I agree. As a mother, no more aggressive so a "not busy" secretary is a good job for a working mum 'cos monitoring our kid's homework after work is our main job. We can then relax in the day time.
No la if my job "nature" remains unchanged as I quite enjoy my day time. Secondly, the relationship with my daughters will be better because they will not feel they are under my supervision 24 hrs a day. I can also afford to hire a maid to look after the housework which I hate to do.
although my job is quite nice also make easy money, but I always miss my son. If I don't have the family burden I perfer to take care my son myself. Now I plan to stop working when my son go to primary school, but it just a plan. If the my finance status still have problem then I have to work.
I understand but for me I gradually get used to office life when they grow up day by day. May be because I've a reliable maid. We can also keep pace with the changing world by working. Financially, I can have better support for their extra-curriculum activities 'cos piano lesson, English lesson etc cost quite a lot of money. Fortunately, my two daughters are not studying in private primary school and it did save us a lot for these kinds of expenses.
Education is a big investment.