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FarFarSaiGai

We really need to stop now before something tragic happens.

People, please be kind and considerate!

會有咩事發生呢

你又係邊個呢

成年人要為自己做過ga事付責任,依家大家只係討論件事,

如果件事上到勞工署或警署ga話就可能要付上法律責任,

依家我哋唔係搞事,只係想提醒莎朗喺件事未搞大之前,做

番佢要做ga嘢!

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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 17:42 發表
1. At first I find this case very entertaining and wonder how this can appen as the amount of money we are talking about is only 4500HKD.

2. After reading the analyses and additional information pr ...

好可疑嘅身份同舉動!!

一開 account 第一個 post 就咁撐亞莎姐, 仲同佢老公講咁多好說話, 唔通你心口又係有大小分界嘅?? ?-( ?-( ?-(

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原文章由 1November 於 07-10-21 18:32 發表

好可疑嘅身份同舉動!!
一開 account 第一個 post 就咁撐亞莎姐, 仲同佢老公講咁多好說話, 唔通你心口又係有大小分界嘅?? ?-( ?-( ?-(

MAYBE FarFarSaiGai IS HER HUBBY

[ 本文章最後由 r_kcy 於 07-10-21 18:53 編輯 ]

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佢10月5日仲有多餘錢買成$150美金書比佢個書都未識睇既仔(3個月bb)
佢10月9日已經入咗錢比人，仲要post 2次慌死人走佢數要人confirm添
佢係咪真係思覺失調，無錢扮有錢，齋吹無買，大家用眼分析啦
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=1138626&page=5#pid19326085

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我覺得被拖糧既auntie 唔算慘, 慘極都係唔見$4000, 咪當破財擋災, 呢d 賤人當比佢執藥la, 佢個仔就慘d la, 對佢一世, 跟住呢d父母都唔知第日有無好人做

人地恒基乖孫, 栢芝靚b 就出晒名, 估唔到呢個b 都因為有對cheap baba mama 而出名, 好可憐呀:-(

cheap 氏夫婦, 不如花多點心機在身教方面la, 小d作惡, 為左個仔積多d福la, 阿里路亞

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i think all bk mami are here to state the facts n giving opinion for them to settle the case asap. anyone who do something wrong should first of all admitted the mistake n try her very best to deal w the situation with the acceptable way by other party. if ms sharon really suffering from what u think psychological or behaviour problem then her spouse should seek medical assistance for her at an early stage n not till she committed a crime or hurting someone. $4xxx to u probably is a small amount but not for others so we are not in a position to comment. i am sure there must be some bk members who are qualified to give medical advice/assistance if ms sharon really has any metal illness!

原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 17:42 發表
1. At first I find this case very entertaining and wonder how this can appen as the amount of money we are talking about is only 4500HKD.

2. After reading the analyses and additional information pr ...

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原文章由 1November 於 07-10-21 18:32 發表

好可疑嘅身份同舉動!!
一開 account 第一個 post 就咁撐亞莎姐, 仲同佢老公講咁多好說話, 唔通你心口又係有大小分界嘅?? ?-( ?-( ?-(

me too

仲要一post完就走tim:tongue:

聽講佢教英文wor

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原文章由 1November 於 07-10-21 18:32 發表

好可疑嘅身份同舉動!!
一開 account 第一個 post 就咁撐亞莎姐, 仲同佢老公講咁多好說話, 唔通你心口又係有大小分界嘅?? ?-( ?-( ?-(

你同我諗既一樣~
FarFar:
件事唔單止係錢銀數目, 係講緊個人誠信問題、人格問題.
你要知道人地打工唔係做義工, 係要出糧既.
拖糧同彈票都係損害人地利益, 係犯法,亦要坐監.
家境有問題, 你係指佢自辯所謂既"稅局查佢"個單吧?
如果佢真係比稅局查, 基本上佢係不能出國, 但佢解釋自己係要返大陸幾日.
如果佢真係比稅局查, 稅局只會查一個單獨戶口, 即佢自己個戶口或先生其中一個, 唔會同時查2個, 你咁醒, 應該明我想講咩啦!
(i.e.是旦一個戶口可以用到信用卡 / 過數, 不能過數係藉口)
你話佢那段拖人數時間,一定有買到d 嬰兒用品, 咁請問你有無上過佢個blog? 佢show晒自己買咩啦! 就當佢真係無買, 欠人地錢係咪應該想法子還錢, 而唔應該只想到洗錢?
你話佢個老公好gentle, 好人有樣睇咩?
你又知唔知佢一直無話要即時還錢, 只係d網友post佢d相, 佢先打俾ann媽, 叫佢delete個post, 佢係八婆老公, 無理由唔知欠人地人工同買餸錢既.
佢老公有誠意還錢既話, 人地都唔會攪大件事啦!
做人地父母應該要做好榜樣, 唔係個小朋友以後都抬唔起個頭做人啦!

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今日樓主無回應, 又見到有網友發起e-mail forward行動, 我今日都玩下forward個大話精d野, 等多d人知.
send去俾報章雜誌都好wor, 有$100作報酬, 可以入八達通, 哈哈~

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FarFarSaiGai:
我本來想幫你translate你d論點.
但基於你d所謂論點有點兒那個/無知,
為免譯完後, 人地以為係我講, 所以都費鬼時譯喇~
仲有, 你d所謂論點也不值一提

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ｄｅｌ

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1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaintiff'.

So it could suggest that the man might really want to pay but he simply do not have the means to do so (and/or is so afraid of the spouse that without her approval, he could not pay even if he had the money)

2. Look at the background of the home picture. I am sure they are not wealthy. If the mother of the man ever suggested that he apply for public housing, one could understand that finding a place to stay is a major concern and has been a big topic in their life. That should really tell a lot about their financial situation.

3. It is quite obvious that they are renting. Would anyone in Hong Kong want to rent a house instead of owing one if he/she can afford to? When a family is in such a position and can barely make both ends meet, the pressure is extremely tense, especially on the man. Especially in a single income family.

4. No doubt, the female in question is a very smart person and quite manipulative. The man is no match and simply a prey totally under the spell of the other half so much so that he could even rebuke his elderly mother and father repeatedly time and again.

5. The pressure is definitely there. They have deleted their pictures, removed their blog. They probably are monitoring the forum but dare not make another word. If after all this mental punishment and they are still not paying back the debt, it is quite possible that they just simply cannot afford to do so after all. So it will make no sense to beat on the dead horse any more. (Hopefully they can really make the second installment on time.)

6. It was in the news a while ago. A couple (after saving for a long time) purchased the second story of a country flat or 'Chuen Uk'. His wife was engaged in a big fight with the lady owner downstairs. They were having a lot of argument about someone hanging clothes and dripping water downstairs. The owner of downstairs built a canopy to ward off the problem but the lady owner of the 2nd story reported to the building authority and finally had the illegal structure removed. Since then the relationship became so bad that whenever the residents of the 2nd story passed through the main stair way, people in the lower floor would slam the door very loudly and do all kind of things designed to be extremely irritating to the other party. The man owner of the 2nd story was always the one to take the blame from the wife for being useless and allowing others to insult the family without doing a thing. The man could not see any way out from this constant bombardment from both sides. He couldn't move, and he couldn't sell (market condition was not that good). Finally he took the ultimate way out and vanished into the path of no return.

7. In the current situation, the man is definitely now taking a lot of heat from the spouse for not making a lot of money and being useless; from his parents for being totally subject to the control of the wife; and now from the internet community (and very soon, his friends and co-workers) for being a scam artist.

8. In this type of situation, the men (if without a full load of money) are always the weak party. All they can do is to keep quiet and blame themselves for being so useless and things could happen. Certain types of people are more susceptible to this kind of pressure than others though.

9. On the subject of seeking help. The person who has problem is usually the last one to realize that. The family in question never admit or realize that they have a problem. So seeking help is absolutely beyond the question as far as they are concerned.

By raising the issue here, one hopes that someone (their friends) might just discover that the family may have a problem and seek help on their behalf. Then again, only experts in the field could help to shed light on this topic.

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判官：
仲嘜咁快delete咗段文章呀~仲有好多人未睇清楚喎~

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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...

He he

又係你ar,心理醫生

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原文章由 豬豬822 於 07-10-21 21:01 發表

He he

又係你ar,心理醫生

哈哈哈~~
本來FarFarSaiGai第一個post都冇乜野, 唔同觀點好正常.
睇佢第二個post就覺出事 - 佢講咗一大堆野, 都只係想講莎朗真係有問題 - 係人都知啦, 好人好姐會做埋d咁野?

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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...

話你聽花花沙加你寫英文無用嫁,你想人地清楚你講
麥,轉中文台啦! 大部份係呢處既都睇同寫中文,唔係你
文化高就可以寫一大堆叫人認同,中國人用中文表達先
至溝通好D,你都唔明,你處理下你既心態先.再同我地
大家溝通. 謝謝..

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一路追、追、追，都睇了我兩個幾鐘。本來唔想寫野(因為大家都寫晒我想講的)，不過為免唔記得睇到邊，所以都留下一筆啦....
最憎人吹水，亦最憎人唔出糧！吹得你咁有米又咁熱愛名牌，滿月又收落咁多金，而家金貴呀！你去當一隻介子仔都咁比錢人啦！重有我唔信你一個LV或其他的明牌都無？當左佢就夠比啦！如果你係有心還錢，就請你快啦！我唔信個個月有幾萬收入的家庭，家裡無值錢野？
重有是自己吹自己幾好都無用，''人在做天在看''，物質放在身上不會令你高貴左，反而係你整cheap人地個牌子。唔該你話比我知你用開邊幾個牌子，我即刻唔用費事整cheap自己！

全世界都在看你家的笑話，騙不過天地，沒不了良心。即管繼續下去，總有一天自己受！

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