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pollyw
都好明白你老公點解咁angry, 有時男人未必想成日屋企入面有個外人, 其次就係佢肉痛你要serve你呀哥

明白你左右做人難, 但你哥哥知唔知你老公唔鐘意佢係你家過夜?

pollyw, 解決唔到既問題唔好諗太多, 如果問題可以解決的話, 就更加唔駛諗, 你要放鬆心情呀!

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原文章由於 07-9-12 08:45 發表
pollyw
都好明白你老公點解咁angry, 有時男人未必想成日屋企入面有個外人, 其次就係佢肉痛你要serve你呀哥

明白你左右做人難, 但你哥哥知唔知你老公唔鐘意佢係你家過夜?

pollyw, 解決唔到既問題唔好諗太多, 如果問 ...

卡樂B薯片,

My brother doesn't know ga! I consider it a disrespect to him if I tell him the fact. He's divorced and of course he has his own living place which is my family's headquarter (my mother's home). But he loves going here and there so much. Everytime after he come back from Shun Chun (after work) late at midnight he would also come to my place for a night stay as my location is more convenient for him to get back to work. Then, my C6 will always say to me, "DOn't bring dirty stuff into my house from the SHun Chun!!!!". Actually I'm wondering what he does in the SHun Chun, while he said he went for cheaper and big dinner with friends. ?-( ?-( Frankly I'm quite ashame of having such brother of mine!!:cry:

In fact, some simple word to him like "please never come to stay overnight anymore!" will do. But it sounds like disrespect. But anyway, I would now try to figure out the way I will talk to him to refuse him coming over as this definitely needs to be resolved..:cry: :cry:

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發表於 07-9-12 18:00 |只看該作者

Pollyw

你呀哥有無你鎖匙架?

我個人覺得係呢事上面, 你同你老公是旦一個始終都要做衰人, 如果唔係都好難解決, 不如你照直話你老公唔係太鐘意, 叫佢盡量唔好上黎訓, 因為唔想有argue嚇親d小朋友

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發表於 07-9-12 23:38 |只看該作者

唉無發作成個星期又發作.. 今日有人打來叫我interview就好鬼緊張.. 已經唔想去唸都control唔到. 我都懷疑我有無能力轉到新工, 咁樣新環境緊張又發作, 壓力大D又發作. 而家呢份工算壓力細左handle到, 不過無前途咁解.

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發表於 07-9-13 14:02 |只看該作者

cyberz
如果情況唔隱定, 我都覺得盡量唔好轉換新環境, 因為我地既適應力暫時無咁強

不過如果你而家做緊呢份工d同事係知你有情緒病的話, 我覺得轉換環境都可能係你一個新既開始

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發表於 07-9-17 15:19 |只看該作者

How are u girls? I'm about to die!!! I have diaherra for a few days. and now have serious headache and dizzy. But still tons of work ahead to do. My mother is still in the hospital and need me to visit tonite as none of my family members are able or willing to do it. She's not of serious sickness but she need somebody to bring her big dinner everyday(she doen't want those food provided by the hosipital at all). Hopefully I won't get fainted on my way going to the hosipatal la!! Poor me!!:-( :-( :-(

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發表於 07-9-17 23:56 |只看該作者

pollyw,

換個角度睇~
你媽媽要你照顧~表示你的媽媽還健在~
你要照顧你媽媽~能夠有能力為別人付出~是一種福氣~
總好比有重病的人卧床不起~還要靠別人照顧~好很多很多~
加油呀~

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cyberz

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發表於 07-9-17 23:57 |只看該作者

原文章由 卡樂B薯片 於 07-9-13 14:02 發表
cyberz
如果情況唔隱定, 我都覺得盡量唔好轉換新環境, 因為我地既適應力暫時無咁強

不過如果你而家做緊呢份工d同事係知你有情緒病的話, 我覺得轉換環境都可能係你一個新既開始 ...

我同事唔知我有情緒病, 我亦常唸我唔係情緒病. 個日見工反而我非常平靜好似無事之前咁.. 但係夜晚一累之後胸口又有一D驚既感覺好煩.

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發表於 07-9-18 08:32 |只看該作者

pollyw
so sorry about to hear your news, 你自己點呀, 好返d未?

你自己唔舒服, 仲要照顧仔女同媽咪的確好辛苦, 不過事實話比你知 "你係得架", 唔好睇小自己既能力

我地都要pollyw發揮自己內在既最大潛能先得 - 醫好個病

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發表於 07-9-18 08:33 |只看該作者

cyberz
我相信見工前既緊張同不安係正常反應, 你而家決定會唔會考慮份新工呀?

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原文章由於 07-9-18 08:33 發表
cyberz
我相信見工前既緊張同不安係正常反應, 你而家決定會唔會考慮份新工呀?

卡樂B薯片 & Amymak,
Thanks for your reply. Yes, ur right that it's my luck to serve those around me, but it's really tiresome. Everybody around me is squeezing & demanding me a lot.

Cyberz,
DOn't worry. Try to foucs yourself more on other stuff that need u to do, instead of focusing on your own body. Your chest pain, etc, is definitely a sign of pressure which anybody else would have and it is normal. Just try to ignore and find some realxing things to do and you will feel better.

I'm still suffering serious headache for now and my head is about to explode. I find that in the past few days while I'm sick and with diaherra and headache, and busy with watching over ppl around me, , I really don't have the mood to "worry" and "panic". Isn't it nice?????

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發表於 07-9-18 13:43 |只看該作者

hi pollyw

very sorry to hear you that!!!! are u ok now????

我同你講我情況唔同你, 但係我老公都好麻煩, 成日都比較佢家人同我外家, 特別係個仔出世後, 成日怕我個仔痴公公婆婆多, 其實我都係一個星期先見我爸媽一次, 而佢爸媽就日日見, 所以有時我覺得好大壓迫, 成日就為呢d嘈..............都唔明我老公d思想.....最近佢大嫂又有咗, 咁問大伯, 係唔係佢外母幫手揍, 佢外母好得閒, 又同外母住樓上樓下, 點知佢話唔會, 佢話佢要bb痴佢男家d人多d喎! 我開始發覺點解兩兄弟都有咁嘅思想........佢地咁計較, 係咪僧令d老婆好辛苦呢???呢幾年我都為呢d嘢好大壓力, 相反令我好怕見佢男家d人, 耐何呢幾年都一齊住, 一邊要忍受自己個病, 一邊又要受佢呢方壓力.......................

最近其實巳經好好多, 不過一直期待搬, 巳等了四年, 今年個仔返學, 終於可以搬啦............不過收咗樓成三個半月都未搬得, 又係老公問題, 因為俾朋友裝修, 所以成日都俾人拖住............相信可能要11月先搬得...............我一問2老公進度如何, 佢就發我脾氣, 成日問我係咪搬唔"設", 我其實係煩, 無一個deadline時間俾我, 我個仔又返學, 又要安排搬屋, 又要安排其他公司送貨, 仲有工人十月又滿約, 新工人又未到, 同我原先打算開學前入伙, 計劃都唔同.....我就嚟發癲啦..........所有嘢又唔係佢安排, 咩都要等我, 但係佢就就佢d friend.......搞到我咁, 我到時都唔知安排如何, 仔又返緊學, 自己又返工..............:-( :-( :-(

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發表於 07-9-18 14:22 |只看該作者

B咕

睇黎你既情況真係令你個心惰好煩亂
因為前面全部都係未知數
不過我相信你老公都想盡快搞好間屋
只不過因為朋友既關係好難開口追

至於你父母同佢父母既比較, 其實好多夫婦都要面對
不過既然佢2兄弟都有同一問題
我相信與佢地既童年都可能有關
我地嚐試去接受, 去體諒佢地
咁樣我地自己會開心d

B咕, 有時well-planning都係一種無形既壓力, 我地呢到好多人支持你架

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原文章由於 07-9-18 13:43 發表
hi pollyw

very sorry to hear you that!!!! are u ok now????

我同你講我情況唔同你, 但係我老公都好麻煩, 成日都比較佢家人同我外家, 特別係個仔出世後, 成日怕我個仔痴公公婆婆多, 其實我都係一個星期先見我爸 ...

b咕,
Yes, I understand how you feel when your husband is not showing much respect to your family. My hsuband is also complaining about my family most of the time. It really gives me great pressure. But indeed my family members are not worth respecting. They will only include me when there is work to do, even to book airticket for their travel (cus I'm a stayhome housewife and they assume I'm always free). But they never ask me about how I'm doing with my kids, and my family. Everytime they visit me, their topics will me just on how small my house is, how poor my cooking is, and how poor my kids are performing, etc. The most unforgetable thing was that, when my husband's eldest brother passed away 2 years ago, none of my family members attended his funeral (and they find excuses). This shows they are really irrespectable and lack family education. (I'll have to say this even I come from the same family). My husband was so unhappy with that and I was so embarrassed too.

But in the end, all I can advise you, is that, to do your best on your side, no matter worse situation it would be, and you will have no regret. Don't give yourself too much pressure or else it would be unhealthy to yourself ga! I bet you wuld love to live longer, right??!!.

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發表於 07-9-19 08:58 |只看該作者

pollyw / b咕
你地2個都只要做好自己, 唔好加太大既pressure比自己

pollyw
你同左你呀哥暗示未呀?

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原文章由於 07-9-19 08:58 發表
pollyw / b咕
你地2個都只要做好自己, 唔好加太大既pressure比自己

pollyw
你同左你呀哥暗示未呀?

卡樂B薯片,
I didn't say it clearly to him. But instead in the recent few times when I sensed that he wants to come over to my house (when he wants to say so over the phone), I would stop him n say, firmly, "no la! Not convenient ah!" This was repeated at least 3 times in these few days and I bet he could sense what I mean gua!!

It's extremely embarassing on my side to say so to my brother whom I respect so much. But still I would need to do that as my C6 keeps complaining about it.

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發表於 07-9-19 14:25 |只看該作者

頭暈暈怎辨??

Hello各位

我唔自己係有鷔恐症‧早上沒什麼但放ヱ後等車時‧會覺腳步浮浮‧心足兆加速,好怕自己會暈‧睇西醫唔係耳水木不平,血壓12272,都算OK,唔知自己應去睇中醫定????好煩!唔敢去街!!!!!!!!!!

:-( :-(

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發表於 07-9-19 15:43 |只看該作者

原文章由 Twentyfour 於 07-9-19 14:25 發表
Hello各位

我唔自己係有早上沒什麼但放ヱ後等車時‧會覺腳步浮浮‧心足兆加速,好怕自己會暈‧睇唔係耳水木不平,血壓12272,都算OK,唔知自己應去睇中醫定????好煩!唔敢去街!!!!!!!!!!

:-( :-( ...

What you describes seems you might be 鷔恐症. Go find a doctor 西醫 and find it out first. Don't worry la! If you really are then it's lucky enough you have discivered it early and it can be cured much much more easily. Meantime, if you don't feel comforatable going out, ask somebody, perhaps yuor husband, to go out with you in the night time (after work) to practice it la!

Don't get scared! No matter what sickness it is, it can be cured ga! You are not having cancer, right?:) :)

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發表於 07-9-19 16:30 |只看該作者

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-9-19 15:43 發表

What you describes seems you might be 鷔恐症. Go find a doctor 西醫 and find it out first. Don't worry la! If you really are then it's lucky enough you have discivered it early and it can be cur ...

是否看精神科? 我老公每星期只有1日在家,冇人陪,要靠自己!thank you v much!:-P

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