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agreed! 講真，我都唔想理/管佢地d野，交收封信，有幾咁煩丫，都係舉手之勞。

自己又要返工，放工又要湊仔女，講真，時間都已夠晒充實!

但好多野，原來我唔理/唔管，我只會不斷被人食機會，d人係會得吋進尺，咁一個人(大多)唔自律，又或我既唔理，會導致更大自食負面後果的話，我就真係唔想令自己有乜無謂既唔開心囉!

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我的做法!! 係一定會比番工人, 因為我覺得依d係人道問題!!要人尊重自己先要識得尊重人哋先! 反轉諗如果你掉咗我個女寄比我封信, 我會同你死過!!

題外話: 我試過有一次去外國, 遇到一位我好尊敬又感激嘅人!! 當時我無對佢表達過我對佢的情感, 但我番到香港後,我立即寫咗一封信比佢, 內裡原原本本地表我當時對佢的感覺同感激!! 但非常非常之可惜依封信寄失咗!! 我亦無再寫過另一封比佢! 依樣係我人生最後悔的一件事!! 因為依個人已經過咗身! 我已再無機會向佢表達喇!

當然,姐姐依封信一定無咁大件事喇! 之但係...
我會比姐姐的同時會提一提姐姐, 每樣都必須經我同意先可以用,包括屋企地址同電話!!

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發表於 11-4-13 13:44 |只看該作者

我都有收過姐姐丈夫寄黎既咭, 我都唔會拆, 比返佢, 其他的信就無收過, 有時姐姐都好自律, 唔係太過份既我都OK, 我老公話將心比心, 你係公司都係蛇皇, 有時姐姐都會奕係人之常情, 你對佢好D, 佢對你阿B都會好D, 放鬆D, 太過計較你會好大壓力

健康活潑的BB來臨了 ;-)

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姐姐打長途都會用自己既電話咭, 唔夠錢就再買, 唔會用我地個地址申請IDD.

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pekklegigi 發表於 11-4-13 13:44
我都有收過姐姐丈夫寄黎既咭, 我都唔會拆, 比返佢, 其他的信就無收過, 有時姐姐都好自律, 唔係太過份既我都 ...

sometimes 蛇皇 i think it is totally acceptable.Cos I must say even i will 蛇皇 and come up to BK la. But first and for most of cos she has finish what is needed to be done. Then if she has free time to do other stuff like talking on the phone . . I don't mind.

I know that my helper has a little chat on phone and has a tea break everyday in the afternoon when my daughter takes her longer nap.. I don't mind that cos she really does all her work well..

I think the point is how well the helper is doing her job.. a lot of time .. if things are done.. I believe the employer will also have 1 eye close...

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foggyao 我已1eye close左好耐喇!
如唔close，跟本係無可能同佢共處。
都好明大家意思，不過，可能我呢個工人，係間中就搏懵而比d驚喜我，所以我就更加少少驚! 發表於 11-4-13 14:44

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發表於 11-4-13 15:03 |只看該作者

本帖最後由 foggyao 於 11-4-13 15:05 編輯

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我第一個工人，正正係咁比佢享受個女既nap time時間。

後來，我女nap時佢都nap，我亦覺得係1eye close，咁到我女大少少，訓少好多，佢就變左tea time兼 "齋看"女時間，我女聊佢玩，佢唔玩耍開佢，並繼續晌受佢杯coffee兼發下呆!

比我感覺，係覺得我女阻佢休息，因佢已嘆(懶)慣 ~ 最弊係因為我放工回家前，佢係同我女玩到巔(做戲)，我真係從來無諗過佢會咁對我女，所以當我知時，係過左好耐先意外發現! 你話，如日日大部份時間如是(講真，個小朋友晌屋企對工人時間，真係會比我地又要工作，作為父母既多!) ，對個小孩發展會係點？我作為mami 覺可疑時，同知道發現，確定發生咩事時，真係心痛到極點!

我講出黎，係有時真係唔好比佢地既表面善意呃到! 正如其他人話齋 ~ 佢地係黎打工，唔係黎你屋企做寄宿生，大部份係唔會同你產生任何感情/感激，你對佢地好，亦唔會話有咩感激，因佢地覺得係應份，就係咁我先覺得可怕同無奈! 亦之所以另我對佢地既信任度下降，亦都係咁，令到我知，佢地d人係一定要管。

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understand... So far she is ok..
Cos there are a few times when i suddenly return home from work.. nothing was wrong... Either she was playing with baby, singing to her. or bb is napping and she is doing ironing or something.

Abt the tea break .. I only heard from her cos there are times when we have dinner.. she offered us to eat first and she will take care of baby, and I asked, you are not hungry? She said she had a coffee and a toast before cooking.

So far she is ok, and sometimes my mom is at my place when she comes back from singapore. and my mom said my helper is taking good care of my daughter. She said that the helper knows very well of my baby's habit.. knows when to take her out of bed cos she cries too much, and when she is jst crying a little n will go back to sleep.

Also the other day i said to her, sorry that there are so many guest staying within the last 2 months (my mother-in-law came from overseas, my husband's friend and then my parents), she said oh .. is ok.. actually she prefers to have them around cos sometimes when there is just my husband and I she feels a little awkward

At this moment I still like to believe I am the few lucky ones. keeping finger cross that this will carry on.

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咁真係恭喜晒! 有個好工人!!

咁講真，我而家呢個工人都唔算差既，我成日都話，佢係懶得就懶，扮傻唔做，但指明叫佢做，都ok無黑面，我收貨架喇! 最重要，係同我仔女相處幾好，仔女都鐘意佢(不過我仔女天生都愛工人!! 只要係工人，連招呼都會主動打

)，咁同埋最近同女傾偈，佢自己講話，有時唔乖會比我地鬧，咁佢會唔開心，而佢既處理方法居然係話搵工人姐姐，我聽到都唔知係應開心定唔開心好

mouth:。咁佢話工人姐姐會comfort返佢。咁我諗都係好事黎掛？! 所以佢打斧頭打得勁，我都無理，睇住，再過份d先再講囉。但我唔鐘意佢，間中就搵d野，好似試我bottomline咁囉。

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gemiling If she console ur daughter by saying don't be unhappy, u should listen to mummy, mummy is teaching u for your good. Then u should be happy 發表於 11-4-13 20:49

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"佢係懶得就懶，扮傻唔做"

to be honest... maybe I am a 懶person myself...

So maybe I think she is very hardworking

懶 - i think even the most hardworking person, once in a while will 懶... and everyone's performance will also goes up and down from time to time.. maybe affected by mood, maybe not well, maybe jst sometimes feel like you wanna hea a little..

Let I said before, as long as it is not too frequent and things are still clean, done. .I will jst let her la..

even for my helper, there is also times I feel like the floor is a lttle dirty and will ask her to please clean, or saw a hair in the veg... but i can understand things like tat happens now and then.. as long as I can see that she doesn't have a black face when i tell her and she will improve after tat.. I think it is ok for me.

maybe cos alot of time she 無所謂我又無所謂 so we work out pretty good.

For example, we give her around 500 a week to take care of food and 日用品 at home.. sometimes she will over spend (like if that week things are running out or she was asked to buy more than usual)... she doesn't mind using her own money first and then come back. There was even once I owe her around 300 cos I forgot to give her in a week ..and she only come to me when she had no more money...

i think also it is 人夾人緣

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gemiling 發表於 11-4-13 16:51
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"佢係懶得就懶，扮傻唔做"

The maid as you mention, you should buy mark 6.
You will never realize how you can stand such as my 6 days dirty ghost.

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Lily: 唔敢買mark 6 ah... I think that lucky is used on this helper already.

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I also found out she bought a baby song book with CD to play and sing for my daughter. She paid that herself ah. So I have to say. 好姐姐係有嘅希望在明天

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希望在明天, 我都信呢句, 我姐姐都會係11月完約, 我都煩緊請工人, 請著個好既真係好好彩, 我無乜要求, 只要佢錫我個囡, 同打理屋企乾淨, 唔好偷野就OK, 唉...呢個要求對有D媽咪黎講真係好難

健康活潑的BB來臨了 ;-)

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我有時見佢遲返屋企, 我都算, 唔太過份, 我都覺得自己太寵佢

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尋日見佢整左甜品比我食, 我好開心

有時對佢容忍都係好既

健康活潑的BB來臨了 ;-)

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咁講,如果個工人做得唔好,咪樣樣都管得佢嚴D囉.限制佢既福利囉.
但如果個工人做得好,咁我一定會對佢好好.
唔會"預左"工人第日唔好,或者曾經有工人唔好,今日就預先苛刻咁對待依家呢個表現好既工人.
我工人,幾乎每個星期日放假返來,都有一份麥記開心樂園餐既小玩具返來,並要阿囡表現乖,先會送佢.平日,教阿囡知識上既野仲多過我(我主力係陪阿囡玩).屋企永遠乾淨企理.買送錢洗得好合理.....
我都唔知點回報好呀!(因為我係孤寒人,唔會比錢

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我會比番佢, 要佢喺我面前折, 我要知係咩嚟嘅.... 之後叫佢解釋點解用我地址

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我會叫佢當面拆信,叫佢唔好有下次...尤其工人成日放假有節目,在港門路多...點會無收信地址...

我都係請左幾年外傭,但好明顯,我都發覺屋苑內有外傭私竇的存在,俾佢地收信,平日聚腳,同存放什物,每1-2年,就會偶到佢地搬竇(可能唔止一個,否則,點會咁成日見到)...一大班外傭幫手搬屋,仲要好緊張,好有系統咁錫住來搬添...

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