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發表於 05-3-19 18:22 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Hello, all 40+- Mummy, how are you?
I'm 40+2 also, now join in this team!
Just to say HELLO first.

Why I never see this topic, if not, I joined all of you early!!!

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發表於 05-3-19 19:51 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Dear marthana:

你可能因為忙呀!所以miss呢個topic啦！不過吾緊要喎！而家加入都吾遲呀！我都就黎４２呵！

嘩！好多隻小白兔呀！

betty

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發表於 05-3-19 23:41 |只看該作者

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Badegg，
非常瞭解你嘅心情，我老豆前年都係因為無能力供樓申請咗破產，我地亦愛莫能助，因佢個個仔女都冇能力幫佢供呀。唉，你都唔知我老豆覺得幾冇面，這個肯定是他一生最大嘅挫折。
係呀，而家加息週期才剛剛開始，真係要咬緊牙關去捱呀。不過唔好無晒心機啦, 盡量諗多啲開心嘢，因為日子縂是會過去的，好境逆境都唔會令時間停留，所以我地應該把握現在，想想我們不是比很多不幸的人幸福嗎? 最少我們有家人，有工作，有health, right?

flysss
你講嘅「中年危機」係指失業危機定中招危機(i.e.,好似我咁中年中招懷孕， hehe。不過講開又講，我身邊真係有幾個同我情況類同，年過四十意外懷孕)。講到中年高危失業，其實近這幾年已經多咗公司肯請中年人工作，已前大過三十五歲嘅女人想找份寫字樓工都好難啦。可能因為人口老化，冇咁多後生得嚟又有經驗嘅人吧。啦，我地幾偉大，咁嘅年紀仲去啤多件出嚟，為解決人口老化問題盡一分棉力， hahaha...

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-20 00:03 |只看該作者

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Hi marthana

Welcome 呀! How many kids do you have and how old are they?

Hi All
睇嚟我都仲係最大(年紀)嘅長老喎, 我62年呀。雖然四十三啦, 但係心境都仲係威潔- 33 - 喳, 唔係咁我真係驚同我個小b有好大代溝, 會好似兩婆孫!

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-20 00:06 |只看該作者

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Thank you ~ betty.

forty +:

"為解決人口老化問題盡一分棉力" Oh, you're so great!!!

Though I like children (I have two already), but I'm afraid to have, cos no money, no energy, no time, no patient ...............oh, exhausted!!!

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發表於 05-3-20 00:28 |只看該作者

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EVA22,

Same as you, I'm 兔女郎 too!

Ah, and I live in 香港西區 too! :lol: :lol: :lol:

forty +,

I have two child, elder one is boy 15, younger one is girl 10. Although we are 40+?, anyway, keep our mind young!

Time to sleep, keep young ma!!!

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發表於 05-3-21 09:46 |只看該作者

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Good morning all 40> Mama,where are all of you....?

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發表於 05-3-21 11:52 |只看該作者

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forty+

唉! 你知嘛, 我係一人公司, 什麼事都要我去做, 今次的意外對我來講都係非常非常之意外, 因為本來想4年前想做一個意外出來, 點知點攪都攪唔出, 來到舊年先比這個意外我 , 初時都好頭痛, 個心十五十六咁, 要定唔要好, 但兩公婆坐低諗左成晚, 又問過個女(7歲) 最后都係要留低這個意外。但現在反而好希望佢好快

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發表於 05-3-21 14:29 |只看該作者

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Over Over....

So glad that I found this topic because most of the BK mummy are very young with small kids. Forty+, you are not alone now. I'm also born in 62. I've two girls, one is 11 and the other is 8 and I'm also a working mum. It's really exhausted after work as I have to look after their studies - P5 & P3.

stmummy

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發表於 05-3-21 14:59 |只看該作者

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各位你好!!!
我係 Goodies, 一個上班一族的媽媽；我64出生，有一個14就快15的仔。
好高興見到呢個 topic !!!

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發表於 05-3-22 00:27 |只看該作者

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Welcome the new members， Stmummy and Goodies!

Stmummy，
Though you are also 1962， I bet you must be younger than me - I were born in the first month of the year， hehe. Yes， I could imagine how exhausted you are. When I were still young， 20 something， I also needed to teach my elder daughter which I viewed it a very boring and very 勞氣 job。 Now， after few years， I shall have to this nightmare again。 Today's women are really bionic women， taking both the responsibilities for earning money and looking after the family and kids.

Marthana，
You are a working woman， how come you could chat with us during working time? I could only chat with you before work (9am)， during lunch time and after work ah! By the way, are you confused with Eva and Betty? I guess you mean to chat with Betty though you type Eva???

Sorry all, I am very sleepy thus I typed English instead of Chinese coz it is much faster. But I prefer to communicate in Chinese as it is more 傳神!

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發表於 05-3-22 00:34 |只看該作者

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Grace

Similar case ah! I once tried to have another kid when my elder daughter was still young but was unsuccessful. By then, I decided not to have another one as I bought my first house when she was 7 (need to repay the mortgage and no more money la). And then last year, I pregnant again accidentally, we also have a family meeting for that and my elder daugher support me to keep the baby (without her support, I might not be so determinant to keep the baby).

Actually, two kids are in someway better than one. At least my elder daughter (which we don't have much hope that she could get married as she really act and look like a boy) would not be all alone after I and my husband have gone.

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-22 11:06 |只看該作者

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forty+,

No ah, no ah, I just see once again; Eva222 is my neighbour and Betty she lived in TKO., but both of them are Ms. Rabbit too!

Although I am working in day time, I can chat also; depend on work load. When I have finished a part of my work, I will give myself a break, usually on-line la!

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發表於 05-3-22 11:17 |只看該作者

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Hi all,

I miss this topic cos I'm looking for job.and i feel very unhappy during this time.I hope i can find the job as soon as possible.
I lived in Fanling. I have two child, 10son & 8girl.

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發表於 05-3-22 13:25 |只看該作者

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Marthana

I see. Is Eva 潛咗水, she seldeom come to up these days. I admire that you have such a free job. I could not go online for personal things during office hour and always work under pressure. I am an cow (my 生肖) and really work like a cow, both at work and at home ah...

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-22 13:28 |只看該作者

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Hi Wing,

Welcome 呀! Hope you could find a job soon. I saw from other BK topic a Mami says their company want to hire a project co-ordinator, have you seen it and contact this Mami? When did you quit your last job and why?

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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