My situation is more or less the same. My 99 is a 'great actress'. She always 'acts' in front of my husband, showing care to me in front of me, but behind him, she's the opposite. When I gave birth to my daughter 6 years ago, I wanted to 返外家坐月, although they didn't shout in the hospital, but my 99 scolded my mum and said that the baby is theirs! Because I want to give my daughter a normal family, I force myself to be patient. Please believe that you are not lonely!