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發表於 04-1-8 16:57

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

whalebb,

I understand your feeling. I remembered I had a small dog when I small. This was my auntie's dog. I just beyond him/her ( forgot ) only one month. My mom gave him/her back to auntie, because the dog was so naughty. She/he made mess up our home and loudly. Of course, I cried la...

Anyway, your health is important. Don't forgot you have bb inside your body, so don't sad la.

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發表於 04-1-8 17:06

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

helloruby,YM, whalebb & jaan,

I also seperate with my hubby after we got married. On that time, I am not yet move to US, but my hubby need go back to work. The different is I am stilling in HK, I have family and friends with me. In fact, I used to two different place, it maybe I like freedom, so I feel relax, although I miss him. We have no internet, but we had fax machine and phone. Of course, the phone bill is extra expensive.
This was a year 1996 - 1998 Jan.

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發表於 04-1-8 17:40

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Hello, all US mommies ( including now in HK ),

I have something share with all of you. Lately, we ( hubby,I &bb) join cruise to Mexico. This was our first cruise. I felt so good. Bb began to eat solid food and tried more different food in cruise. There had different night show after dinner. The buffet had breakfast,lunch,teatime,dinner,after dinner (siu yeah ). Bb like to play in the swimming pool. My hubby hold her arm and bb seems to swim. They had different theme in different night ( dinner ) Like indonesia night, holland night, bbq night, etc... We also go to shore, but we did not join any tour because we did not want rush our time. The room services, they gave us clean up two times per day, and second time they would put two cholocate in our pillow and a notice about next day program. My bb had her playcrib, so that we had more space to sleep. The ocean was so pretty.

The second share with you, Where are you spend the new year eve? In this new year eve, we went to Chinese restaurant for eve dinner, but the time was after 9:30pm. Because my sis-in-law said the special price was after 9:30pm, so we ate our late dinner until 11:30pm.

New Year morning, we went to Pasadena to see the Roses Parade. Owing to the early morning, so we stayed my sis-in-law home ( near San gabial ). She said we need get up 6am and she already clock the alarm. When the Jan 1 morning, the radio clock " singing", I was the first person to get up and I went to restroom. Do you know what time on my watch? This was 5:xxam. Yes, my sis-in-law's clock is fast one hour. My hubby knew that and he went back to sleep. :-P

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發表於 04-1-8 19:08

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Mrsyip
hey! you are back!!!!
so your second bb??????? Bingo yet????

:D

So how long had you wait for your green card??
I think my hubby case is same as your case.

Hey!! Will you drive to Rowland Height after Jan?
If you do we can meet la!
but I won't drive during my pregnancy. so if you want to meet me. could you give me a ride, ???

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發表於 04-1-9 00:17

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jaan 寫道:
Whalebb,
雖然我不是愛犬之人, 亦很明白你們的心情,
任何事有了感情, 要分開時大家一定會痛苦,
包括你們的狗. 但是, 我覺得始終是兒女
最緊要.

yes 呀! whalebb, 始終自己身體, 肚內的bb, 同埋囡囡緊要d. 能夠為狗仔找到户好人家收養, 都可以放心喇!

:wave: :wave:

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發表於 04-1-9 01:41

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,

Bingo ??? just see !!! hey... My HK friend said to me, I gave birth my first bb for c-section, so I need let my body recovery fully and then begin the second bb. However; she said at least 2 years. I am not sure her saying, but I met a lady ( she was also gave birth in hospital) she have 3 kids and she also c-section. She said no problem, just a few months and we can go ahead. I just think the different between of chinese and western cuture.

About immigrate to USA, my application was very fast, almost 5-6 months and meet the US consultant, but my health report had trouble. So, my applied period extend to over one year. When I pass the condition and I come the first day ( in US airport immigration, they mark in my passport. This is equal the green card, the expire date is limit. It is because they will send the real green card to your address very quick.

In the HK office-US consultant, when I first met them, the officer attitude was so nice; however; my case had trouble and I met other staff ( after then I met the staff many times but same man, he made me trouble again ) This was my unhappy experience. He treated me so worst. He broke his promise, he let me wait a long time ( just stand in his window, but he ran away ) , the worst thing he did not check my document and just said, the new president will vote soon and your case was too complicated. Additional his double worst attitude, I couldn't believe my eyes to see, he was a middle age man wore shirt and tie, tall and look mix, but he was not respect me. I don't know how to adjective, but he was not stand strick up, his hand under his chin, his arm put in the table, his abdominal curve forward in the table. His mouth (miu miu tsui ) seems 8 8 c 9. I don't know why my case only him to check, there were other staffs. Finally, I got visa because I checked my document for myself for him. I clearly talked to him which page was what document. He didn't like to check, just let me waited. I waited him an afternoon until the last person left was me. He seems afraid the real US consulant. When I swear, his manner change 180 degree. He seems have gentleman. His attitude seems mouse met cat. I faced this bad man almost one year. He made me cried a lot, angry a lot. :-x :-x

I feel ashamed about drive. I have a little heart person. I always scare and I don't know drive. I just take bus or hubby drive me. I know I need face my scare, pls encourage me. When do you come back? Did you buy air-ticket yet? Today I see the ad, air canada from HK-US, just HK$3800. It is so cheap if you don't mind via canada. hey...

In these two days, I am sick, cough, running nose. I dare not close my bb, I wore mask. Now, I felt a little headache. ( woo...woo...) :-(

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發表於 04-1-9 03:06

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whalebb:
I don't really follow a lot of chinese traditions, because i don't know the details... like about your late father... but i will be giving lee si too

i will let you know after I go through the interview ar... will your husband have interview in HK or in LA?

my mom is coming next next sunday, she complains to me that the "little egg" thing is very heavy :-P

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發表於 04-1-9 11:55

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Mrsyip
I will come back at Feb.
So boring!!! I stay home on everyday, because I scare the SARS.
Me too la! I don't drive to FWY

Maybe we can talk on the phone la!!!!
I already applied my hubby for ten months. but still not hear any news yet

How come you didn't complaint him???
My hubby is very worry for the interveiw, becaue he doesn't speaking English well.

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發表於 04-1-9 11:58

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Hayden M
Yes ah!! the little chicken Pan is heavy. My hubby used to bring the pan to post office. The postage is $280. He didn't have enough money so didn't mail. Finally, you mother is coming to USA. How nice!!!

My hubby will have the interview in HK.

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發表於 04-1-9 12:04

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Jaan, Helloruby and Mrsyip
I already solved my problem.
My friend will take my dog. She loves my dog so much. 我和老公也相量過, 覺得牠跟my friend is better than living with us. 第日也可以在internet 見牠.

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發表於 04-1-9 13:05

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Whalebb,

有頭好人家收養，咁就一天都是光晒。

哈哈！我用九方打，不過打左好久啊！好多字唔識打。

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發表於 04-1-10 18:19

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whalebb,

congratuation you and your dog. Hope your body health and hope your dog comfortable his new master.

Isn't the SARS come back to HK? I do not hear this news???

Tell your hubby, don't worry because in HK office, it is almost speak cantonese, only little english. pls tell him "ADD GAS"

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發表於 04-1-10 18:54

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Mrsyip
SARS already back to China and the Virnus is more harmful than before. You know about the 自由行............so........I only stay home everyday.
How you met your hubby? He is also from HK????

Jaan
Add oil la!!! U know 速成 is more difficult.
For our next gathering , we go to 女人街食齋好嗎?

YM
就下我地啦! because Rabbit is leaving soon. Don't know when we can meet again! we should take our chance to have gathering !!!!

Hayden M
Anyway, I don't understand why the Chinese tradition need to 守孝 too. Anyway I will pass "Le Se" but who receive my "Le Se" will cry. Because I only Put $10

I am so poor, because spent too much money for my mother and Fat Bean.

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發表於 04-1-11 22:19

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Feel so bad!!!
My hubby will leaving to England earlier than me.
He's leaving at the end of Jan.
So I will be alone :-( :-( :-(

Mrsyip
ok! ka!
我個"山東妹"在08/02 出世
then at 8/03 we started to 造人仔
but of course I went to check up with Dr la.
he told me ok then

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發表於 04-1-12 17:41

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whalebb,

When will be our next gathering??

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發表於 04-1-12 17:51

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whalebb,

Yes, stay home compare go out is safe. take care...

My hubby is HK people. I met him because he visited HK after he graduated. He is my auntie's relatives, she introduced us to know. We are friend and he is so nice. After...

If " shan doo mai " is one year, you start to 'add gas" Isn't 2 for 2 years?

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發表於 04-1-12 17:58

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Hayden,

When is your wedding day? I want share with your happy. Can you post photo to me? I think the Chinese tradition is order by parents. If your parents don't mind, that's easy. My parents are not tradition, but me. hey... Because I like wear Chinese traditional wedding clothing, this is so pretty !!! :-P

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