期五返去佢屋企食飯...佢話去街叫我地星期六去...點知轉頭即叫我地星期四返去...但係我當然唔行啦...由此證明佢好掛住...好想見到我個仔...所以今個星期六...即聽日返去...睇下佢攪d乜...

[size=large]看化了男家
我家婆都七十幾啦~
但係, 仲好健康! 怕且我死佢都未死~
我老公個屋企人好包庇自己人既, 好似話~~
幫手湊bb咁, 我家婆會要求佢女婿做; 就唔希望佢個仔做
我姑奶咒罵佢老爺仲毒, 但係誤會(咪又係我家婆講是非)我咒罵我奶奶咪一樣唔彩我老婆同老媽子哪個親 ?? 點解老公會幫老媽子唔幫老婆??
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=248594&post_id=3281579&order=1&viewmode=flat&pid=0&forum=33#3281579

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