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You seem cheap cheap Sharon's hubby or relative
原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...

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莎朗,
收手啦,到今時今日仲死撐做乜呢?嗱嗱聲一炮還晒錢了件事佢啦.
睇到而家開始戥你可憐,有個媽咪分析得好準,本身無錢扮有水充大鬼頭,無錯網上世界俾你一個幻想及吹水唔使負責任空間,將你諗o既野做到好真o既一樣,滿足你現實悲哀,但你真係响網上搵到鐘點姐姐同你做家務助理,呢點你點吹都要出糧.而且人地去到屋企知道你個底有幾多啦.所以佢地一再包容你,因為佢睇怕你唔係有錢唔俾,係俾唔出但又要充,充又態度唔好.再睇其他媽咪post出黎d相,完全feel唔到你一日開24小時冷氣,除非你老公怕熱到開住冷氣都要除衫影相.呢d咁自然家庭相好明顯唔係你所講長開冷氣.影相背景(街,衣著)都係好普通場所,好街坊裝,至於屋企更加唔係富戶look,亦都唔使頻頻搬屋,一點一點累積你吹水歷史,以為無人知,點知咁多精眼捉到你痛腳.仲有,你個仔姓李有個朗字,07年7月4日出世,唔知第時0707媽咪會會唔會留意下呢個小朋友嗱.話唔定有機仲記你d衰野,到時你個仔俾人笑到面黃.你老公個鞋口鞋面揚埋出黎叫佢以后點出黎搵食(撈老臨,假設係真的話未有人確實),搞咁多野都係為左4千幾蚊糧,呢d唔係人地爭你,係你個'闊太'應該要俾,既然錢唔係考慮因素,你仲有幾多隻死雞撐飯蓋?
我做野咁耐,見盡好多大老細食夾棍,走數,有錢唔找數...佢地初時好得意洋洋,一副我唔還你奈得我何姿態,但好巧合,一個二個唔係破產就係生cancer,一係唯一個仔/女無啦啦瓜左,所以話冤枉黎瘟疫去,今日俾你偷到雞唔還,唔代表你唔使還,可能用第二樣比錢仲貴o既野去還.我亦都有爭人錢同俾人走數,我都好感激當日寬限我d廠家,只要自己有誠意人地點都放我一條生路,因為大家只為個錢字.
如果你聽日還晒所有錢,你要感謝劉伯母,因為由頭到尾佢包容你,唔趕狗入窮巷,仲放你條路..你好自為知啦.
記住因果循環,今日未報時辰未到
春有百花秋有月 夏有涼風冬有雪 若無閒事掛心頭 便是人間好時節


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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...


我覺得你己經越描越黑喇!


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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...



唔好再扮鬼扮馬, 速速磅唔好四圍望!


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665#
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快d還番錢比人算啦


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原文章由 debc 於 07-10-21 22:23 發表



唔好再扮鬼扮馬, 速速磅唔好四圍望!


無錢唔好扮痴線,係痴線婆就申請傷殘準貼,痴線婆買野食飯都要比足錢呀!!!


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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 17:42 發表
1. At first I find this case very entertaining and wonder how this can appen as the amount of money we are talking about is only 4500HKD.

2. After reading the analyses and additional information pr ...


你無野嘛,提議我地夾錢幫個賤人還錢??佢有困難就唔應該用工人,用得工人就要準時出糧‧我殺佢老公判監10年分70年期期坐監得唔得??淨係星期日入監獄,一至六去SHOPPING可以嗎?


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原文章由 賤人剋星 於 07-10-21 22:56 發表


你無野嘛,提議我地夾錢幫個賤人還錢??佢有困難就唔應該用工人,用得工人就要準時出糧‧我殺佢老公判監10年分70年期期坐監得唔得??淨係星期日入監獄,一至六去SHOPPING可以嗎? ...

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總括而論莎朗姐充大頭鬼,冇錢扮有錢,請o左人又賴貓唔想俾錢,人格真係極品極衰衰到貼地,放長雙眼睇你個仔將來點對你。


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發表於 07-10-21 23:11 |只看該作者
完全覺得FarFarSaiGai 你係同黨/同一類人

原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring the pressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So they called the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to the plaint ...


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發表於 07-10-21 23:18 |只看該作者
睇完各位精明媽咪既調查報告,又有d同情莎小姐,因為佢可能真係與娘家不和,無親友,又窮又要死充,6299唔鍾意佢,老公又無能力滿足佢既虛榮心,攪到自卑變自大既人.
如果佢真係無能力一次過還$4000,不如比條生路佢啦.分期就分期囉!
睇下星期一點先啦.
至於個位滿紙英文既新國民,你究竟同莎小姐有咩關係?
最好笑係你叫大家夾錢還比樓主媽咪,你係咪有d心理問題?


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原文章由 wingc 於 07-10-21 23:11 發表
完全覺得FarFarSaiGai 你係同黨/同一類人




傻既都知la!!!


莎朗:


你真係動物到不如...實害死你個仔...!!!


死 cheap 精..............:tongue: :tongue:


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發表於 07-10-21 23:23 |只看該作者
1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring thepressure. They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So theycalled the plaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to theplaintiff'.
- 莎朗老公好聲氣, 係想氹 ANN 媽媽唔放佢地張相出嚟. 佢地好清楚, 只要實實在在地還錢, 件事就會平息, 但佢地冇咁做.

So it could suggest that the man might really want to pay but he simplydo not have the means to do so (and/or is so afraid of the spouse thatwithout her approval, he could not pay even if he had the money)
- 根據樓主, 佢地冇提過俾錢, 只係叫樓主唔好POST 相同埋要協樓主delete個topic先還錢

2. Look at the background of the home picture. I am sure they are notwealthy. If the mother of the man ever suggested that he apply forpublic housing, one could understand that finding a place to stay is amajor concern and has been a big topic in their life. That shouldreally tell a lot about their financial situation.
- 但莎朗姐响自己個BLOG大大聲聲話自己嘅家庭入息高出入息限額好多倍, 唔通莎姐"精神分裂"?

3. It is quite obvious that they are renting. Would anyone in Hong Kongwant to rent a house instead of owing one if he/she can afford to? Whena family is in such a position and can barely make both ends meet, thepressure is extremely tense, especially on the man. Especially in asingle income family.
-租屋定買純粹個人決定, 有d人有錢買樓都鍾意租, 你個解釋有D牽強. 而且莎姐响BLOG到提過佢老公搵唔少, 又咁鍾意同有錢食好,買好, 唔似有extreme tense 嘅 pressure

4. No doubt, the female in question is a very smart person and quitemanipulative. The man is no match and simply a prey totally under thespell of the other half so much so that he could even rebuke hiselderly mother and father repeatedly time and again.
- 你讚緊莎姐醒呀? 真係醒嘅就唔會為咗慳少少而搞到聲名狼藉, 莎姐今次盤數計錯晒啦. 你講到個男人好慘噃, 係"prey of 莎姐", 真係戥佢有d可憐.

5. The pressure is definitely there. They have deleted their pictures,removed their blog. They probably are monitoring the forum but dare notmake another word. If after all this mental punishment and they arestill not paying back the debt, it is quite possible that they justsimply cannot afford to do so after all. So it will make no sense tobeat on the dead horse any more. (Hopefully they can really make thesecond installment on time.)
- 人要面,樹要皮. 佢地delete 啲相都係正常反應. 而且揚咗個樣之後, 下次如果想再"坤"人, 個樣"黃"晒, 都冇得"坤"啦, 莎姐唔再(用佢自己名) 上嚟留言係因為佢已經冇point, 又冇入錢, 再留言咪棧俾人插.

6. It was in the news a while ago. A couple (after saving for a longtime) purchased the second story of a country flat or 'Chuen Uk'. Hiswife was engaged in a big fight with the lady owner downstairs. Theywere having a lot of argument about someone hanging clothes anddripping water downstairs. ....He couldn't move, and he couldn't sell (marketcondition was not that good). Finally he took the ultimate way out andvanished into the path of no return.
- 唔明你提呢個case 做咩, according to 莎姐, 佢咁錫個仔, 點會有事發生吖, 最多咪响網上改名換姓, 繼續買野賣野. 佢嘅"vanish into the path of no return" 應該會係"莎朗"响網上消失啫.

7. In the current situation, the man is definitely now taking a lot ofheat from the spouse for not making a lot of money and being useless;from his parents for being totally subject to the control of the wife;and now from the internet community (and very soon, his friends andco-workers) for being a scam artist.
- 你唔係個男人, 你點知? 可能佢兩個响處嘆緊冷氣呢!?

8. In this type of situation, the men (if without a full load of money)are always the weak party. All they can do is to keep quiet and blamethemselves for being so useless and things could happen. Certain typesof people are more susceptible to this kind of pressure than others though.
- 都係個句, 你唔係個男人, 你點知? 唔通你同佢好熟?

9. On the subject of seeking help. The person who has problem isusually the last one to realize that. The family in question neveradmit or realize that they have a problem. So seeking help isabsolutely beyond the question as far as they are concerned.
- 佢地梗係唔會覺得有問題啦, 因為佢地根本就係立心不良呃阿婆錢

By raising the issue here, one hopes that someone (their friends) mightjust discover that the family may have a problem and seek help on theirbehalf. Then again, only experts in the field could help to shed lighton this topic.
- 你咁了解佢地, 不如你出手幫佢啦

原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 20:48 發表1. Obviously, the family feel ashamed and are not ignoring thepressure.They do not wanted to see their pictures posted. So theycalled theplaintiff and the man actually 'talked nicely to theplaintiff'.

[ 本文章最後由 kiki.kiki 於 07-10-21 23:34 編輯 ]


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唉.........無錢真係萬萬不能!沙朗你玩大咗啦!無$~~局住同6299住lor!搬屋俾按金上期都一萬幾千啦 你明明唔係poor得要死,為乜?
吹水唔抹咀唔緊要,幻想到出晒位亦可以,但請人做嘢記得準時出糧呀!Ann伯母同你做家務,做得OK嗎?OK就攞返租樓果D按金拿拿林還返比人啦!咁後生就眾叛親離,俾人丙到體無完膚,何必呢????!!!!真係可以告你ga:evil:


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[quote]原文章由 賤人剋星 於 07-10-21 22:56 發表


阿無人性莎朗,

真係唔明點解你有錢唔出糧俾人, 仲走去買lee買路, 唔該你啦, 你係真係有心拖糧喎, 咁既野你都做得出, 換轉係你老母咁樣俾人玩你會點呀, 你有人性就快O的還錢啦, 當幫個仔織返o的福啦

樓主,

我明白你唔想搞咁多野, 唔想搞到你媽媽要去勞工處 or 警局, 但如果阿莎朗個賤人真係一路拖咁點算, 如果佢一搬左 or 轉電話你媽媽既辛苦錢咪石沉大海, 你真係諗請楚係咪唔去搞呀, 時間一拖得耐, 就越難追, 唔好再拖時間啦


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原文章由 FarFarSaiGai 於 07-10-21 17:42 發表
1. At first I find this case very entertaining and wonder how this can appen as the amount of money we are talking about is only 4500HKD.

2. After reading the analyses and additional information provided other posts, I began to feel quite differently about the lady.

3. Above all, I really feel sorry for the man. He seems to be a nice and gentle person. He is the type who tries to do everything to please his spouse and obviously he can not satisfy financially the demands of the other half and the only thing he can is to do whatever she wants, even to point of alienating his own parents.

4. Obviously, the couple has already alienated the female side of the family, and that's why the female side of the family is not invited to the baby party. It could very well be that the wife really does not want to be associated with her own family because it is really poor and she is ashamed to be associated with them at all.

5. My conclusion is that the family is really in poor financial shape and they really cannot afford the 4500HKD as the family income cannot really support the lady's spending habit or fantasy. All those things she said she wants to buy she probably did not. She only talk about it so she can feel good.

6. I have the feeling that the husband may want to pay off the debt in question, but either he is not allowed to (by the wife) or that he really cannot afford to because they are really poor.

I could imagine that the couple is having a lot of argument at home where the wife is blaming the man for being useless and incapable so much so that the wife has to suffer from all these for such a meager amount of HKD4500.

7. I really feel sorry for the man and I think he is under tremendous pressure and the matter drags on.

8. My suggestion is that if one really wants to help the person who did not get paid, maybe should each contribute a small sum to her so she can recover her loss.

9. And in the mean time, I think we should leave the poor family alone. I feel sorry for the man. The wife is probably having some kind of psychologically or character problem and needs help too.

We really need to stop now before something tragic happens.

People, please be kind and considerate!


Ha-Ha....FarFarSaiGai ,

Your reply really makes me laugh.....

First of all, I would like to ask how do you know the man is a nice and gentle person?? Just from his attitude to his spouse and his parents??? Why can't you say he is a bad bad guy and does not respect his parents at all.

Secondly, why do you think it is the wife who does not want to be associated with her own family , can't it be vice versa??? Perhaps, it is the wife's family feel shame on her and don't want to get any association with her.

Thirdly, you always feel sorry for the man and say a lot of good words for him. Why?? How do you know the man is under tremendous pressure and may want to pay off the debt in question? You are that man so you get such strong feelings and comments??? To me, I think the man is just the same kind of his spouse. Have you heard about " 物以類聚"?? I don't think he wants to pay the debt.

Even if the situation is really as what you say, I will not feel sorry and have pity on that man. He deserves what he gets as he does nothing to stop his wife. He just lets her to buy things without thinking of their financial position. He even allows his wife to cheat other people.

For your point six, I just think the couples are now laughing and planning what to do next, and deciding who will be their next victim. Argument and blame?? No way....

The most interesting part in your reply is point 8 and 9. The method you suggest is actually not helping the person who did not get paid. It is really helping the couple. If each of us contribute some money to the vicitm, the couple will not require to settle the debt. They can even escape from their liabilities. Can you give me a good reason why we should help them?? Don't tell me becasue they are poor and the wife is sufferred from psychologically problem. There are many poor people and unfortunate perople in the world. Their situations are much worser that the above cople and the most important thing is they have dignity and will not cheat other in order to satisfy themselves.

As a conclusion, both husband and wife are very selfish. In order to satisfy themselves, they cheat others. Even worse, they are actually committing crimes. They should pay for what they have done without any excuses. They can't escape from their liabilities.

If you really feel so sorry for the man and want to help hiom, why don't you pay for him and settle the case. Then, we will close this topic and let him go.

[ 本文章最後由 bobomami 於 07-10-21 23:31 編輯 ]

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Good Points!!!!!!!!!! bobomami!!!


FarFarSaiGai,
If you really feel pity on the man, why don't you raise your hand to help him. I think if you lend the $$ to pay Ann's mom, the man should feel much appreciated.......... Yet, you can set a term to ask the man to return the $$ to you by installment.


原文章由 bobomami 於 07-10-21 23:26 發表


Ha-Ha....FarFarSaiGai ,

Your reply really makes me laugh.....

First of all, I would like to ask how do you know the man is a nice and gentle person?? Just from his attitude to his spouse and his ...

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