I got tears in my eyes when I read ur post. It's true that it's not that we r not patriots we dnt recognize our roots. How to be loyal to an invisible force? My husband is a proud Korean and I envy him alot cos he could sacrifice himself for his country. Where is ours? We r not even treated like a member of the nation and only becos we r supposed to be a part of it our minds can change from 6/30/1996 suddenly to 7/1/1997.....